Amber Baltierra Pens "Scary," Inappropriate Birthday Tribute to Carly

Last week, Tyler Baltierra penned a touching poem to honor 13-year-old Carly on her birthday.

He and Catelynn Lowell made the best choice for her that they could, but adoption is complicated and so are emotions.

Tyler’s troubled sister Amber, however, seems to be struggling with the carefully laid boundaries around Carly.

Amber made a post of her own, vowing to “have a relationship” with her niece.

Amber Baltierra’s very public social media post is getting a lot of attention.

“My niece is 13 today y’all,” she began.

“Happy birthday Carly,” Amber continued. So far, so good, right?

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“I legit can’t wait to have a relationship with you,” Amber wrote.

“Make today the best one yet,” she added.

While that tribute was a public post and not a reply, it was not really the idea of Carly seeing it that angered fans — it was that she wrote it at all.

“That seems like she feels like she’s entitled to a relationship with her,” observed one commenter on Reddit.

“Pretty selfish and inappropriate,” the redditor described, “not to mention immature.”

The commenter added: “I wouldn’t want a relationship with Amber if I [were] Carly.”

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“Tyler’s family being inappropriate and creepy in regards to their relationship with Carly?” remarked another.

That commenter continued: “I’m shocked I tell you, shocked!”

That is, for the record, absolutely dripping with sarcasm.

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“It’s disgusting and inappropriate on so many levels,” another Reddit user wrote.

“Carly biologically is her niece,” the commenter acknowledged, “but that’s it.”

The redditor pointed out: “She’s never met her or spoken to her.”

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“Amber is a STRANGER to Carly,” a user wrote.

“And,” the redditor continued, “to have Carly potentially see this one day (in my opinion) would scare her.”

The commenter described: “This is borderline obsessive and stalker…”

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Others held more subdued opinions but were nonetheless unhappy.

Multiple commenters noted that Amber had very clearly “crossed some boundaries” both in the post and in her own mind.

Others felt for Brandon and Teresa Davis, feeling that Amber’s post was “disrespectful” to them as her adoptive parents.

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Amber has been troubled for some time.

It is no secret that Tyler’s family has had issues — and he has worked very hard to overcome his own share of emotional and psychological baggage.

Amber only recently regained custody of her own children, and fans have long worried that she may be once again under the influence.

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Her post, however, could be the simple result of a lack of boundaries.

You don’t need to drink (or anything else) to cross some lines, especially when it comes to family.

People have been trampling all over each other’s comfort zones by making tasteless statements about relatives for millennia.

But for an adopted child, or anyone else who has complicated childhood custody issues, knowing that there’s a relative out there with an imaginary relationship with you is … weird.

Carly is thirteen. She is certainly old enough that at least some of what is said about her likely trickles back to her.

Maybe Amber wasn’t thinking about that. Maybe that’s exactly what she was thinking. Either way, it’s not responsible or appropriate.

Amber Baltierra: Troubled Sister of Teen Mom OG Star Resurfaces With Cuts, Bruises on Face

Earlier this year, Teen Mom fans grew concerned upon hearing that Amber Baltierra had relapsed.

Tyler Baltierra’s sister seems to be repeating past struggled, despite recently regaining custody of he rkids.

In a new photo, she has resurfaced … and her appearance is raising alarm bells across social media.

Amber’s face displays what appear to be a number of injuries … and fans are worried sick.

Photos of Amber Baltierra are few and far between — at least, the photos made public are.

Following Amber’s alcohol addiction relapse in the first half of this year, fans wondered when they’d see or hear from her again.

Unfortunately, this frightening image is the last thing that anyone had hoped to see of Tyler’s sister.

Amber Baltierra appears with multiple facial injuries (August 2021)

The 34-year-old appears to be covered in bruises and cuts in the picture, which was shared on Reddit.

We cannot see her arms and legs, let alone her torso, in this image, to assess whether she has similar injuries there.

But the facial injuries are more than enough cause for alarm all by themselves, especially since they remain unexplained to the public.

Sometimes, a single accident, like a fall from a bicycle or down a set of stairs, can result in multiple injuries.

Since Amber does not appear to have just one single wound, fans on social media hope that she was in one single accident that caused all of the marks.

The alternative explanation would mean that she has sustained multiple separate injuries, which has even more troubling implications.

Tyler and Amber both grew up as the children of an addict.

Tyler has been open, on and off of Teen Mom OG, about his older sister’s struggles.

Right now, he and Catelynn are expecting their fourth daughter together — literally, any day now.

Earlier this year, Teen Mom OG aired the moment when Tyler was informed about Amber’s relapse.

His mother, Kim, told him and Catelynn that Amber was drinking again.

Understandably, the 29-year-old father did not take it well, exclaiming “Oh, f–k.”

Tyler has said that his sister likes to do what he calls “indulge in happiness.”

However, his mother is concerned that Amber is right on the path once trod by Butch, whose addiction issues are a familiar topic to fans and viewers.

Tyler’s concern was about how Amber’s children may feel during her struggles.

After all, Tyler lived that in his own childhood, and has not forgotten his own addict father’s absence.

“As a kid, you feel like what’s wrong with me? I’m just irritated with it. Why are you not putting me first?” Tyler reflected.

“Why are you not here enough?” he recalled wondering. “Why don’t you want to be with me and hang out with me every weekend, and go get high? It doesn’t make sense.”

Fortunately, Tyler has managed to build a happy life with Catelynn.

While we can’t say that the step-sibling-to-spouse pipeline is always a recipe for joy, it seems to work for Tyler, Catelynn, and their daughters.

They are parents to 6-year-old Novalee, 2-year-old Vaeda, and of course first welcomed 12-year-old Carly, whom they wisely placed for adoption as an infant.

Obviously, Tyler and Catelynn have had their ups and downs.

As is often the case, the same path that leads someone to become a parent in high school also leaves mental health scars.

These two have come a long way as parents and as people.

Unfortunately, despite having made progress in the past, Amber has had significant struggles as an adult.

In 2019, Tyler’s now-34-year-old sister was arrested and charged with assault.

A year earlier, she went to rehab, years after a 2013 drug paraphernalia arrest that led to her spending 20 days behind bars.

Amber is a mother of two children, and posted about them at the time.

“Mommy loves you two more than you guys may know right now… You both deserve nothing but the best and I will give that to you,” she wrote.

“I’m gonna miss you these 90 days,” Amber expressed at the time. “Just know I love you both with every fiber in me.”

In June of 2018, custody of Lexis and Jordan was awarded to Amber’s ex, Matthew Bell.

Amber’s family was awarded “some parenting time” by the Michigan family court, including visits to Amber in Texas.

This news came just weeks after Amber’s rehab checkin that year.

However, late last month, the court found that Amber and Matt must now share temporary joint legal and physical custody of Lexix and Jordan.

The parents are now alternating weekends in what sounds like a complicated arrangement.

Obviously, the safety of Lexis and Jordan always comes first. Without knowing how Amber sustained her injuries, it is unclear if anything will change for her custody arrangement.