Usman Umar Posts Wedding Photos: Did He Dump Kimberly and Marry a New Woman?

This week, Usman Umar opted to grab everyone’s attention.

Taking to Instagram, he posted multiple photos and videos of a wedding.

Not just any wedding. Usman appeared as the groom beside a lovely bride — who was not Kimberly Menzies.

Did he get married? If so, when did he and Kimberly break up?

Usman Umar "wedding" photo

On Tuesday, March 22, Usman Umar sent shockwaves through the 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days fandom.

“Breaking News,” Usman captioned one of the posts, alongside a string of emojis.

Usman shared another post, writing: “Gentlemen and Ladies, the groom and bride.”

Usman Umar and "bride"

In the images, Usman appears beside a beautiful and surprisingly age-appropriate woman, dressed as bride and groom.

Videos even showed him dancing, and members of his entourage were seen dressed up among the crowd.

In other words, it appeared that Usman had married … and dropped a total bombshell upon fans and followers in the process.

Kimberly Menzies boops the nose of Usman Umar

When exactly did he split up with Kimberly and start dating some new woman?

Make no mistake: many viewers expected this relationship to fall apart given obvious compatibility issues, drama, and other obstacles.

But most of us expected to see it unravel before Usman became a married man to a random other woman.

Kimberly Menzies splashes Usman Umar with her drink

How does Kimberly feel about this?

Many messaged her, wondering if she would blow up over it.

At the same time, others wondered if Usman would get into trouble with production for posting a colossal spoiler like this.

Usman Umar and Kimberly Menzies toast their rekindled relationship

But Kimberly had something of her own to say.

“CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!” Kimberly commented, alongside multiple laughing emojis.

This, alongside the would-be NDA violation and the total randomness of Usman’s post, were all of the hints that fans needed to know that this was not what it appeared to be.

Usman Umar lies atop and kisses Kimberly Menzies

After savoring the reactions — the questions, the congratulations, the shock — Usman spoke to In Touch Weekly.

“This is a wedding, but in a movie,” he admitted, revealing his obvious prank.

“It’s difficult for people to understand my life style,” Usman claimed.

Usman Umar has a secret to share

“But,,” Usman hilariously insisted, “I think it’s high time for the audience to accept that I’m an artist and a movie star.”

“Most of the cast members that are on the 90 Day [Fiance] shows are regular people,” he said.

“And that is why their post is normal,” Usman alleged, “and mine are always complicated.”

Usman Umar and Kimberly Menzies wake up tensely together

“Entertainment is my business,” Usman declared.

“So because I’m a reality show cast member that doesn’t mean that I can’t continue with with my daily income activities,” he said.

“But, if I [offend] anyone, please, I’m sorry,” Usman expressed.

Usman Umar takes a goofy selfie with Kimberly Menzies

“But to keep you [updated], please go to discovery+ and TLC to continue watching the show,” Usman urged.

He encouraged fans to keep watching “because Kimberly and I have a beautiful story unfold, you [have] to watch to find out what will happen next.”

Usman concluded: “I love my queen Kimberllllllly and time will tell you more, thanks to everyone and god bless y’all.”

Usman Umar wears Sojaboy bling to bed

Usman may be the only person in the world who thinks that your average 90 Day Fiance cast member or their posts are “normal.”

Clearly, what he’s trying to do is to convince people that he’s a big-shot celebrity. Fake it ’til you make it, as they say.

As for Tuesday’s post, Usman obviously just wanted a reaction out of viewers — and he got one.

Mahogany Roca Calls Ben Rathbun Fake, Gets Skewered as "Catfish" by 90 Day Fiance Fans

On the most recent episode of 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days, Ben and Mahogany parted ways.

Mahogany accused Ben of not being who she thought that he was when they were chatting.

Even with all of the condemnation aimed at Ben, some fans are astounded that she’d say that.

A lot of people are still processing the stark contrast between Mahogany and her borderline-catfishing photos.

Mahogany Roca - I think you are not the Benjamin in the chat

On Season 5, Episode 14 of 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days, Mahogany Roca confronted Ben Rathbun.

He had resented her questions about his past. He had sent her long, unsettling texts.

Then, huffy that she hadn’t responded, he ghosted her for breakfast, embarrassing her in front of her parents.

Mahogany Roca - you are different

Ben’s shady past, his boundary-crossing behavior … this was not the man whom Mahogany had enjoyed chatting with.

Maybe that was all of it.

Or maybe she needed an excuse because a guy 30 years her senior had flown down to meet her after three months of chatting.

Mahogany Roca leaves Ben Rathbun alone at the table

Whatever it was, Mahogany told him that he was “different.”

She didn’t want to be there, so she got up and left.

Fair is fair … but is Mahogany really the person to call someone out for being different in person than they were online?

reminder of what "Mahogany" looks like

After all, the view that Ben saw of Mahogany was … not exactly true to life.

Airbrushing, an array of filters, and other photo editing was used until every photo was unrecognizable.

Looking at Mahogany’s pics and her real face was like night and day.

Mahogany Roca gets blunt (s05e14 preview)

It’s not just that her photos did not look like the real Mahogany.

Her photos did not look recognizably human; anyone could tell at a glance that the pics were heavily doctored.

Only Ben, it seemed, was unable — or unwilling — to see that the pics of his beloved better resembled a stylized drawing than a human being.

super filtered photo of Mahogany Roca

As a result, some fans have accused Mahogany of being what many thought all along:

Is Mahogany a catfish?

Well … not really, but we’re admittedly operating from a pretty strict definition of “catfish.”

