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Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham Share New Wedding Details!

On Tuesday, Colton Underwood as confirmed as the next Bachelor. Responses were mixed, but he has to be less controversial than the last dude, right?

Speaking of the infamous Arie Luyendyk Jr., his wedding date with his season's runner-up is looming closer.

And he's giving fans a sneak peek of what wedding guests will soon see for themselves.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham in Portland

On Wednesday, Arie Luyendyk Jr. shared a snap his save the date cards with his fans and followers on Instagram.

"Sending these out this week!" Arie writes in the captions of his photo.

Arie continues, writing: "January can’t come soon enough."

Some might mean that they're looking forward to winter weather after this hellish summer, but Arie is excited about his wedding date.

Take a look:

Arie Luyendyk Jr. & Lauren Burnham - Save The Date

In the process of sharing the card, Arie confirmed the wedding date and location.

This wedding will take place on January 12, 2019 in Maui, Hawaii.

The precise venue is the historic Haiku Mill, so guests can look forward to lush tropical gardens and the ruins of a 150-year-old sugar cane mill.

A wedding in Hawaii for people who don't live there is very much a destination wedding. Some would say that he and Lauren should have sent out these save the dates at least six months in advance, if not earlier.

But we imagine that Lauren is eager to walk down the aisle -- out of fear that Arie might once again change his mind.

Lauren Burnham and Arie Luyendyk Jr. Engagement Photo

Arie also thanked the online marketplace, Minted, for the save the date design.

Arie and Lauren may have fallen in love and even gotten engaged on camera, but they won't be allowing television cameras at their nuptials.

"It’s not your typical beach wedding," the couple recently told The View.

"And it’s a private wedding," they explained. "So not on TV." So all of their teasing about having a TV wedding was for nothing.

Instead of some big, lucrative TV wedding, they'll have "just a close group of friends. Probably 100 guests."

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham Kiss Pic

"Lauren and I flew to the Maldives at The Bachelor and Becca’s request," Arie shared last month on Instagram.

"It’s a conversation that unfortunately won’t be shown," he admitted. "But it was really positive for all of us."

Arie admits: "You can imagine this trip could have been very difficult for Lauren but she has supported and stood by me in all of this. ..."

"I thank and love her everyday because of that," Arie added.

The controversial ex-Bachelor concluded: "We wish Becca all the happiness in the world and can’t wait to see how tonight goes!"

Lauren Burnham and Arie Luyendyk Jr. in the Maldives

While Arie and even Lauren may be supportive of Becca, she was the wronged party, so that's only fair.

A lot of the Bachelor Nation is not yet prepared to forgive Arie for his brutal breakup with Becca. And, quite frankly, a lot of viewers didn't like him before that, either.

Arie's best bet is probably to wait. Eventually, his brand may recover as his antics become more of a distant memory. Time heals all brands, it seems.

On the other hand, if Colton Underwood turns out to be worse as the leading man, it's very possible that fans will gloss over Arie's behavior.

But it's difficult to imagine a less popular Bachelor than Arie happening any time soon.

The Bachelor & The Bachelorette: The Most Shocking Exits Ever!

In the past 15 years, The Bachelor & Bachelorette have given us plenty of shockers, from emotional meltdowns to twists we never saw coming.

Usually, these events result - or stem from - an elimination.

Or a dramatic departure of one's own volition. Or someone being asked to leave by the show itself. Or just a really, really bad breakup.

With the TV cameras rolling, obviously. Not even The Bachelor spoilers or Bachelorette spoilers can prepare you for this kind of drama.

Suddenly it's no surprise that this franchise has left a mark on the genre, airing for more than THIRTY-FIVE seasons, with no end in sight.

The men, women and moments featured on this list made their way onto it for very diverse reasons. Often through no fault of their own.

All provided images we won't soon forget, however ... at least not 'til the next season airs on ABC and we update this list once again.

Where does this week's Bachelorette season finale, and its devastating heartbreak for Blake Horstmann, place in our rankings?

What about this spring's two-part shocker - which saw Becca Kufrin win The Bachelor, only to be dumped for Lauren Burnham?

Or for so many other famous faces from years' past?

Here's a look back at those and other stunning exits in the turbulent, nearly decade-and-a-half history of The Bachelor and The Bachelorette ...

1. DeAnna Pappas AND Jenni Croft

Brad blows everything
The one that started it all: Brad Womack rejected Jenni Croft on his season finale, and looked poised to propose to fan favorite DeAnna Pappas ... who he ALSO rejected! No matter what stunners took place in subsequent years - and we've seen a bunch, including the most recent finale - walking away with nothing and breaking two hearts AT THE FINAL ROSE CEREMONY remains the least expected (and least popular) move in franchise history.

2. Becca Kufrin

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It wasn't just that Arie Luyendyk Jr. got engaged to Becca Kufrin on the finale, then broke it off within a matter of weeks. We've seen that many times before. It wasn't even that he went back to Lauren Burnham, his season's runner-up, in the wake of that broken engagement. Jason Mesnick (scroll down) pulled that one off too. But the way in which Arie ended things with Becca - blindsiding her with cameras rolling, and ABC airing the 40-minute scene uncut - nearly took the top spot on this list. Just savage. Fortunately for Becca, she'll have a chance at love again as The Bachelorette this summer.

3. Jason Mesnick

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DeAnna Pappas became The Bachelorette, and threw fans for a loop by rejecting beloved single father Jason Mesnick, who was so smitten with her, in favor of Jesse Csincsak ... who she stayed engaged to for like two weeks.

4. Melissa Rycroft

Melissa rycroft and jason mesnick
Jason Mesnick upped the ante on both Brad and DeAnna in the finale night shocker department. After getting engaged to Melissa Rycroft on his season finale, he dumped her ... on the After the Final Rose special, in favor of runner-up Molly Malaney! At least this one had a happy ending, though: Jason and Molly are happily married, and have a beautiful daughter.

5. Peter Kraus

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Peter Kraus, the runner-up on Rachel Lindsay's season of The Bachelorette, may well have won the thing if he had just been ready to propose. Many fans felt winner Bryan Abasolo was her real second choice, or even a rebound. We shall see - and also see if Peter will become the next Bachelor.

