90 Day Fiance Kind of Sucks: Why is the Franchise Alienating Fans?

Recently, the 90 Day Fiance franchise has made some weird choices. And fans are noticing.

From rewarding the worst villains to airing two spinoffs back-to-back to greenlighting a new spinoff that no one asked for … what’s going on?

Simply put, a lot of viewers have expressed a growing distaste for the franchise — even if they still love some of the cast, old and new.

Why does 90 Day Fiance seem worse than it’s ever been?

Angela Deem looms menacingly behind Big Ed Brown. It’s the clash of the franchise villains. (TLC)

Reality TV villains are sometimes as key to a show’s survival as they are to real TV — that is, scripted stories.

Sometimes, they’re fun to watch. Often, they’re fun to hate.

But 90 Day Fiance has been leaning in to certain malefactors way too much and for far too long.

During the Season 4 Tell All special of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way, Yohan Geronimo menacingly said that wife Daniele Gates could have ‘all the friends she wants” because he was done with her. But was he? (TLC)

There reaches a point where hating them as they deserve is just a moral obligation. It’s not fun anymore.

There’s a difference between someone who stirs the pot and a scumbag who makes the world a worse place just by being in it.

Real Housewives is an example of a show that knows how to have a fun villain. 90 Day Fiance seems to have lost sight of that.

On Wednesday, June 21, 2023, Usman “Sojaboy” Umar took to Instagram to celebrate the birthday of his new girlfriend, Kiera. (Instagram)

And it feels like there are people who are counting on their infamy getting them to return for more seasons.

Up to a point, it makes sense. A polarizing cast member — one with many fans and many detractors — is ratings gold.

But if people just hate seeing someone, that’s not entertainment. And in the case of abusive relationships, like Angela and Michael, it’s difficult to watch.

(TLC)

On a fairly closely related topic, there’s the repetition of it all.

First up, we see a lot of the same people with the same partners who keep repeating the same mistakes.

They seem … stuck in an endless loop. We’re not talking about the regular ups and downs of a relationship before new milestones or before a breakup. Because nothing ever changes.

Notorious jerkwad Big Ed Brown demands that Liz Woods return her engagement ring to him on the spot. He felt that she wasn’t supportive enough when people gave him honest criticism. Classic Ed! (TLC)

A big reveal and various twists and turns before an engagement are one thing. That’s life!

When it turns into a cycle that repeats itself, many viewers get sick of it.

On a scripted show, we’d be talking about how frustrating and insulting “character resets” can be. In real life? It’s sad, repetitive, and boring.

Sumit Singh snapped this couple selfie with his wife, Jenny Slatten, while the two advertised their happily ever after to fans and followers. (Instagram)

Speaking of repetition, we also have to talk about repeated storylines.

(We’re not complaining about Jenny and Sumit specifically … but what happened to them has now happened to others)

India is a country of 1.4 billion people. And yet we have now “met” three couples where an American woman dates an Indian man and has the exact same problems.

90 Day Fiance: The Other Way Season 4 star Rishi Singh shared this photo featuring Jen Boecher at the very end of April in 2023. (Instagram)

In each case, like Jen and Rishi on The Other Way Season 4 and like Kimberly and TJ on Season 5, the man has an overbearing family.

And, in each case, the American woman is totally unprepared to essentially surrender her adulthood and personhood for her (potential) new mother-in-law.

30-year-old Kimberly is from Alabama. 33-year-old Tejaswi “TJ” is from India. 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way Season 5 will have many surprises for Kimberly, but not so many for viewers who’ve seen stories like theirs play out. (TLC)

These aren’t identical couples, and their struggles aren’t identical.

But it’s repetitive and frankly insulting to India (a massive country full of many types of people).

And this is just one example of the “new couple, same problem” phenomenon.

Elizabeth Potthast and Andrei Castravet speak to the confessional camera. (TLC)

And then we have the fame-seekers.

Obviously, anyone who shows up on reality television at all is someone who wants to be there. Or someone doing a favor for a friend. (Or a child who has no choice in the matter until they turn 18 or family court intervenes)

But there are people who are so clearly on the show in order to boost their aspiring careers as rappers or … children’s song singers … which feels inauthentic.