Mahogany Roca face after Ben asks to meet her parents tonight

Mahogany did not use photos of someone else when communicating with Ben. She just butchered her own pics.

She used her own name and, as far as we can tell, her real social media account.

Aside from the fact that she apparently got $1,000 out of him, she’s not checking a lot of boxes for a catfish.

24-year-old Mahogany's very real photo

Mahogany was, however, plainly dishonest with Ben.

Perhaps her biggest lie was about her age — only a 22-year-old would be young enough to think that claiming to be 24 is worth the risk.

Then, in person, she showed him an obviously fake apartment that Ben later defended, apparently having bought her explanations.

Mahogany Roca in a tense conversation

We should stress that Mahogany wasn’t just sending her unsettling anime waifu filtered photos to Ben.

These seem to just be how she presents herself to the world online.

Outside of cultivating a romantic relationship, that’s perfectly okay — no one owes their authentic face to strangers. People are allowed to simply exist.

Mahogany Roca Facebook photos

But what possible future could two fakers have together?

Ben wasn’t who she thought. Mahogany wasn’t who he thought.

Are they really just a pair of fraudsters determined to get famous and use each other in the process?

Ben Rathbun meets up with Mahogany Roca

If that were true, we would say that they are a perfect match.

However, contrary to Ben’s claims, 90 Day Fiance doesn’t cast actors to play fictional, scripted roles on the show.

(If they did, it would be huge news, and we would excitedly report on it)

Ben Rathbun awkwardly hugs Mahogany Roca goodnight

Instead, people who are not being well-received by viewers sometimes claim that they got a “bad edit” or that the show is “scripted.”

Throwing the show under the bus never works.

And while bad edits are a very real thing, especially in this franchise, 90 Day Fiance does not have scripts.

Ben Rathbun and Mahogany Roca may be about to kiss

What’s really weird is that, even after they both basically called each other fakes, it looks like they’re ready to kiss on the next episode.

Keep in mind, this is after Mahogany ghosted Ben (narrowly avoiding “mandatory alone time” for two hours in the car).

Maybe they’re both scheming for fame separately. Or maybe they just can’t quit each other. They’re both so, so weird.

Ben Rathbun and Mahogany Roca on Reddit (February 2022)

And, as we previously reported, they are still together in some fashion many months later.

Just weeks ago, the two were photographed at a mall in Lima, Peru.

Who goes to malls in 2022? The answer is 50-something men and their 23-year-old girlfriends, apparently.

Mike Berk: I’m Sorry I Called Ximena a Bitch! She IS Cold and Calculating, Though!

On the latest episode of 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days, Mike Berk ran away after Ximena Cuellar dumped him.

In the previews for next Sunday’s episode, Mike and Ximena went off on each other.

Among many other things, Mike called her a “bitch” to the camera.

Now, he is apologizing … even as some fans tell him that he shouldn’t.

Mike Berk walks off

On Sunday’s episode, Ximena Cuellar told Mike Berk that it was over.

What had started as a night out had turned into a serious conversation.

It all changed when Mike brought up how Ximena’s mood had shifted when he stopped paying for everything.

Mike Berk walking - my mind's going crazy

Mike had channeled his inner Paul Staehle, fleeing.

Perhaps he was trying to hide his tears from cameras. Or maybe his panic had given him the zoomies.

Either way, he was devasted. Left behind at the table, Ximena showed how hard this had been for her, too.

In the previews for Season 5, Episode 15, the relationship is still over.

However, Mike and Ximena’s painful conversations about where things stand are not.

With the engagement broken off, all that is left is bitterness and words that they both would later regret.

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We can see the two back at Ximena’s home as Mike confronts her over the breakup.

“This only reinforces the fact that you were using me for money,” he told her.

Mike continued: “because right now, you’re cold and calculated.”

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Ximena reiterated that she is not asking him to send her anything or pay for anything.

(Truth be told, this is where Mike’s toxic side is showing for the first time this season — as if he wants to leverage his past generosity to keep the relationship going)

As far as Ximena is concerned, it’s over … and he should just leave.

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Ximena doesn’t just mean that he should leave on his flight the next day.

Instead, he should leave right then.

She told Mike to spend the night in a hotel before catching his plane out of Colombia and out of her life.

Mike Berk vs Ximena preview 04 of 06

However, Mike decided to assert that he wouldn’t leave … on the grounds that he was the one paying the rent.

(Legally, that only works if it’s his name on the lease, at least in most places — we’re no experts on renting in Colombia)

Mike and Ximena are both clearly in their worst states, with Ximena yelling at him to just go as he refuses.

Mike Berk vs Ximena preview 05 of 06

“She’s a mean, evil, cold bitch,” Mike tells the cameras in the preview.

“Hija de puta,” he adds.

Whether he meant this or not, Mike’s words there meant “daughter of a bitch.”

Mike Berk vs Ximena preview 06 of 06

After the episode aired on Sunday night, including the preview, Mike took to Instagram to address his words.

“Honestly, I called Ximena ‘cold, calculated,’ I called her that b-word,” Mike recalled.

“Honestly, I was just in the moment,” he expressed.

Mike Berk on IG Live

“I was just so upset with everything going on, how I was being treated that entire trip, basically,” Mike explained.

“And it was the heat of the moment,” he acknowledged. “I really just want to apologize for that.”

“And I really, really want to apologize to Ximena’s mom because she’s always had my back,” Mike emphasized.

