90 Day Fiance The Other Way Recap: Jenny Slatten Knows She Has to Leave Sumit Singh

On 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way, some couples prepared for weddings -- whether they were ready or not.

Others have a long road ahead of them before they can hope to reach the altar.

Sumit came clean to Jenny about how he betrayed her, and she took it surprisingly well ... but that doesn't change what she needs to do next.

Ariela told Biniyam about their own important next step, and Bini's showing a huge and positive change in attitude.

Corey had to beg his family to come to his wedding, and still to no avail. He wants at least one guest from his side.

Ellie and Victor's heated argument turned even nastier.

Kenneth had to tell Armando about his own family's reservations, but Armando's family's issues are much more immediate the day of the wedding.

Steven and Alina have put off their wedding for ages, so now they have to rush about every last detail. Is it worth it?

1. Jenny Slatten and Sumit Singh

Sumit singh and now im an uncle via amit and shree
On the heels of Sumit's betrayal last week, this episode actually begins with some good news. Sumit's brother, Amit, and his wife, Shree, have had their first child. Sumit is now an uncle! Of course, this means that he is going to a small family celebration.

2. Sumit is going alone, however

Jenny slatten hopes to be included in things once theyre married
Jenny is welcome to gatherings as a "friend" of Sumit, but his family has made it very clear that family gatherings should not include her, despite the duration of this relationship. Jenny reminds Sumit that they're just a few weeks away from being able to marry, so she hopes that they will start including her in things after that milestone is crossed.

3. Yeah, about that . . .

Sumit singh i put it on a hold
With palpable nervousness, Sumit tells Jenny that he called up their attorney after applying for the marriage license and told him to hold off on that, meaning that the process has not begun and can't begin until 30 minutes after Sumit changes his mind.

4. Jenny is devastated

Jenny slatten expresses hurt weirdly calm at his betrayal
We have a feeling that she at least suspected that something was up, because Jenny's response was strangely calm for someone whose boyfriend just told her that he essentially FAKED a meeting with a marriage attorney and is only bothering to tell her now.

5. He is CONVINCED that marriage will ruin what they have

Sumit singh but i saw married people
Sumit had his own trauma from being married before. As Jenny points out to him, that was not a real marriage -- it was arranged by his parents against his will. He and his wife did not love each other. Also, Sumit was already in love with and in a relationship with Jenny during that marriage (he just didn't tell her about it). The marriage was painful and the divorce was difficult, but Sumit also says that he's seen and heard of other couples where marriage makes the relationship worse. Jenny counters that a couple who don't live together until they marry will have a very different experience than their story.

6. Choosing a far-off wedding date is not a luxury that they can afford

Jenny slatten fears that shell have to leave
Jenny is still ravaged by monthly anxiety every time that she files to extend her visa, and Sumit knows it -- he just prioritized his own cold feet. He's so afraid of changing the status quo that he could ruin everything for both of them.
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