Mike Berk and Ximena Cuellar have had and will continue to have ups and downs on 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days.

We saw them get engaged. We know that things will take a turn for the worse when he returns to Colombia.

Recent reports revealed that Mike and Ximena were filming together in Colombia, presumably for a new season.

Now, however, Ximena seems to have accidentally leaked a look at her new man. She and Mike are no longer following each other.

On Thursday, February 17, Ximena Cuellar posted and then hastily deleted a video from her TikTok account.

In the video, the man who is certainly not Mike appears. A love song plays and hear emojis flicker across the screen.

90 Day Fiance blogger John Yates captured the video and shared it after Ximena deleted it, preserving the evidence.

 “Here is Ximena’s new man, which she uploaded to TikTok today and quickly deleted,” Yates wrote.

“And,” Yates’ caption continued, “she even recycled the same song she used with Mikey.”

The man in question has brown hair, facial hair, tattoos, and appears to be somewhere between Ximena’s age and Mike’s. Some speculate that he, too, may be American.

Ximena has taken to her Instagram Stories to claim that this is all untrue.

She writes, in Spanish, that there is a “false video” circulating around social media.

While we cannot speak to the origins of the video, we can pretty confidently say that John Yates did not fabricate the TikTok.

First of all, many people saw it before it was deleted, as Ximena knows.

Secondly, even if some question his judgment over his friendship with Angela Deem, John Yates has been a reliable source of info for years.

But perhaps the most interesting piece of all of this is that, despite Ximena’s denials, it looks like she and Mike are over.

Very recently, these two were full of love for one another.

Now, they aren’t even following each other on Instagram.

90 Day Fiance NDAs cover a lot, but we’ve never seen anyone required to unfollow someone. This was a choice.

Whether it was a mutual unfollowing or if one of them blocked the other, we cannot say for sure.

But Mike is not following Ximena and Ximena is not following Mike.

Oh, and Mike had a little more to say on Thursday night.

With what we can only describe as “messy bish energy,” Mike took to Instagram to share a (cursed) Minions meme.

“So, what did I miss on the ‘gram today?” Mike asked, indicating that he was going to get his popcorn.

Mike isn’t permitted to break his NDA, but he was clearly letting everyone know that, yes, he knows.

One of Ximena’s claims in her attempt to debunk her own video was that it’s an “old” video.

The thing is that her screen recordings aren’t edited all that much — she just makes a slideshow with heart emojis and music.

Because of this, the date can be seen. February 8 is in the past, yes, but it was literally just last week.

There are a few possibilities, here.

One is that Ximena and Mike broke up extremely recently and Ximena moved on with almost unbelievable speed.

Perhaps our timeline is off and the breakup was longer ago than we thought, but … they were probably still together until very recently.

The other biggest possibility, and we hate to say it, is that Ximena could have potentially been cheating on Mike.

If she was, perhaps this guy was a side piece or backup, maybe even someone she met when she and Mike were on the outs.

Perhaps the upload to TikTok was accidental and exposed everything … or maybe Mike already knew, and Ximena had to delete it per her NDA.

Despite the unfollowing and, you know, common sense, we don’t actually have confirmation that they split. Like, they didn’t say “we broke up!” out loud.

But it seems clear that it’s over for these two. Selfishly, we just hope that we get to see the breakup play out on some future season.

We don’t know if Ximena’s new man will pay for cosmetic work or furnish her home, but hey, maybe he doesn’t need to be told to pick up his dirty clothes.

Things were all good between Mike Berk and Ximena Cuellar at the end of the last episode of 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days.

They were very happy for each other. Mike proposed. She said yes. They hugged goodbye before he flew home.

In the previews for Episode 10, however, Mike was concerned that she had grown distant … and wanted a boob job.

Did Mike pay for Ximena to get a breast augmentation just so that she’d talk to him again?

We know that a lot of the footage shown in Episode 9 was jumbled. Somebody dropped the ball.

However, whether you saw Discovery Plus or TLC, Mike Berk and Ximena Cuellar were having a great time.

Mike had worked on himself, and Ximena encouraged him to keep up the good habits even when he goes home.