Ximena's mom Derly - she also has never had a serious relationship

“She messages me here and there, asking me how I’m doing and so, she always has my back, her sister had my back,” Mike noted.

“So I really, really, truly want to apologize to both them, to Ximena’s sister and her mom,” he reiterated.

Mike continued: “because when I said that, it wasn’t intended to them. It was intended to the situation.”

Jasmine Pineda Accused of FAKING Firing After Photo Scandal: WTF?

This season, Jasmine Pineda’s raw emotional expression has earned her as many fans as it has critics.

For better or for worse (actually, for better and for worse) this woman does not hold back when she is feeling some kind of way.

… Which makes it so surprising to see her being accused of lying to her fans.

Did Jasmine fabricate a story about losing her job to gain sympathy from viewers?

Jasmine Pineda explains that it's pig feet

Before we delve into the accusation that a fan is leveling at Jasmine, a brief recap.

The 34-year-old academic and teacher spent a long time as Gino Palazzolo’s long-distance girlfriend before they met.

In December of 2020, they met for the first time, and that is what we have seen play out on Season 5.

Jasmine Pineda - naked pictures of me?

Jasmine had, like most couples who date or are even considering dating, sent some enticing photos to Gino.

Unfortunately, Gino had used extremely poor judgment, sending the pics to an ex to “taunt” her about his hot girlfriend.

Obsessing over your ex is unhealthy. Distributing someone else’s nudes without permission is a crime in many places.

Jasmine Pineda screams with heartbreak

Jasmine was understandably distraught, and that was not the end of it.

As we saw on the show, Jasmine was threatened by an anonymous account, vowing to expose her nudes to the internet.

While the account remained unidentified, Jasmine and Gino assumed that it was his ex.

Jasmine Pineda IG accuses Gino's ex of blackmail, getting her fired

In February of this year — more than a year after all of this was filmed — Jasmine leveled an accusation on Instagram.

She claimed that Gino’s ex had sent her photos to the school where she had worked, leading to her losing that job.

If true, that was not just cruel — it compounded Gino’s wrongdoing and revealed the ex to be a vicious saboteur.

Jasmine Pineda is tearful and devastated

However, a Reddit user (seemingly using a disposable side account) claims that this is not true.

In the Reddit post, the user claims to know “people at the school” where Jasmine worked.

The redditor wrote that Jasmine was “not fired” from the “k-12 private school,” and certainly was not making $3k a month.

Jasmine Pineda goes on a romantic boat tour alone

For the record, she never claimed to make that amount; this was simply what she wanted in support from Gino.

“She quit to move to the U.S. with her boyfriend from the US (Gino) at the end of 2020” the post noted.

The post also suggests that she and Gino may have filmed more recently than we believed, as late 2020 lockdown measures may have thrown a wrench into their December plans.

Jasmine Pineda is visibly weirded out that he kept her nail

The redditor alleged that Jasmine got in trouble for “dressing provocatively and had been sent home from work over this a few times.”

Jasmine did not lose her job over this, however, in part because she was a good teacher.

It is possible that viewers are jumping to conclusions about Jasmine’s statements … but also possible that she stretched or simplified the truth.

Jasmine Pineda tells Gino to play along with her lies when he meets her mom

It could be the case that Jasmine quit her job in late 2020 and had a longer than expected wait to see Gino, or figured that she was no longer employable due to the scandal (but was not formally fired).

Perhaps they simply allowed viewers to believe that it was still December when they filmed in March 2021, if that Reddit post is accurate.

It is also possible that it was editors, not Jasmine and Gino, who opted to simplify things by editing out any mention of it not being the holiday season.

Jasmine Pineda IG about OnlyFans

We can’t speak to what is or is not true about Jasmine’s words or intentions.

However, she has since spoken about her OnlyFans career, which she is using to support herself.

We’re glad that she was able to make the best of a bad situation … no matter what that situation may have actually been.

Jasmine Pineda Cries, Gushes Over "Creepy Sometimes" Fiance Gino Palazzolo

For viewers, a week went by between when Gino Palazzolo knocked over a chair to when he and Jasmine Pineda reconciled.

For the couple, it was only a matter of hours. A lot changed for them in a very short time.

Before Gino proposed to Jasmine on Sunday’s episode of 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days, Jasmine gushed about him on camera.

She touched people’s hearts by talking about her love for him … even though she made people laugh by calling him “creepy.”

After Jasmine Pineda was threatened by an anonymous troll who vowed to leak her nudes and ruin her life, she confronted Gino.

She wanted to know if there were any other surprises awaiting her, checked his phone, and confronted him over an apparent lie.

Gino felt overwhelmed and attacked and stormed away from the table, knocking over his chair in the process.

That was all last week. On Sunday’s episode, we caught up with Jasmine, who had not seen Gino for hours.

The conversation had spiraled out of control.

Despite her misgivings about some of his behavior, she decided to go look for him.

Jasmine found Gino and took a seat next to him, and they both braced themselves for a very raw conversation.

Gino expressed to her that he felt like she attacked him again and again over old mistakes that he couldn’t change.

She reminded him that he had also lied to her, and continuing to do so made it harder to move past those mistakes.

The two embraced in a sweet hug, but it was Jasmine’s tearful voiceover, expressed to the confessional camera, that touched viewers the most.

“It’s not that I justify what Gino did,” Jasmine said.

“But he has become my best friend,” she described, “my support system.”

“And I love him from bald head to toe,” Jasmine said. “Just the way he is.”

“Weird, creepy sometimes,” she admitted. “But I also know the sweet, intelligent version of Gino.”