6. Lauren Burnham

Arie and lauren on after the final rose
Lauren Burnham, of course, ended up engaged to Arie Luyendyk Jr., but not before being dispatched in a season finale twist that triggered his shocking reversal. Lauren had finally opened up to Arie for the first time on their final date, setting off an internal conflict that led him to get engaged to Becca Kufrin while still pining for Lauren.
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Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham: Yes, We’re Still Getting Married!

While those of you who follow The Bachelorette Spoilers already know that Becca Kufrin finds her love (sort of), how is her disgraced ex Arie Luyendyk Jr. doing?

Well, Arie and Lauren announced their wedding date and location -- and their nuptials are only months away.

Now that the scandal of Arie's proposal has died down a little, they've finally taken some engagement photos. Take a look!

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham, Engagement Photo

Arie shared this photo in an Instagram post.

Arie captioned the pic, writing: "One step closer to the wedding :)"

Before you rip on him for being so old that he uses an emoticon instead of an emoji, remember that he's only 36 -- he just looks older.

"This is what life is all about," Arie continues. "Sharing these amazing moments with her."

He then reminds fans of the looming wedding date, writing: "Under 6 months until the big day!"

Lauren Burnham and Arie Luyendyk Jr. Engagement Photo

"It’s now just under six months till I marry this sweet man," Lauren Burnham writes uner her own engagement photo.

Some notice that hers focuses on their intimate bond, while Arie's choice of photo highlights how pretty Lauren is.

"He’s been the biggest blessing in my life," Lauren gushes. "Every single day."

Lauren then includes the tag: "#truelovewins"

If you say so, Lauren.

Lauren Burnham and Arie Luyendyk Jr. Buy a House

Arie and Lauren recently purchased a home together after a lot of considerations.

As you may recall, their first plan was to purchase a home that needed to be remodeled, but apparently Lauren was overwhelmed by it.

That is understandable. Upgrading an entire home only looks neat on television because we see the process in an hour.

So the two of them instead purchased a brand new home together and shared a photo on Instagram to celebrate.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham Kiss Pic

We mentioned that some had viewed their photos with a critical eye, but it may be unfair.

Others have also pointed out that Lauren, in the top engagement photo, is of course posing for a photograph rather than actually exclaiming in delight and joy.

They question how long a relationship is fated to last when one party is obviously so good at faking happiness and enthusiasm.

But honestly? This might be a little critical of Lauren. She does seem to be genuinely happy.

Besides, some argue that certain lies are the glue that holds relationships together.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham with Dogs

After weeks of teasing the idea of a summer wedding, Lauren and Arie finally settled on a date.

Their nuptials are scheduled for January 12, 2019. The ceremony will take place in Hawaii.

That's no summer wedding, but Hawaii's average January temperatures are in the 70s, so it should still be warm enough for everyone wearing a suit to beg for the chill mercy of death.

These engagement photos are a reminder to fans that these two are still together, regardless of what critics say.

They're also continuing their march towards the aisle. January will be here before we know it.

And, despite the circumstances of their engagement, some members of the Bachelor Nation cannot help but wonder if Arie and Lauren will be the ones to beat the odds.

Becca Kufrin: Pulling an Arie After The Bachelorette?!

Becca Kufrin is engaged to the winner of The Bachelorette this season. No big Bachelorette spoilers there. She said so herself.

"It feels so good to say it ... and this time, I think it’s going to stick!” Becca, the former winner of The Bachelor, said ecstatically.

Arie Proposes to Becca

She was referencing, obviously, the fact that she accepted Arie Luyendyk Jr.’s proposal, only to have him dump her on camera.

A huge blessing in disguise, she insisted this spring.

“Looking back, as weird as it sounds, I can really only thank [Arie],” Kufrin said. “It allowed me to go on this new journey."

Indeed it did, and as The Bachelorette spoilers revealed, it did in fact end in an engagement to a man she fell for. Hard.

But ... is there a major, hugely ironic but coming?!

Becca K.

Six weeks after shouting from the rooftops that she's engaged, Becca too might be wondering if she made the wrong choice.

Just as Arie dispatched her for Lauren Burnham after the fact, Kufrin has reportedly put the kibosh on her own wedding plans.

The reason is obvious: She's doubting her pick.

“She was so quick to announce her engagement, but it’s cooled off and she’s not thinking about a wedding,” an insider says.

“She was so confident when she chose him," the source, quoted by In Touch Weekly, adds. "But now she really has regrets.”

The Bachelorette Final Four 2018

Becca never thought she’d have a change of heart about him ... and if you don't know who "he" is, consider yourself SPOILER warned:

Garrett Yrigoyen swept her off her feet from day one, but the more time she shares with him, the more second guessing there is.

"There’s tension when she’s with him ... she’s been acting withdrawn,” the source says, and there's also the scandal aspect.

Having heard about Garrett's social media history and people's reactions to it, it's no surprise she thinks her instincts were off.

Becca Kufrin, Final 6

“Becca thought [her fiancé] was the right choice from what she knew of him during filming,” the source says, but right now?

“She doesn’t think she had enough of an open mind with the [others] ... She spent so much of her time chasing the winner.” 

Ironically, one of the more appealing things about Garrett was that from the get-go, he felt diametrically opposite from Arie.

"He made it clear he wanted to marry her. He didn't seem like the kind of guy who would break her heart after the show,” the source notes.

Garrett and Becca

Nowawadays, “she’s learning things about him that she never knew before,” says the source. “It was all such a whirlwind."

Again, if there's anyone who can relate, it's Arie, says the insider, noting that it's a whole lot different with the roles reversed.

“She thought it would be easy to pick a man she wants to spend her life with, and she’d never have the urge to do what Arie did."

“But it turns out," with the passage of time and introspection, "picking one guy after just six weeks is a lot harder than she thought.”

So will a reeling Becca actually come full circle and drop Garrett for one of his competitors? Or is this just typical cold feet?

That obviously remains to be seen.

For what it's worth, the Oracle of Bachelorette Spoilers, Reality Steve, has not even hinted at such a possibility as of yet.

If it's gone down, or going down the way Arie's season played out after the fact, there's no clear evidence of it right now.