The two affirmed their love for each other at a beautiful dinner.

Though they had enjoyed romantic outings for just the two of them, this time, they were not alone.

Ximena’s entire family had been invited along.

Mike had gone to great lengths to make sure that everything would be just right.

There, with the beautiful view and the wonderful meal, Mike praised Ximena and affirmed his love for her.

As he had planned ahead of time, he then proposed to her, in Spanish.

Ximena was overwhelmed with happiness in that moment.

It’s true that, in the past, she had felt indecisive.

But Mike had done a lot to assure her that he would be a partner to her, not a third son.

Ximena was not the only one experiencing “all of the feels” in that moment.

Her father was there.

He had expressed his own misgivings in the past, but he wept with joy at this beautiful sight.

Ximena embraced Mike.

Now engaged, the two knew that they would be spending their future together.

There was a long road ahead of them, however. …

Mike had to return home after his visit to Colombia.

Among other things, he needed to start the paperwork to bring over Ximena on a K-1 visa.

Only after coming to the United States would she become his wife. As soon as they could, they would also bring over her sons.

But what’s this?

In the promo for Episode 10, which will air on Sunday, February 20, things aren’t going so well.

Absence has not made the heart grow fonder in Ximena’s case, as Mike worries that she has grown distant.

90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days Season 5, Episode 10 Promo

“Something seems a little off with Ximena, she’s just getting a little bit more distant,” Mike he can be seen telling his father and grandfather.

“You’re still sending her money?” Mike’s dad asks.

It is unclear what Mike answers, due to editing, but he does share an illuminating detail.

“She wants to get some augmentation for her breasts, she’s asking me to pay for it,” Mike seems to say.

“Ximena hasn’t been acting like herself lately,” he then comments.

“So,” Mike declares, “that’s why I need to go back to Colombia.”

What makes this particularly interesting is that we already know that Ximena underwent one surgery.

While it’s assumed that Mike paid for it, it’s unclear.

Almost a year ago, Ximena shared a series of photos and clips of her through the process of her liposuction and recovery.

Ximena only used liposuction, a surgery that involves real risks, to shed about 11 pounds.

However, she seemed very happy with the results, and we’re happy that she’s happy.

Did she undergo a breast augmentation around the same time? Did Mike pay for it?

We just don’t know, to be honest.

What we do know is that reports, backed up by video evidence, say that Mike is filming with Ximena for another season.

All of what we’re seeing now would have been filmed last year, and it may be that these two will appear on the flagship 90 Day Fiance.

It’s also possible, since Mike is filming in Colombia, that they are simply on another season of Before The 90 Days.

Whatever happens on the rest of this season, it seems like Mike is going to be put through an emotional journey.

However, it’s clear on social media that they are back together and very much in love.

It’s no secret that Mike Berk and Ximena Cuellar’s relationship hasn’t been easy.

He has baggage. She has baggage. They have a huge language barrier.

They also have a lot of genuine love … and, despite various hurdles to come, they’re clearly still together.

In fact, a new report reveals that Mike and Ximena are in Colombia right now, filming for a new 90 Day Fiance season.

Despite a lot of very genuine love for each other, Mike and Ximena have had some issues from the start.

Mike had only been in Colombia for a short time before he learned something that Ximena should have told him a long time ago.

Following the agony of her second C-section, she had her Fallopian tubes cut and cauterized, preventing her from conceiving.

Mike wants children, and Ximena knew it, which was why she was so nervous to tell him.

While conception is normally possible after that procedure using IVF, Ximena is under the impression that it’s not.

Frankly, even if a doctor tells them that it’s an option, Ximena might understandably not be too eager to endure another pregnancy.

Ximena had concerns of her own.

Like countless millions of women all around the world, she wants to be a partner, not her man’s mother or maid.

She noticed that Mike had some tidiness issues, some manners issues, and some hygiene issues.

Some of this is just a personality difference — not everyone’s preferred way of managing a house lines up.

Other aspects were likely due to Mike having been single since  high school and living with his father and grandfather.

He promised Ximena to work on those things so that she can treat him as a partner and not like a third son.

Towards the end of Mike’s visit to Colombia, he took Ximena and her entire family out to dinner.