Jasmine declared: “If that is not love, call it whatever … but I’m not giving up on our relationship.”

After some heartfelt apologies, the two exchanged forgiveness and went back to enjoying their time together.

(Jasmine also joked to Gino that he would not want her for an ex, followed by a maniacal laugh)

They had fun … and it was all building up to this moment.

Gino and Jasmine didn’t let a little drizzle stop them.

He dropped to one knee before Jasmine, affirming his love for her.

He pulled out his ring box and proposed.

Jasmine, of course, did not know that Gino paid about as much for the ring as castmate Ben Rathbun paid the car service in the same episode.

But it was a sweet moment nonetheless.

Jasmine said yes, and the two embraced.

There had been strong hints, on the show as well as on social media, that they were together.

The lovey-dovey way that they referred to each other on social media seemed to indicate that they were together, even though they didn’t break their NDA.

And on the show, well, Gino and Jasmine did a lot of confessional interviews while seated side by side.

Jasmine did pick up on the apparent cheapness of the ring.

We are really curious to hear what she will say about Gino looking for such an inexpensive ring, since his quest was all filmed.

Hopefully, Jasmine will touch upon this at the Tell All.

Jasmine and Gino have a lot to iron out about their future (and lest we forget, all of this was filmed more than a year ago).

However, viewers were touched by Jasmine’s comments about Gino, taking to social media to give the couple a tentative endorsement.

They seem like an inescapably toxic couple who will have hard times ahead … but their love is mutual and very genuine.

Jasmine pineda cries gushes over creepy sometimes gino palazzolo

Mike Berk Runs Away After Ximena Dumps Him on 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days (Recap)

Season 5, Episode 14 of 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days was a make-it-or-break-it moment for some of the couples.

Ximena has been telling her family that things are good, but they’re not. And it’s more than just not being ready to marry.

This episode was a long time coming, finally showing us the moment that a brokenhearted Mike walked away.

Another partner to walk away was Mahogany, who told Ben that he was not at all like he was online.

After one of their bitterest fights, Gino and Jasmine must reconcile before he can propose.

Usman’s entourage encourages him to forget about Kimberly, but he is eager to fix things with her.

Meanwhile, Memphis has just one day before her wedding to decide whether to delay the nuptials or marry without a prenup.

It’s a real no-win scenario for her, and the clock is ticking.

1. Mike Berk and Ximena Cuellar

Ximena cuellar fine mom everythings fine
Ximena is hanging out with family, telling her mother that everything is going just fine with Mike. This is a lie, of course, but Ximena’s mom seems to be the last to know.

2. Ximena’s sister clears that up

Ximena cuellar he sleeps in a separate room
Ximena gives her mother an abbreviated description of where things stand, complaining to Mike is “weird” because he looks at her when they wake up and she gets out of bed, so he no longer sleeps in her bed.

3. That’s … odd

Ximenas mom derly she doesnt think like a rational woman
Ximena’s mom Derly doesn’t understand her daughter’s thinking. It’s not just that the relationship itself seems fine aside from Ximena’s issues, but this could give her and her sons a better future.

4. She counsels Mike to be patient

Ximenas mom derly she also has never had a serious relationship
She tells him that Ximena has never had a serious committed relationship before, so this could take time. (Also, Ximena is 24 … which doesn’t fully explain her extreme immaturity but does help, a little)

5. Ximena claims that this isn’t true

Ximena cuellar ive had several serious relationships
She tells Mike — as they head out to play pool — that she has had what she considers “serious” relationships in the past, even if her mother doesn’t seem to view them that way.

6. So why didn’t they work out?

Ximena cuellar what happens is that i get bored
Ximena says that she would get “bored” of the relationship. While anyone can tap out of any relationship at any time, it does seem to be a symptom of Ximena’s immaturity.

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Mike Berk Turns on Friends Who Looked Out for Him: Clout-Chasers! Users!

As if this season weren’t bizarre enough, the drama has continued even after Mike Berk and Ximena Cuellar broke up.

Mike has been seen filming. Mike’s old racist posts have been exposed. Evidence is mounting that Ximena cheated a lot.

Of all people, Mike seemed eager to attack his own friends, John and Nelcy, calling them “clout chasers” who “used” him.

Let’s keep in mind that they seemed to be the only people looking out for him other than his own family. Dude.

On Mike Berk’s Instagram Story, he lashed out at his friends who appeared during his season.

“My friends [John] and his girlfriend used me to get famous,” Mike bitterly accused.

He declared: “They are the number one clout chasers.”

“They never cared about me,” Mike whined in the Instagram Story post.

“And,” he continued, “only wanted their 15 minutes of fame.”

Mike did delete that post … but that was not the end of it.

John himself followed up on that after widespread confusion and backlash among followers who couldn’t understand Mike’s outburst.

“We’re gonna ask Mikey a couple of questions right now, we’re gonna get down to the nitty gritty,” John vowed from behind the camera.

“Mikey, the people wanna know, that post that was posted the other day about me and you,” he asked. “Are we still friends?”

“Yeah we’re still friends. That was old, people are just…” Mike trailed off.

“Then why did you say that, Mike?” John pressed.

“I don’t know,” Mike said unhelpfully.

“He was in his feelings, people,” John teased.

“The reddit people were getting to his f–king tiny little brain,” he added.

John then theorized that “he’s getting manipulated like f–king Ximena was manipulating him.”

“I’m over here trying to [make] quarterback plays for the kid, and none of y’all are listening,” John suggested.

He then asked: “Y’all think I’m using him?”