Still, the Arie-Lauren bombshell wasn't dropped until very late in the game, and took everyone off guard, including THG.

We've seen Becca defend Garrett already, while pivoting to the other guys and urging fans to keep an open mind along her "journey."

Straight out of the damage control playbook. Maybe she believes it, and maybe it will work. Maybe this is a total non-issue.

But, Garrett, well ... is still a man who liked a meme suggesting that Parkland shooting survivor David Hogg is a crisis actor.

Anything's possible. Stay tuned.

Arie Luyendyk, Jr.: The Bachelor EDITED Me to Make Me Look Cruel! I Feel BETRAYED!

One can only imagine the betrayal that Becca Kufrin must have felt during Arie's brutal breakup, all captured on camera and broadcast to the world.

But now, Arie is speaking up -- about his decision to dump Becca and propose to Lauren. And the decision to film it.

And as it turns out, Arie says that he feels betrayed -- by the producers. He claims that things were "completely edited."

Arie and Becca on After the Final Rose

In a new interview with GQ, Arie tells the interviewer that he was "haunted" by the thought that, in choosing Becca, he'd allowed his soul mate to slip away.

So he called Lauren on New Year's Eve.

"As soon as I heard her voice," he says.

"I knew that I had to end things with Becca."

Instead of simply breaking things off with Becca, though, Arie apparently went to producers first.

He says that they were the ones who pitched bringing in cameras.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham with Dogs

Arie says that these silver-tongued producers talked him into bringing in the cameras by promising him that this was the best way to move forward.

By filming it, they allegedly told him, he would be able to show the Bachelor Nation that he was just being honest to his feelings while being respectful of Becca's.

Arie says that they told him:

"'Then we can show you going back to Lauren, and people are going to rally behind you because you took this big risk and you did it for love.'"

He says that the producers persuaded him by assuring him that people would be on his side.

"'At the end of the day, people will just want to see you happy.'"

Obviously, very few people are invested in Arie's happiness these days, even though he and Lauren have announced their wedding date and venue.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham, Iceland Trip

"You've got to understand," Arie tells the interviewer. "These people were my friends."

This, he says, is why he trusted them. But he now feels "100 percent" betrayed.

Then, Arie has some damning words to share about the actual breakup scene with Becca.

You know, the one hailed as "the first completely unedited scene in reality television history" by ABC's promotions?

Arie says that this was hogwash.

Arie and Lauren and a Dog

"It was completely edited," he accuses.

The 40 minute segment was agonizing to watch, and he suggests that it was intended to be that way from the beginning.

"I was told to stay on that couch."

We guess that we know what Arie would do if the Milgram experiment were performed today.

"I tried to leave, and then production was like, 'You need to go back inside. She's finally calming down. I feel like you owe it to her to have this conversation.'"

Good advice? Maybe not. But production's job is to make good television, not to be your life coach.

"So then I went back in the house."

He confirms that production tried to discourage him from leaving.

"Yeah. I left, came back. I stepped away from the couch, I went back to the couch."

But the Bachelor Nation didn't see that part.

"They cut out, obviously, production talking to me from 10 feet away."

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Kiss

Arie says that, by editing out their instructions for him to remain, the resulting video "was super unfair to me."

But he does acknowledge that, you know, this is how reality television works.

"It's their job to make it entertaining for people."

It is interesting to hear that Arie is trying to cast of blame to make himself look better.

Just because something was someone else's suggestion doesn't mean that you are blameless for doing it.

And they would have had to try harder to make him look insensitive if he had come across as more compassionate.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham Announce Wedding Date! Location!

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham are here to steal Becca Kufrin's thunder.

Once again.

With Becca set to debut as The Bachelorette this coming Monday, Arie and Lauren went out of their way on Wednesday morning to upstage their nemesis and make a major announcement...

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham with Dogs

The controversial couple has announced its wedding date!

And its wedding location!

(We're mostly kidding about the whole nemesis thing, but Arie did dump Becca on national television after The Bachelor finale and then propose to Lauren on the After the Rose special that same night.)

“We are very excited to tell you guys that we have booked a venue,” Burnham said on The View today. “We’re getting married in Hawaii on January 12th next year!”

Arie then provided a few more details:

“It’s in Maui - it’s at Haiku Mill which has this beautiful, old world feel with a lot of vines and greenery.

"It’s not your typical beach wedding. And it’s a private wedding, so not on TV - just a close group of friends. Probably 100 guests.”

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham in Iceland

Wow. We're actually surprised by this last part of Arie's statement.

Based on the way he and Lauren have acted and a few things they've said, we simply assumed the stars would get married on television.

(Then again, we also assume they won't even make it to the altar because, come on, does any couple who supposedly fell in love on The Bachelor?)

“We’re just really happy with each other and we vibe well together,” Lauren said. “We’re best friends, so we’re just ready for that next step.”

She even said they would take this marital step "tomorrow" if they could, but there's too much to plan for that to be realistic.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Kiss

Arie, of course, proposed to Kufrin to wrap up his season as The Bachelor.

Two months later, he broke up with her... while network cameras rolled.

He then asked for Lauren's hand in marriage, stunning viewers who had witnessed the Becca proposal just an hour or so earlier in real time on their TV.

"It was a big risk to do what I did and I know that it wasn’t a popular decision. But it was a decision I had to make for myself. … I knew that Lauren was the person I was supposed to be with,” Luyendyk Jr. said of the moment.

He continued:

“I never watched the finale, so we don’t really know how that breakup looked on TV. But breakups are hard, and I think that everyone handles it in a different way.

"They say it was unedited, but it was edited. You’re not in control of the editing room and you can’t really control what they show.”

Arie Luyendyk Jr. Looks Sad

No one out there blames Arie if his heart told him to go with Lauren instead of Becca.

But Luyendyk has shaded Kufrin here and there for some reason and he could have chosen to end their engagement in private, as opposed to in front of millions of people.

However, don't expect Arie or Lauren to apologize for how they ended up here.

“Our relationship is so unique and it’s nothing that I’ve ever had before,” Burnham said, concluding today:

“So the fact that he was willing to take that risk and all of America hating him to be with me, that means a lot to me.”