It was a beautiful evening, and Mike proposed to Ximena.

Despite some earlier elements of indecision, and prompted in part by her family’s encouragement, Ximena said “yes.”

That’s all well and good, their airport goodbyes were beautiful.

But we know from previews that Mike feels some distance from Ximena and returns to Colombia.

There’s something about wanting him to pay for a boob job. There’s also this:

The earliest previews for the season showed Mike fleeing at some point.

Channeling his inner Paul Staehle, he just sort of runs away from Ximena after being emotionally overwhelmed in a bad way.

With that in mind, we all know that it’s possible that they could have ended right then and there.

However, we saw on social media that it appears that they may have renewed their proposal via social media.

This and other strong hints online suggested that they are still a couple, even if they broke up during filming.

It appears that their timing worked out to benefit them in more ways than one, because they are filming again.

Blogger Mommy Says Bad Words took to Instagram to share some exciting news for the couple’s fans.

Mike is back in Colombia with Ximena, and they are said to be filming for a new season.

In a recording from Ximena’s brother’s page, you can hear him say Mike’s name during a short poolside clip.

The bar in question is called BAR Paraiso and is located in Colombia.

Though Mike and Ximena do not physically appear in the short clip, they are both tagged — and Mike is directly mentioned.

We likely will not know the context of the pool visit until their eventual return to our screens, much later this year.

It is speculated that Mike and Ximena may appear on Season 9 of the flagship series that started it all.

We can only guess.

This is a good time to remember that most of what is shown on our screens was filmed many months — often around 8 months — before it airs.

In many ways, Mike Berk and Ximena Cuellar seemed like an unlikely couple.

They have radically different backgrounds, a ten-year age gap, and Ximena has two kids.

There were also things that Ximena wanted Mike to change about himself before they get married.

Ximena also changed one major thing about herself — by undergoing liposuction. Did Mike pay for it?

In June of 2021, just eight months ago, Ximena Cuellar underwent liposuction.

She didn’t hide the procedure from her social media followers, even though it was such a minor change that it would have been easy to conceal.

Instead, she documented her mild body transformation from start to finish on TikTok, as you can see in these video stills.

From scrubs to a compression garment, Ximena took her fans and followers on a guided tour of her recovery.

She was already a fundamentally tiny person to begin with.

But the slight amount that she lost through this surgical weight loss procedure may stun you.

Naturally, commenters asked Ximena how much she lost.

“I weighed 54 [kilograms],” she told her fans and followers. “Now I weigh 49.”

Folks that is an 11-pound weight loss, going from 119 pounds to 108 pounds.

Ximena was asked how much the surgery set her back.

She replied “not much,” which is not much in the way of an answer.

Proces obviously vary, but in Colombia, we’re talking a minimum of $2,000 up to $6,500.

That is a lot of money to spend to lose a relatively small amount of weight.

It is particularly wild to consider when you remember that liposuction can have deadly complications (a fat embolism) and even best case scenarios involve a painful recovery.

It’s also worth considering whether Ximena actually spent any of her own money on this.

In any relationship, different partners bring different things to the table. Mike and Ximena are no exception.

It is no secret that Mike has helped out Ximena financially.

As an IT guy, he clearly has the kind of disposable income to help his girlfriend, a 24-year-old single mother of two, live a better life.

Mike bought Ximena a lot of furniture and appliances, so many that a catalogue of his gifts to her is effectively just a tour of her home.

Her family also made it clear that Mike has been financially supporting her in more ways, so that she does not have to work and can spend more time with her kids.

Mike loves her and her children, so this is very touching … and it would not be surprising if he helped her undergo this procedure, as well.

Actually, it would be difficult to explain another way that Ximena could have afforded the surgery.

As we noted, she is a young, single mom.

Perhaps it was a gift to Ximena, especially if she was self-conscious about her body before or after filming for Season 5.

Everyone deserves to have a body that looks and feels the way that they want it to.

We’re glad that Ximena could get that for herself, and we’re also glad that she did not suffer any of the dire side effects that can arise from surgery.

And since Mike and Ximena got engaged on the latest episode of 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days, we offer our congratulations for that, too.