“No, he’s not!” Mike declared.

“I’m f–king here for the kid, bro,” John said about the 34-year-old.

“This is my boy since we’re like 8 years old,” he noted.

“He’s f–king weird and creepy and we seen it,” John acknowledged, “but we love him!”

“We love this f–king prick!” John declared.

“Shut up! You’re creepy,” Mike bantered awkwardly.

John sprinkled in a bit of what we’ll call “wisdom,” saying: “Ay, we’re all creepy, man. Who’s not creepy?”

Mike’s weird behavior and his appalling racism scandal have put him in the hotseat.

(After all, Alina Kasha was fired for her racism scandal … and Mike’s was worse in every way, without the “but I’m Russian!” excuse)

It is very hard to feel sorry for someone who clearly is not a good person … even when they’re being treated as Ximena is treating Mike.

90 Day Fiance blogger Mommy Says Bad Words reported on Friday afternoon about Mike’s ex.

Based upon photos and social media activity and the dates involved, it appears that she cheated on Mike with multiple men (some of whom may be cheaters themselves).

Take a look here at Ximena with one of these men, “Romeo,” back in December … months before she and Mike split.

This is just one of the sets of new, explosive images.

We really recommend that you check out Mommy Says Bad Words’ post for the rest.

While viewers understand that Ximena has had a difficult life, we all struggle to understand how someone could behave as she has.

Part of that is that, morally, one would think that she would either stay with Mike as a real partner or break up with him.

Another issue is that Ximena has to know that reality TV fame would change things. How many secrets could she really hope to keep?

None, it seems, given that Ximena seems to document every moment of her life — including surgeries, including other men — on TikTok.

Mike berk turns on friends who looked out for him clout chasers

Mahogany Roca Ditches Ben Rathbun: You’re Not Who I Thought You Were!

On last weekend’s episode of 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days, Ben skipped out on lunch with Mahogany.

Why? Because she hadn’t responded to his barrage of over-the-top texts, and because she had questioned his past.

In this sneak peek of Sunday’s episode, Mahogany is able to confront Ben face-to-face about all of the things that he didn’t tell her.

Turning viewers’ early-season assumptions on their heads, she tells him that he’s not the man he was when they were chatting … and walks away.

“I just want to know if we have a chance here,” Ben expresses to Mahogany as this sneak peek for Season 5, Episode 14 begins.

He then cites “the love that we had on chat.”

What, he wonders, happened to that spark that they seemed to share?

“I don’t know,” Mahogany admits. “I’m really confused, you know?”

Shaking her head, she tells him: “I think you are not the Benjamin in the chat.”

Mahogany adds: “You are different.”

She even gets specific about things that he did not share with her that, really, he should have if he wanted to get this serious, this quickly.

“You didn’t tell me that you don’t get along with your ex-wife,” Mahogany notes.

“You didn’t tell me many things,” she adds.

“And now I know them” Mahogany explains, “so I think that’s different.”

At that point, Ben just replies with “okay.”

Mahogany then explains to him what drove her to meet with him — because this is not a date.

“Look,” she says, “I just came to leave you my father’s letter.”

Mahogany is delivering it “because he couldn’t make it today.”

Getting blunt, she tells him: “I really didn’t want to come.”

Ben takes a moment to process that.

“I don’t want to stay here,” Mahogany emphasizes as gently as someone possibly can.

“You want to go?” he asks quietly.

With his blessing, Mahogany stands up and walks away from the table, leaving Ben sitting alone.

That is intense.

But it’s also not the end of their story, now is it?

Last month, Ben and Mahogany were spotted together at a mall in Lima, Peru.

We know that 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days recorded most of Season 5 during 2021, and often airs about 8 months (on average) after filming.

It’s unclear if Ben and Mahogany were filming again for another season, or if this was a strictly personal trip.

It’s hard to say what to think about this preview, especially without seeing how the season — or even the episode — ends.

Obviously, it’s totally reasonable for a 22-year-old to ditch the more-than-twice-her-age man she met online three months ago.

She doesn’t need an excuse or an explanation, but the barrage of texts that he sent her the night before make a split more than understandable.

At the same time, some wonder if Mahogany was deliberately flirting or even softly catfishing online.

She might have never expected that any man she spoke to would be foolish enough to fly out to meet her like this.

Of course, she would have had to sign on to appear on camera herself, so … not all of this is a big surprise.

Ben and Mahogany could both be scammers trying to use each other for their careers — Ben’s DILF modeling and Mahogany’s acting aspirations.

Additionally, recent revelations about Ben’s debts could indicate that he desperately needed the cash that fame could bring.

(90 Day Fiance paychecks are infamously small, but the cast can make decent money on Cameo and similar sites by getting fans to pay them directly)

Ben has tried more than once to imply that his story is inauthentic, but … since he so often looks like a fool and a creep on the show, it’s hard to take him at his word.

“I got a bad edit” is an infamous defense for people who are disliked by viewers, even though it is sometimes the honest truth.

As for Ben and Mahogany … it looks like Mahogany’s decision to walk away was not a permanent one. What makes her give him another chance?

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Ella Johnson SLAMMED by Fans After Hookup with Friend: Is She Manipulating Johnny?

On last weekend’s episode of 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days, Ella had a tearful confession for Johnny.

She had slept with someone else during the ever-growing wait to finally see him in person.

(To be fair, we all heard her warn him that she was not going to keep waiting)

However, some viewers are giving Ella grief, accusing her of being a manipulative cheater.