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham: We Bought a House!!

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham have already set the date for their upcoming nuptials. Thanks to some heavy hints, most fans are expecting a TV wedding.

But this controversial couple has some more practical things to address before the world hate-watches their wedding ceremony.

They've bought a house. But choosing the right one wasn't easy.

Love Them or Hate Them...

Speaking to Us Weekly, Arie Luyendyk Jr. discusses buying a house with fiancee Lauren Burnham.

"Buying a house is obviously another huge step in our relationship."

It sure is. It's also considered to be one of the most stressful experiences that a person can undergo.

But Arie sounds thrilled.

"And we are excited to really make this our home."

They settled on a brand new house, for reasons that Arie explains.

"It was built this year and we can’t wait to move in!"

Since the new home has 2,607 square feet of space, we can understand why.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Kiss

The couple apparently looked at nearly 70 properties before settling on the one that they wanted!

Arie and Lauren must have really wanted to be sure that they picked the right house.

(Or maybe just Arie did ... Arie has famously been accused of not liking women who have strong opinions and many in the Bachelor Nation believe that he calls the shots in the relationship)

They apparently considered purchasing a home that would be a real fixer-upper, but Arie says that they ruled that out.

"Lauren was completely overwhelmed."

Which is why they settled on a very new home. It will be less personalized (because they won't be doing a bunch of upgrades right away), but also less of a headache.

They apparently made an offer on the first home before changing their minds, which is starting to look like a pattern for Arie. But perhaps it's just a coincidence.

Arie and Lauren and a Dog

Arie says that it was love at first sight. With the house, we mean. He's clearly less decisive about women.

"From the minute I walked into this house, I had a good feeling."

Lauren apparently took a little longer to fall head over heels for the house that they selected.

But she got heart eyes when she saw the home's master closet.

If you've ever watched any show about renovations or home-buying (or both!), or if you've gone through that process yourself, you know how one feature of an already good home can really make you light up with excitement.

Arie Proposing to Lauren

Us Weekly says that Arie and Lauren also kept their "furry friends" in mind when selecting the house.

To be clear, they mean their dogs, Dallas and Bastain. They're not talking about dudes in fox costumes.

Lauren explains:

"Our dogs are very excited. They are each going to have their own room …"

She doesn't necessarily mean that literally.

"I mean it does have four bedrooms. And, a big backyard to run around in, too."

You know, they say that a lot of Millennials who switch from apartments to houses do so because they're motivated to get large yards for their dogs.

Lauren is a Millennial. Despite looking like a Gen Xer, Arie is on the older side of Millennials, too. Just saying.

Arie and Lauren After the Final Rose

Lauren also talks about how it was totally easy to say goodbye to her friends and uproot her entire existence to go be with Arie.

"Arizona has been a really easy adjustment for me as I’ve moved around my whole life."

She says that Arie's been helping her to adjust to the change in scenery.

"It has been fun exploring the area and Arie is a really good tour guide, so that helps."

There are some who say that human settlements in Arizona should not exist, because of the horrifying weather. But Lauren seems to be fine with it.

"I’ve been making friends and trying to get settled in but we really haven’t been here all that long yet."

Well, she's pretty and she's also famous. Those are two great ingredients for making friends immediately.

Her husband may not be well-liked by the Bachelor Nation, but he's made a name for himself in his hometown.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham: Headed to Marriage Boot Camp?

As Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham's wedding date looms, a lot of fans -- and haters -- can't help but wonder if Arie's going to change his mind again. It's not unprecedented, after all.

However, Arie and Lauren sat down with Dr. Ish and Dr. V from Marriage Boot Camp recently.

Those counselors, experts in relationships and the signs that they are doomed, are dishing on what they observed.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham, Marriage Boot Camp

The controversial couple was spotted dining with Marriage Boot Camp counselors Dr. V and Dr. Ish at the Arizona Biltmore, a Hilton Hotels' Waldorf Astoria resort.

(Disclaimer, the Arizona Biltmore is part of the "Biltmore Hotel" chain, and not affiliated with the Vanderbilt family or the actual Biltmore Estate)

People spoke to the counselors about Arie and Lauren's relationship and what the two experts had observed about the two of them.

Dr. Ish said:

"When I see Arie and Lauren, I see a couple who’s both in love and happy to be together."

He continued, pointing out that this was a special situation that bodes well for thier future.

"Which is great for them because sometimes both of those things don’t always happen at once."

That makes sense. Sometimes people who are in love drive each other up the wall.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham with Marriage Boot Camp Counselors

Dr. Ish continued his assessment, speaking about the nonverbal signals that he had detected between the two of them.

"They held hands and sat close to each other the entire time."

So it doesn't necessarily take an expert to decipher that they are affectionate.

"That body language says to me that they are literally into each other.​"

Dr. V's commentary was a bit more succinct.

"They seemed genuinely happy."

Arie Proposing to Lauren

Arie is the sort of person who looks like he has the voice of a Game of Thrones villain but actually has the voice of a villain from a romantic comedy set at any American beach in 1997.

So we can't say that it was a huge surprise to the Bachelor Nation that he didn't win as huge of a fanbase as some previous stars have during his season.

But until the information first leaked, few suspected that Arie was going to ditch the winner just weeks after he'd proposed to her on camera so that he could go running back to his runner-up.

And no one in their wildest nightmares imaged that Arie would invite ABC's cameras to witness his cruel breakup from Becca Kufrin.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Kiss

But he and Lauren seem genuinely happy with each other.

Based upon the assessment by Arie's ex, Bekah Martinez, it sounds like he weeded out the women who were more assertive.

He settled on Lauren in the end, who was infamous during the season for not having spoken very much in contrast to her fellow contestants.

So it seems safe to say that Arie prefers to take the lead in his relationships. Which ... says a lot about him.

It's really no surprise that Lauren is coming to live with Arie in Arizona instead of the two of them finding a new place to live.

Here's a question: Does she even know anyone else in Scottsdale who isn't Arie?

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham in Iceland

There was a time when Marriage Boot Camp was a show reserved for, you know, couples who were struggling romantically.