Elizabeth Potthast and Andrei Castravet have seemingly gone to war with almost everyone in her family. Some more than others. (TLC)

Speaking of authenticity, there are people who accuse the show of being “scripted.” It’s not, but we can understand the confusion.

The show casts a wide net and picks people who are going to have, for the most part, bonkers drama (with a few gems in the mix for balance). Producers might nudge things. And editing can be extremely deceptive.

Lately, maybe they’ve cast too many bonkers people. And some of the editing has been unjustifiably dishonest.

Tyray Mollett was really going through it on screen. But he kept fighting through his denial, slowly learning the truth — even if it was obvious to everyone else. Poor guy. (TLC)

That said, we should note that 90 Day Fiance does not use a script.

Producers will lie to cast members, or at least know more than they reveal. They might even suggest things.

After all, most people have conversations in their living room. So producers will suggest that they repeat these chats for the cameras in more interesting locations.

Alina Kasha Offers Apology: Let Me Explain Why I Thought the N-Word Was Okay!
Taking to YouTube, Alina Kasha of 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days Season 5 offered an apology and an explanation for her past use of racist slurs. (YouTube)

That leads us into a related topic: the show simply does not treat cast members equally. And we’re not talking about screen time or pay.

90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days Season 5 included Alina Kasha and Mike Berk on the cast.

Alina’s old racist posts surfaced. The show fired her, editing her out of the rest of the season.

Mike Berk, Alina Kasha split (6 April 2022)
Once fans learned about Mike Berk’s racist (and otherwise bigoted) posts from social media, it sounded very strange that production didn’t bat an eye while firing and erasing Alina Kasha from the same season. (TLC)

Mike Berk’s old social media posts also contained racism. And slurs. And bigotry in various forms.

But production didn’t disinvite Mike from the Tell All. Or purge the season of all footage of him.

Why? Fan outcry. Mike and Alina both deserved condemnation for truly despicable posts, but only one faced consequences.

Mahmoud Elsherbiny is simply not a good person. We saw that in his relationship with his wife, but the Season 4 Tell All made it clear that she’s not the only target of his rage. (TLC)

Earlier, when we mentioned dishonest editing, we linked to our coverage from this spring from what editors did to The Other Way Season 4’s Tell All special.

Remember when Mahmoud pitched a fit, swearing and kicking trees and raging and refusing to film. We saw his wife crying.

At the time, it looked like Gabe Paboga, his castmate, was “to blame.” Because he’d asked a very normal question, which came up organically, about the intersection of religion and parenting.

Nicole Sherbiny cries on the 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way Season 4 Tell All special. (TLC)

Obviously, Gabe could not be “to blame” for Mahmoud’s behavior. Gabe is an amazing guy, but he’s not a wizard. He can’t control Mahmoud.

But the truth, which editors actively concealed from viewers, is that Mahmoud had said other cruel things to Gabe. Bigoted, transphobic, would-get-you-fired-from-any-reputable-job things.

That’s why things were so hostile between them. And that’s why Nicole was crying. But editors covered for Mahmoud … because he and Nicole were already set to appear on another season. That sucks.

TLC threatened that five couples will “face their relationship demons” on the latest spinoff that no one asked for. (TLC)

Finally, the franchise has become way too bloated.

Normally, it’s hard to point out which spinoff doesn’t belong.

Even superfluous spinoffs like After The 90 Days and The Single Life both have their place, right?

90 Day: The Last Resort premieres in August of 2023. For some fans of the franchise, it’s the last straw. (TLC)

Frankly, 90 Day: The Last Resort looks like it has condensed a lot of these ongoing problems into one microcosm.

The villain-infested Marriage Boot Camp style spinoff isn’t going to fix anyone’s relationships. It definitely ruined the vacations of some real people who were guests as the resort.

Look, maybe it will be a ratings hit. But it sure feels like more of Warner Bros Discovery CEO’s David Zaslav’s “slop” instead of, you know, good television.

90 Day Fiance Kind of Sucks: Why is the Franchise Alienating Fans? was originally published on The Hollywood Gossip.