Ella Johnson is having a hard time

Ella Johnson’s romance with Johnny has, like many 90 Day Fiance couples, started out online.

Unlike most of them, it has stayed that way for years, with delay after delay keeping them from meeting in person.

In the back half of 2021, when they were filming their episodes of Season 5, Ella was ready to turn up the pressure to make their meeting happen.

Ella Johnson books a flight to apply more pressure to her man

A couple of weeks ago, viewers saw Ella talk to Johnny about her plans to meet him in Dubai.

He already had a ticket, but was wavering about going — due to COVID restrictions and the risk of catching the virus.

Ella purchased her own ticket to Dubai, paying $1,124 for it, hoping that this commitment on her part would encourage him to make the trip.

Ella Johnson buys $1,124 tickets to Dubai

Ella’s gambit did not have the desired effect.

Johnny of course reiterated his love for her and his desire to see her in person.

But that was not enough in the face of all of the things — be they reasons or just excuses — that were holding him back.

Ella Johnson hears - I want to meet you, but

Ella was pretty much accustomed to these delays and postponements by now. She’d had enough.

Tearfully, she told Johnny that she can’t keep waiting forever.

She let him know that she wouldn’t break up with him, but that if he didn’t meet her in Dubai, their long-distance relationship would have to be an open relationship.

Ella Johnson gives an open relationship ultimatum, just wants happiness

Johnny understood that Ella is a human being with desires and needs.

But there was more than just cultural unfamiliarity with open relationships that made him worry.

What if she ended up meeting someone else, someone who was already there, and just forming a life with him, instead?

Johnny - she will meet somebody else

When viewers next saw them speak, Johnny was telling Ella what she already knew — that he was not coming to Dubai.

Instead, he suggested that they meet up in February of 2022 — seven months from then.

That massive delay was nothing new to their relationship, but that didn’t make it any easier.

Johnny to Ella Johnson - like a postponement to February

Ella knew that she had to tell Johnny something then, and without delay.

A friend, she explained, had come over to hang out and provide her with emotional support.

That emotional comfort had turned physical, and she had slept with him.

Ella Johnson reveals that she slept with a friend

It is, for the record, unclear if this was actually cheating, as some of Ella’s critics have accused.

(Was the open relationship in effect during this period? The timeline remains unknown)

This was hard to hear for Johnny.

Johnny is visibly shocked by Ella's confession

Though he took the news reasonably well, it was still a shock.

He expressed his sorrow upon hearing it, but did not express much in the way of anger towards Ella herself.

Johnny even acknowledged his role in what had happened, because he had not done his part to meet her, not in Idaho or in Dubai.

Johnny to Ella Johnson - it's very hard to hear this

After the call, Ella openly wept on camera while describing the pain of her loneliness.

This was one of those moments when, even though production was just doing their jobs, one wishes that they had stopped filming instead of continuing to ask her questions.

Ella should be pouring her heart out like this to a therapist, not to a production crew and not to millions of judgmental viewers.

Ella Johnson cries, laments feeling tormented by seeing couples

There was a strong backlash from many fans of the show, who felt that Ella had definitely cheated (she may have).

They accused her of being selfish by demanding that Johnny take a flight when his reasons for not doing so during a global pandemic are very fair.

Additionally, they accused her of being manipulative — noting that she only revealed her sexual tryst after Johnny announced another 7-month delay.

Ella Johnson IG man crush monday of Johnny

However, despite the delays and all of the things that viewers have said, it looks like Ella and Johnny are still together.

This is just speculation, but not baseless, because Ella has continued to praise Johnny as her featured “man crush” even in recent weeks.

That would be surprising social media activity for exes, even on this show with its notorious NDAs.

Ella Johnson IG confirms to me that Kurama is her ideal husbando

If things don’t work out with Johnny, Ella may have to start from scratch after investing so many years in this romance.

Though Ella admitted that her dream man is Kurama from Yu Yu Hakusho, there are plenty of very real people whom she could date. Yes, even in Idaho.

That’s only if things with Johnny don’t work out, of course. For what it’s worth, we wish them the best.

Ben Rathbun Arrested for DUI, Alleged Parole Violation

Just last week, Ben Rathbun defended his reputation to viewers who have taken issue with his on-screen behavior.

Unfortunately, it appears that he should have been more attentive to his life off-camera.

Early Tuesday morning, the 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days star was arrested.

He was charged with a for driving while intoxicated and with a suspended license. And that’s not the weird part. …

Beware the Ides of March.

TMZ reports that on Tuesday, March 15, Ben Rathbun was booked in Michigan.

The OUI (operating while under the influence of alcohol) and driving with a suspended license charges were initially unclear.

Ben Rathbun didn't get a text back, is skipping brunch

The 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days Season 5 cast member’s bond was set at $10,000.

While the circumstances of the arrest were initially a mystery, this was in part because the charges were not fresh.

The initial arrest took place in 2020.

Ben Rathbun tries to defend everything

In January of 2021, Ben was sentenced to 18 months of probation.

On February 7 of this year, he was scheduled for a probation violation hearing.

It is reported that Ben was a no-show in court, prompting the judge to issue a bench warrant.

Ben Rathbun doesn't feel like he has to answer for the past

That bench warrent is what in turn led to Ben’s arrest on Tuesday.

It is unclear how he violated his probation … however, even without seeing the conditions of his sentence, fans are already guessing.

Ben almost certainly filmed for the show during that time.

Ben Rathbun finds out that he's just a friend

We’re no big city geography experts, but Peru is definitely not in Oakland County, Michigan.