These days, it sometimes seems to be about reality couples who want more exposure.

Which could make it a perfect next stop for Arie and Lauren. The Bachelor Nation is huge, and surely at least some of people would tune in, if only to hate-watch.

But this sit-down may have just been a mutually beneficial photo-op and nothing more. Only time will tell.

Besides, at the moment, Arie and Lauren are busy planning their wedding -- they don't really have time to schedule a TV appearance.

Aside from their TV wedding, that is.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham: Wedding Date Revealed!

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and his fiancee Lauren Burnham have made it clear that they intend to get married ASAP

But though they've spoken about possibilities for their upcoming wedding, they haven't announced any concrete plans.

Now, thanks to one fan's snooping, the Bachelor Nation knows some details. Including a wedding date.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham in Iceland

Reddit may be infamous as a cesspool for incels and people with horrifying political views, but it's mostly a gathering place for people with shared interests.

For example, fans who are really, really devoted to The Bachelor. Members of the Bachelor Nation who don't just watch the show, but who actively engage in the online community.

Some of those fans dig up information ... and then these junior detectives share it with the world.

One cyber-sleuth found what appears to be a wedding registry on The Knot for Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham's wedding.

Yes, it includes the date.

Take a look:

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham Registry

Note the date -- June 28th.

That's not even three months from now.

While this isn't confirmed through an official announcement just yet, this was found through a link in Lauren's old registry from her previous engagement.

So it appears to be legit.

What's more, it totally fits with what we've heard about their wedding intentions.

Arie and Lauren and a Dog

For starters, June 28th certainly qualifies as a summer wedding, which is what Lauren ... and Lauren's mother ... have talked about in interviews.

Admittedly, that's only a week into the summer, as this year's Summer Solstice is June 21.

But in Arizona -- pretty much anywhere in Arizona -- it will feel like summer is already in full force.

Additionally, Lauren and Arie have made it clear that they plan to tie the knot soon.

Nothing says soon quite like not even four months after the world saw their proposal.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Kiss

Fans can speculate about why Lauren might be eager to get married. She might, for example, worry that Arie will dump her like he dumped Becca and go back for someone else.

We've already seen Arie's post-Bachelor DMs, because Bekah Martinez is a delight and has zero chill.

Arie, in turn, may have his own reasons for racing to the altar.

Perhaps he's just going along with his fiancee's wishes.

Or maybe he's really just that eager to seal the deal now that he's now, allegedly, found love.

But some can't help but wonder if he's just hoping to capitalize on his fame (or infamy) before it fades. Which would include a TV wedding.

Love Them or Hate Them...

It sounds like Arie and Lauren want a TV wedding almost as much as Lauren's parents do.

A TV wedding could mean that ABC would pick up at least most of the tab -- or perhaps all of it.

Some celebrities actually get paid for the presence of cameras at their nuptials, but Arie and Lauren might not be quite big-league enough for that.

Still ... is the Bachelor Nation going to watch these two tie the knot? If so, will they be hate-watching it?

Or will seeing Becca Kufrin look for love on The Bachelorette make them warm up to Arie and Lauren's relationship?

Because The Bachelorette premieres on May 28 ... exactly one month before the date listed on that registry.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham: Wedding Date Revealed!

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and his fiancee Lauren Burnham have made it clear that they intend to get married ASAP

But though they've spoken about possibilities for their upcoming wedding, they haven't announced any concrete plans.

Now, thanks to one fan's snooping, the Bachelor Nation knows some details. Including a wedding date.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham in Iceland

Reddit may be infamous as a cesspool for incels and people with horrifying political views, but it's mostly a gathering place for people with shared interests.

For example, fans who are really, really devoted to The Bachelor. Members of the Bachelor Nation who don't just watch the show, but who actively engage in the online community.

Some of those fans dig up information ... and then these junior detectives share it with the world.

One cyber-sleuth found what appears to be a wedding registry on The Knot for Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham's wedding.

Yes, it includes the date.

Take a look:

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham Registry

Note the date -- June 28th.

That's not even three months from now.

While this isn't confirmed through an official announcement just yet, this was found through a link in Lauren's old registry from her previous engagement.

So it appears to be legit.

What's more, it totally fits with what we've heard about their wedding intentions.

Arie and Lauren and a Dog

For starters, June 28th certainly qualifies as a summer wedding, which is what Lauren ... and Lauren's mother ... have talked about in interviews.

Admittedly, that's only a week into the summer, as this year's Summer Solstice is June 21.

But in Arizona -- pretty much anywhere in Arizona -- it will feel like summer is already in full force.

Additionally, Lauren and Arie have made it clear that they plan to tie the knot soon.

Nothing says soon quite like not even four months after the world saw their proposal.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Kiss

Fans can speculate about why Lauren might be eager to get married. She might, for example, worry that Arie will dump her like he dumped Becca and go back for someone else.

We've already seen Arie's post-Bachelor DMs, because Bekah Martinez is a delight and has zero chill.

Arie, in turn, may have his own reasons for racing to the altar.

Perhaps he's just going along with his fiancee's wishes.

Or maybe he's really just that eager to seal the deal now that he's now, allegedly, found love.

But some can't help but wonder if he's just hoping to capitalize on his fame (or infamy) before it fades. Which would include a TV wedding.

Love Them or Hate Them...

It sounds like Arie and Lauren want a TV wedding almost as much as Lauren's parents do.

A TV wedding could mean that ABC would pick up at least most of the tab -- or perhaps all of it.

Some celebrities actually get paid for the presence of cameras at their nuptials, but Arie and Lauren might not be quite big-league enough for that.

Still ... is the Bachelor Nation going to watch these two tie the knot? If so, will they be hate-watching it?

Or will seeing Becca Kufrin look for love on The Bachelorette make them warm up to Arie and Lauren's relationship?

Because The Bachelorette premieres on May 28 ... exactly one month before the date listed on that registry.

Arie Luyendyk: Sorry for Acting Like a Jerk… Again!

Arie Luyendyk Jr. is getting really good at this apology thing.

The unpopular Bachelor star has been issuing mea culpas for weeks, it seems, ever since he shattered Becca Kufrin's heart on national television to wrap up the latest season of this ABC reality show.

