Mike Berk Wants Ximena Back on 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days Finale (Recap)

Season 5, Episode 16 of 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days was also the season finale ... except of course for the Tell All.

For several couples, this was a tearful and tender episode as they said goodbye.

There were some exceptions.

After initially refusing to leave Ximena's home, Mike finally left to spend the night in a hotel, but his complicated feelings did not leave him when he left Colombia.

Ben chased Mahogany after she walked away, driving her first into and then out of a car as he demanded that she listen to what he had to say.

Gino and Jasmine cried and said goodbye ... before Gino had a chance to bring up a prenup.

With Kimberly gone, Usman called up Zara -- yes, the ex with the song about her -- while showing some skin.

A pregnant Memphis said a tearful goodbye to Hamza and his family, with Hamza realizing that his child might be born before the K-1 visa is granted.

1. Mike Berk and Ximena Cuellar

Mike berk grudgingly packs his things
Despite Mike's alarming refusal to leave her home, it looks like he either talked himself into going to a hotel or production reminded him that they were, you know, filming all of this and "guy who refuses to leave his ex-fiancee's house" is not a great look.

2. Ximena went to family

Ximena cuellar the crazies
She laments how she always seems to attract "the crazies." It's clear that this breakup is taking its emotional toll on her, too. She knows that Mike really cares about her, but she's no longer in love with him -- plus, he just threw a lot of insults in her face.

3. Mike apologizes ... sort of

Mike berk im very sorry
Mike mostly seems to be apologizing to Ximena's mom and sister, but perhaps also to her. He is saying goodbye, but he begins to cry.

4. This is hard for everyone

Ximena mom derly i saw him like another member of the family
Derly, Ximena's mom, explains to the camera that Mike has felt like family -- both during his visits and even from afar. Through his support of Ximena, which started right around when the pandemic put a lot of people out of work, Mike has put food on the table for many of them. She's grateful, and it's hard to lose a man she has thought of as a son.

5. They hug goodbye

Ximena mom derly hugs mike berk goodbye
Mike and Ximena even hug -- seemingly at his insistence -- before he heads off to the hotel.

6. The next day, Mike wants to come over to say goodbye

Ximena cuellar i dont want you to come
Given the complicated feelings at play and Mike's behavior the night before, Ximena tells him that she doesn't want him to come over in person.
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