Generally speaking, someone on probation must receive permission to leave the district before doing so.

While a quick trip to Peru might have gone unnoticed by the court, Ben’s trip has been seen by millions of viewers.

Ben Rathbun continues to wait

That said, we are leery of jumping to conclusions.

It is possible that Ben was not barred from leaving the country, and that the (alleged) parole violation was something else.

Of course, we still have another question.

Ben Rathbun learns that Mahogany's parents do not live there

Why did Ben allegedly skip out on a parole violation hearing?

Is it possible that he did not know that it was taking place? Did he miss a letter?

Infamously, it is not uncommon for people to not see when they are summoned to court or even facing criminal charges.

Ben Rathbun calls his friend, Jason

Fans and viewers who have witnessed Ben’s eccentric behavior and odd way of thinking cannot rule out that Ben’s motive could be stranger than we could imagine.

He does at times seem unfamiliar with some nuance within society, due to being raised within a cult.

Ben has also multiple times expressed a belief that divine providence will see him through on any path, which one imagines could lead him to make a mistake.

Ben Rathbun and Mahogany Roca on Reddit (February 2022)

Interestingly, Ben and Mahogany appear to still be together.

In fact, Ben and Mahogany were spotted together again in Peru in February, though it was unclear if they were filming again.

Did Ben violate his parole by visiting her in Peru? He may have missed court to visit her a second time.

90 Day Fiance Spoiler: Are Memphis and Hamza MARRIED?

Last month, it was rumored that Memphis and Hamza had split.

90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days viewers were not exactly surprised, after all that they had seen.

Eventually, cultural differences and especially a hefty language barrier become too important, no matter how good the “sexy time” is.

But a recent spoiler indicates that Memphis and Hamza had more success than fans expected.

Moknii Hamza proposes to Memphis Sandoval

Memphis is a 35-year-old Michigan native who flew halfway around the world to meet and marry Hamza.

Due to her complicated personal history, fans have been unsure of what last name is hers — Smith? Sandoval?

Fortunately, she cleared the air in some official paperwork filed in Ottawa County, Michigan.

Hamza walks around the table to hug Memphis Sandoval

In October 2021 Memphis registered to vote in her home district.

(There are many reasons to re-register to vote, from changing addresses to combating voter registration).

However, In Touch Weekly reveals that Memphis registered under a new name: Memphis Chardell-Arden Mokni.

Moknii Hamza slides his engagement ring onto Memphis Sandoval's hand

Mokni, of course, indicates that she at least shares a surname with 27-year-old Hamza.

It is possible that she filed to change her name in advance, and perhaps has not gotten her marriage to him legally recognized in the United States.

That said, many suspect that it is more likely that she married Hamza in Tunisia, brought him over on a spousal visa, and then changed her name.

Hamza and Memphis Sandoval walk on the stone

Interestingly, there have been rumors suggesting that Memphis and Hamza were filming again.

While we have not seen conclusive evidence of this, it would not be surprising to see them appear on another season.

Even if they marry in Tunisia on Season 5, that would not be the end of their story.

Memphis Smith warns Hamza that if they don't marry this trip, it's over

In Tunisia, in addition to some lies, some major differences, and a massive language barrier, they also had to deal with things like Hamza’s anxious mother.

(We’re not knocking Hayet for being worried — what mom doesn’t worry about her son leaving the country to get married?)

But leaving Tunisia behind doesn’t mean that all of the couple’s struggles are over.

Memphis explains to Hamza the importance of respecting his mom, knowing one another

The language barrier is still there.

Memphis has developed the nickname of “Cookie Monster,” after one of Sesame Street‘s most relatable muppets, for her simplified language.

It’s not that she does not speak clear English at all, it’s that she speaks many simple declarative sentences for Hamza’s benefit.

Moknii Hamza - big boobies, Memphis

Obviously, having to use a translator — whether a helpful human one or an awkward automated one — is tricky.

But that inconvenience pales beside the obvious questions that people have about their long-term compatibility.

What, aside from mutual attraction, do Memphis and Hamza have in common?

Hamza - (Memphis) is just too sexy (explains premature ejaculation)

Then of course is the matter of Hamza’s insecurity about Memphis’ ex, a worry rooted in cultural differences.

In the United States, it is considered extremely normal to be friends with an ex, particularly if the two are co-parents.

This was not Hamza’s family’s experience, and led to confusion over where things stand between Memphis and her ex.

Hamza hugs Memphis Smith at the airport

Honestly? Memphis and Hamza seem to genuinely like each other and neither is trying to ruin the other’s life or take advantage of them.

That sounds like a low bar, because it is, but it’s more than we can say for some of the other couples on this show.

It would be very interesting to see how their dynamic shifts in Michigan … if the reports that they’re filming are true.

Memphis Smith IG praying I can smile like this again

As for the breakup rumors about Memphis and Hamza, we honestly don’t know.

The breakup rumors were floating around early this year, months after Memphis registered her name change.

A few months isn’t very long to be married, but it’s more than enough time for a couple to split if they can’t work things out.

Gino Palazzolo Knocks Over Chair, Ditches Jasmine Pineda on 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days (Recap)

On 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days Season 5, Episode 13, several relationships were at turning points.

Jasmine revealed new threats against her, causing real fears and rising resentment against Gino.

Ben and Mahogany’s vacation got weird after Ben spammed Mahogany’s phone … and her parents showed up.

Ella had a startling confession for Johnny: in her loneliness, she had slept with a friend.

Kimberly’s attempt to have a heart-to-heart with Usman about how she’s feeling went very, very poorly.