Arie and Lauren and a Dog

This time around, however, Arie did not blindside his fiancee with a break-up speech in front of network cameras.

Instead, he teamed up with his second fiancee to pull a lame, unoriginal and, according to some, offensive prank on Twitter followers this past Sunday.

In honor of April Fool's Day, Arie and Lauren Burnham set out to play a joke on their shrinking number of fans.

Luyendyk shared a photo of someone's baby bump, implied it belonged to Lauren and Tweeted:

"Secrets finally out, we have a bunny in the oven! @laurenburnham91."

Take a look below at the picture that accompanied this caption:

bunny in oven

Just over an hour after uploading this image, Arie copped to the ploy, simply writing "APRIL FOOLS" and likely thinking he was the funniest person on the planet.

But many people out there disagreed.

Because infertility is sadly a common problem in America, a handful of critics on the Internet did not think this was a topic to base a joke around.

There are millions of women who would give absolutely anything to actually have a bun in their oven...and here is Arie, just having a grand ole time at their expense.

So the argument by quite a few social media users went, with one person referring to Lauren and Arie as "disgusting" and others adding:

hating on Arie

"You really are a douche canoe if this is an April fools [sic]!!" wrote another displeased commenter.

(Editor's Note: Based on the way Arie treated Becca, many would say he's a douche canoe regardless of this prank. But we digress.)

After initially blowing off the backlash, Luyendyk later jumped back on Twitter yesterday and recognized that he messed up, writing:

I do have sympathy for women struggling from infertility. My April Fools prank was in no way meant to offend women who struggle with that.

I apologize if you were effected personally by my post.

arie apology

That's probably enough now, right?

We understand why this is a very personal and sensitive issue for folks out there, but we don't doubt Arie and Lauren meant no harm by their joke.

They've hopefully learned some kind of lesson and should probably err on the side of being as sensitive as possible in general, considering how they're viewed by most Bachelor viewers after the finale.

Maybe take a social media hiatus, guys.

There's little good that can be done by you making your presence felt strongly in the public sphere these days.

We could all use a cooling off period from these two, no matter what you think of their pregnancy prank, couldn't we?

Arie Luyendyk and Lauren Burnham: Utterly Destroyed for April Fool’s Pregnancy Joke!

Note to Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham:

There are appropriate April Fool's Day jokes to make regarding pregnancy...

... and there are inappropriate April Fool's Day jokes to make regarding pregnancy.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Kiss

Next time, ask The Hollywood Gossip for advice, okay?

On Sunday, the most controversial Bachelor-based couple of all-time stepped in scalding hot water when it joked that Burnham was expecting.

It wasn't just a mere, passing joke, either.

It can replete with an alleged baby bump photo and everything.

“Secrets finally out, we have a bunny in the oven! @laurenburnham91,” Arie wrote on Twitter alongside an image of a female, presumed to be his fiancee, clutching what looked like a baby bump.

See for yourself here:

bunny in oven

Not even two hours later, however, Arie let followers in on his unoriginal joke.

APRIL FOOLS, he quickly Tweeted, barely even giving the prank time to go viral.

kidding!

But it went viral enough, apparently, because plenty of Internet users found it incredibly offensive and insensitive -- and they let Arie and Lauren have it online.

Big time.

“You both are disgusting," wrote one individual, adding:

"As someone who struggles with fertility and would love nothing more than to have a baby this is so offensive."

That was the basic theme of all the backlash; how Arie and Lauren turned a serious personal issue for millions of women into a source of parody.

"Come on. be better than that," another person wrote, explaining herself thusly:

"it’s not a joke for many struggling families to get pregnant, it’s extremely expensive and it’s heartbreaking. I wish nothing but the best for Arie and Lauren but this is not funny, it’s cruel."

Here's a look at a few similar opinions shared on social media about this topic:

hating on Arie

Arie, of course, is no stranger to receiving hate over the Internet.

He selected a different woman from Lauren on the finale of The Bachelor this season, only to them dump her in the most dramatic fashion possible and then propose to Lauren a night after said finale aired.

It was bonkers!

And while some may think the reaction to their April Fool's Day prank was a bit over-the-top, it's understandable why so many people have simply had it with this couple.

They'd be best served to just remain silent for awhile.

Instead, they are in our face at all times with televised marriage talk and very bad jokes.

Nor do Arie and Lauren appear to be feel guilty about this distasteful Tweet, either.

dutch baby

Seemingly in response to the backlash, backlash, Arie shared the above photo of a recipe on his Instagram story and wrote;

“Sorry if you were offended, but we really are making a Dutch Baby.”

That's just painfully insincere and even more painfully unfunny.

We wonder now how fans will react when Lauren really does get pregnant, a development she expects to happen at some point with her lame fiance.

“We’re both very excited about marriage and starting a family,” Burnham previously told People Magazine.

“If we get lucky, maybe we’d have twins!” Arie said in this same interview.

And if we get lucky, maybe we'll never hear from Luyendyk again.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham: We’re Getting Married ASAP!

Lauren Burnham has only been engaged to Arie Luyendyk Jr. for a short time, but she's already been talking about the idea of a TV wedding.

And so is Arie. And so is Lauren's mother.

From this new interview, it sounds like this controversial couple is racing to the altar.

Love Them or Hate Them...

In the new issue of Life & Style, Arie and Lauren reveal a lot about where their relationship is headed.

And while it's no surprise that the couple who became engaged on international television is planning to get married, it sounds like they're eager to tie the knot.

36-year-old Arie muses that he and his bride-to-be might tie the knot outside of the U.S.

"We might do a destination wedding."

Well, since Minnesota is off-limits and given how the couple is generally viewed by the Bachelor Nation, maybe that's for the best.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham in Iceland

Lauren Burnham's mother, Pamela, has her own aspirations for the couple's wedding.

"I hope it will be in the summer," she says. "Lauren's on cloud nine with Arie."

There are people in this world who (for reasons that are mystifying to others) enjoy summer weather. Perhaps she just thinks that it would make for a lovely wedding season.

But one cannot help but wonder if Pamela is thinking less about the weather and more about hoping that her daughter doesn't become just another dumped fiancee by the notoriously indecisive Arie.

True, Pamela doesn't say "this" summer, but ... considering how eager this couple sounds, that might be her agenda.

Arie and Lauren say that they're planning on a wedding in August of September. Autumn doesn't begin until September 22nd, so Pamela might just get what she wants.

Arie and Lauren After the Final Rose

It looks like Arie and Lauren are pushing the narrative that they're not so unpopular after all, actually.

"I thought we would get a lot more backlash," Lauren admits.

Arie jumps in to reinforce that, saying:

"Since we've been out in public the last few days, people have been really supportive. It’s been really sweet."

Of course, since the two of them have been avoiding social media, they're not really seeing what fans have been saying about them.

(That hasn't stopped the two of them from posting to social media, including that time that they shamed gym patrons)

There are celebrities whom you wouldn't save from falling off of a cliff, but most -- even the ones that you dislike -- would elicit excitement and well wishes from people who are heavily critical of them.

It's called politeness, folks.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham, Iceland Trip

Life & Style delves into the possibility that the couple might have a TV wedding, with their insider revealing:

"They'd love to get married on TV because it would be a continuation of their love story."

"They want viewers to be able to see the next chapter of their journey."

Oh, and if they did have a TV wedding, it wouldn't be for free -- it would mean that ABC would pay for most if not all of the wedding.

When Life & Style asked Lauren's mother, Pamela, about the idea, she was enthusiastically supportive.

"That would be wonderful. My husband's probably going to jump up and down at that thought!"

Arie and Lauren... Together!

But they shouldn't count on that -- insiders reveal that ABC might not want to film the wedding.

Arie and Lauren have been the targets of a huge amount of backlash (even if they haven't seen it), and the network might be reluctant to gamble on viewers hate-watching it.

Advertisers might feel similarly.

But a lack of a TV wedding wouldn't mean that they don't get married.

Even if the whole world is disgusted with Arie, it sounds like Lauren's parents really like him. We're sure that Lauren's friends are supportive, too.

That, for her, is going to be what matters more than backlash.

Of course, that's assuming that Arie doesn't change his mind again and go running back to yet another ex. We all saw how Arie slid into Bekah Martinez's DMs.

Arie Luyendyk Jr., Lauren Burnham Ridicule Strangers at the Gym, Think They’re All Funny Now

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and his beautiful bride-to-be Lauren Burnham have finally found a way to win the admiration of those who resent them.

Just kidding! They've decided to use social media to shame people at the gym.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham, Iceland Trip

And yes, that includes recording total strangers just so that they could ridicule them. Ugh.

So, following Arie's brutal breakup with Becca Kufrin ... which audiences saw right before being treated to the sight of Arie proposing to Lauren Burnham ... Arie and Lauren fled the country.

Those were Arie's words, partially in jest. The two of them headed off for an Iceland adventure.

They are, in all seriousness, probably having an easier time as a newly engaged couple while in Europe than they would in the U.S. It's not that other countries don't watch The Bachelor, but ... they're going to run across fewer haters in Iceland.

(It's a good thing that they weren't planning on vacationing in Minnesota, where Arie is banned ... sort of.)

Arie Luyendyk Jr. Shames Spanish Gym Users

They might have less luck avoiding haters in Spain, however.

Because Arie and Lauren filmed themselves and some Spanish gym patrons ... for the express purpose of ridiculing total strangers who were just minding their own business at the gym.

In his Instagram story, Arie zeroed in on gym-goers who are exercising in brightly colored shorts.

"This is how they work out here in Spain," Arie says.

He seems totally floored by the clothing.

"What is he wearing?"

A Kiss for Lauren

And to no one's surprise, unfortunately, Lauren seems to follow his lead, saying:

"I cannot handle it."

Anyone else reminded of a certain body-shaming Playmate who snapped a nude pic of an older gym patron just so that she could ridicule the woman's figure online? Sure, that was nude, but the principle is similar.

One prevailing theory is that this is the couple's attempt to re-brand themselves as "funny."

(You might be surprised at how many people in the world think that you can just decide to be funny.)

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham in Iceland

It does seem like the two of them are hoping to be the late Joan Rivers, or possibly the infamous muppet duo Statler and Waldorf.

Instead, their grating sense of "humor" comes across like whoever writes Mike Huckabee's tweets.

As one fan wrote on reddit:

"He’s trying so hard to craft a narrative for them after the season but just isn’t smart or self-aware enough to successfully pull it off."

So, if this is a rebranding attempt, they need to ... try something else.

Other members of the Bachelor Nation, however, have other theories about what was behind this poorly conceived stab at humor.

Arie's Second Proposal

This may have had nothing to do with branding, one fan suggests, and may have everything to do with character.

"Um... has anyone thought that maybe he and Lauren are just privileged a--holes?"

That person might be right.

Fans were generally horrified.

"God they are such nasty people. Who makes fun of strangers to their large Instagram followings? Wtf."

The ire isn't directed solely at Arie, either. Lauren was part of this, too.

"They are seriously irredeemable."

A few fans seem to believe that Lauren is actually to blame for this.

"She seems like a mean girl and it really rubs off on him."

Lauren struck many viewers as a somewhat quiet person and as a follower rather than an instigator.

It's curious to see people believe that she is guiding Arie's behavior rather than the other way around.

Bekah Martinez, who got to know Arie pretty darn well, assessed that Arie prefers to be in charge in his relationships.

But maybe they're both insensitive jerks.

Becca Kufrin: Arie is a Giant Huge Liar!!!!!

Arie ended his season of The Bachelor by choosing Becca Kufrin ... and then, a few weeks later, calling ABC so that their cameras could watch for 25 brutal minutes as he broke up with her.

Since then, Arie's tried to explain that away -- claiming that he did all of that for Becca. So that she could still be liked and so that she could become the next Bachelorette.

In the video below, Becca doesn't sound like she's buying that. At all.

Becca kufrin the bachelorette rose

It's true that Becca Kufrin is the new Bachelorette. That season is currently in production, and she'll sort through a a crowd of suitors to find the man of her dreams.

Or, at least, to find a man who's better than Arie Luyendyk Jr. So ... just about any man at all. Even the guy in the chicken costume.

(If you're not familiar with that goofiness, you'll get a glimpse in the video below)

But ... did Arie really break up with her for 25 agonizing, unedited minutes on camera just so that he could make it clear to audiences that he'd ended the relationship and to let her star on The Bachelorette?

Plenty of folks have called B.S. on Arie's explanation.

Becca has her doubts as she tells Entertainment Tonight: "Well, that's news to me!"

Becca on the bachelor after the final rose

In fact, Becca doesn't believe that Arie planned it out like this at all.

"I don't think he ever expected me to be [the Bachelorette], or how everything played out."

Hindsight is twenty-twenty. It's easy to claim that you planned for things to work out a certain way, after the fact. 

Especially when you realize that the audiences found your actions to be cruel, and when they can't imagine what would have possibly motivated you to go out of your way to capture it all on film.

"So that's his side," Becca says. "I don't know."

That's ... nicer than she needs to be, all things considered.

Becca kufrin is ready

Becca and Entertainment Tonight also note that Arie claims that he plans to watch Becca's season.

(First of all ... wow. Second of all, we have to wonder how Lauren Burnham feels about that? Though critics might say that Lauren feels however Arie tells her to feel)

As you may recall, Arie's ex Emily Maynard said that she didn't plan to watch Arie's season ... though she had enough to say afterwards that it sounds like she caught an eyeful of the finale, at the very least.

Becca's response to hearing that Arie may be watching her season is, initially, an awkward "meh."

But she does elaborate, saying:

"I mean, i figured. Actually, we had conversations, back when we were together, like: 'Who do you think it could be as the next Bachelorette?'"

And so she assumed that her status as his ex wouldn't deter him from watching.

"So I figured he would watch the show."

Becca kufrin bachelorette bouquet

There's no telling if the knowledge that Arie may be watching will impact Becca or play on her thoughts during filming.

But ... it has to, right? Knowing that you're on camera is not the same thing as knowing that your ex is one of the millions tuning in.

So far, from the few glimpses that the Bachelor Nation has gotten from Becca's season, we know a few tidbits from her first night.

-Becca is wearing a stunning white dress

-One of the men has his hair in a "man bun," which is literally just a bun that does not need a gendered prefix

-One of the men is in a chicken suit and ... people have so many questions about that

Something to consider as we watch this new season of The Bachelorette when it begins in May is that Becca has fresh emotional wounds from her horrible Bachelor breakup.

It's difficult to say how this will impact her.

She may be very wary of her suitors for what may strike audiences as minor flaws or even favorable statements.

When you've known betrayal as Becca has, it's easy to see red flags everywhere.

At the same time, it may be that, compared to Arie, a lot of sub-par men could end up looking like princes.

We'll all have to tune in and find out.

 

Becca kufrin arie is lying about wanting me to be the bacheloret

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham: First Iceland, Then a TV Wedding!

The infamous Arie Luyendyk Jr. and his fiancee, Lauren Burnham, have "fled the country." Those are Arie's words.

Specifically, the two have embarked on a trip to Iceland where they can leave their past -- mostly just Arie's brutal breakup with Becca Kufrin -- behind them.

But before long, the two of them will be back ... and looking to get married.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham in Iceland

Arie shared this happy photo on both Twitter and Instagram.

On Twitter, she shared it with a slew of others (below) from his and Lauren's trip to Iceland, and wrote:

"Officially fled the country." He followed that text with the least fitting use of a halo emoji that we've ever seen.

On Instagram, his caption got a touch more personal. He wrote:

"Posted this because I sent this to my mom and she said she’s never seen me happier. So much beauty here in Iceland including this one."

By "this one," his blandly pleasant caption means Lauren. Who is, of course, very beautiful.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham, Iceland Trip

E! reports that, per their source, Arie and Lauren went to Iceland because they needed a break from being on television.

"They wanted to get away from the madness and have a real normal vacation just the two of them as a newly engaged couple."

People watch The Bachelor -- even the American version -- in plenty of places, all over the world. But ... it doesn't have nearly the sort of cultural omnipresence in Iceland.

In the US, the franchise is so ubiquitous that Saturday Night Live can parody it as part of their political satire.

Had Arie and Lauren decided to spend these next two weeks in the US, they would have been more or less under house arrest thanks to public attention.

There's nothing wrong with romancing each other at home and living on takeout, but given the couple's current fame (and Arie's current infamy), they'd have to worry about unprofessional delivery drivers asking them questions or asking for a selfie.

In Iceland, they can be a little less high-profile and enjoy a visit to one of the most gorgeous countries on the planet.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham in Iceland

The source continues, however, talking about the couple's future plans.

And it sounds like they won't remain TV-shy for long.

"Although there has been a lot of backlash surrounding Arie, the couple is really pushing for a TV wedding."

Well, Arie proposed on camera. They might as well tie the knot the same way.

A lot of people would tune in to watch ... or possibly to hate-watch. Some might wonder if Arie will have yet another on-camera change of heart.

"Lauren has been telling everyone that she is so excited to get married and wants it to happen very quickly."

And perhaps Arie is on board with that rush to the altar.

"After everything that they have been through, they are ready to just seal the deal and spend forever together."

Unless Arie changes his mind again, anyway.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham, Iceland Trip

Realistically, the media frenzy surrounding these two and the story of how they came together will die down over time.

Oh, they'll always be interesting, but people will process Arie's absolutely bonkers, unedited breakup with Becca.

Before long, of course, it will be Becca's time to shine -- because she'll be the next Bachelorette.

Maybe she'll find a man she deserves.

And maybe the Bachelor Nation will find the man they deserve and actually want as the next Bachelor.

Love Them or Hate Them...

In the mean time, we guess that Arie's finally settled on the woman he wants.

He might not change his mind. Lauren was noted for not saying much during this past season.

Bekah Martinez says that Arie isn't mature enough to get married, and revealed that he seemed to want to whittle down his contestants to the least assertive women who were more likely to go along with whatever he wanted.

Maybe he's found that in Lauren.

If they're both truly happy with their arrangement together ... more power to them. We guess.

We hope that, at the very least, Lauren enjoys her time in Iceland.