Memphis sat down with Hamza’s mother and a translator to have a much-needed conversation about their concerns.

Realizing that Mike was on the verge of leaving, Ximena displayed a sudden — but only partial — change in attitude that had Mike very happy.

… For a little while, anyway.

1. Gino Palazzolo and Jasmine Pineda

Jasmine pineda works out at the gym
Jasmine is keeping up with her workout routine … and trying to very deliberately spend some time apart from Gino, something that he does not yet understand. When he comes in to just sit down and watch her lift waits for a bit, she’s annoyed.

2. She was threatened

Jasmine pineda was threatened all over internet
According to Jasmine, an anonymous social media account sent her a threatening message, vowing to spread her nude photos all across the internet. She and Gino both assume that this was sent by the ex to whom Gino had leaked her photos, which means that Gino’s betrayal of her set this in motion.

3. Jasmine could lose her job

Jasmine pineda im gonna do nudes
In the United States, there have been an alarming number of cases of people losing their jobs purely because someone else stole and exploited their nude photos. Jasmine fears that her teaching job in Panama will let her go once this revenge is exacted. All that she can think of to do about this is to cut off the blackmailer’s hold over her by sharing nudes herself, ideally to make money in the process so that she will still have income.

4. Gino’s response is so weird

Gino palazzolo thinks that its no big deal just get another job
First, Gino — who is unemployed — offers to support Jasmine if she is unemployed. That is sweet, but unrealistic. Does Gino have $3000 a month of extra cash lying around? (Weirdly, some on social media have interpreted this as Jasmine asking him for that much, which was not the case — she told him how much to highlight how it is unrealistic). Then, Gino suggested that Jasmine could just get another job.

5. That was the wrong thing to say

Jasmine pineda it is an insult to me
Jasmine was hurt by Gino’s suggestion that she should get another job. Teaching is what she does. That’s a specific passion and set of skills. It’s not like moving from one office job to another.

6. Gino tries, fails to give her space

Jasmine pineda annoyed what do you want
After Jasmine clearly wants time to cool down (to her credit, she does seem to be working on her temper … unless production is editing to make her look more reasonable, which seems doubtful), Gino seems unwilling to wait.

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Jasmine Pineda Claps Back at Critics of Her OnlyFans: It Puts Food on My Table!

Just one day after dramatically snatching his hat from his head, Jasmine stunned viewers by taking Gino back.

Their ill-advised reconciliation didn’t undo the wrongs of the past, including Gino having leaked her nudes.

Jasmine has previously stated that the fallout from this scandal cost her her job.

As a result, she’s using her new OnlyFans career to put food on the table — and she’s clapping back at critics over it.

After episode after episode of Jasmine Pineda screaming and crying at the slightest provocation, her distress suddenly made sense.

She and Gino were on a resort island to celebrate their love.

This was when Jasmine unblocked the ex of his who had been messaging him … and discovered his betrayal.

Jasmine Pineda - naked pictures of me?

Gino had sent Jasmine’s topless photo to his ex.

He had also made fun of Jasmine in messages to her, and continued to message her even on this trip to meet Jasmine.

The messages also revealed that Gino had previously boasted about how much he had paid sugar babies for dates.

Jasmine Pineda takes Gino Palazzolo's hat

This famously led to their extremely emotional confrontation, with Jasmine swiping Gino’s hat.

She was trying to prove a point and hurt him at the same time, and she did.

Gino wears hats as a security blanket, and had not planned on exposing his scalp to the world — or to anyone else.

Against the better judgments of literally everyone involved, the two for some reason decided to give it another chance.

Yes, Jasmine’s emotional outbursts from before this were totally unwarranted and were emotional abuse. 

Yes, Gino had misused her nudes, betraying his trust and making it clear that he was obsessed with his ex.

Gino Palazzolo awkwardly hugs Jasmine Pineda

A stunner took place off of the show and on social media.

According to Jasmine, Gino’s ex — the one who had warned her — had taken steps to sabotage her life.

Jasmine accused her of sending these ill-gotten nude photos to multiple bloggers, as well as to Jasmine’s employer, getting her fired.

Jasmine Pineda IG accuses Gino's ex of blackmail, getting her fired

Gino’s ex has adamantly denied having sent anything of the sort.

It seems possible that some photo of Jasmine was sent to her employer, but it’s possible that it might not have been the same person who sent it.

Either way, Jasmine shared that the result was that she was fired from her job — something that happens far too often.

Jasmine Pineda screams with heartbreak

Whoever sent the photo, the result was the same.

Now, Jasmine is using OnlyFans as her source of income.

Like numerous 90 Day Fiance stars who use OnlyFans, she is hoping that her reality TV fame will make this a sustainable platform.

Jasmine Pineda goes on a romantic boat tour alone

In a recent Instagram Story, Jasmine spoke about being a woman with “5 university titles” who is working towards her Ph.D.

She acknowledged that some people think that “shooting for OnlyFans” is degrading.

However, she noted that it is a job — one that can put food on her table.

Jasmine Pineda IG about OnlyFans

“But life surprises you sometimes and you have to reinvent yourself [especially] when you have people who depend on you,” Jasmine noted.

She shared that in addition to bringing in money, using the platform also helps to keep her motivated to work out.

Jasmine explained that she has “to maintain a ‘figure'” in order to create new content, so she keeps to a certain fitness standard.

Gino Palazzolo awkwardly watches Jasmine Pineda work out

Jasmine charges $14.99 per month for OnlyFans subscribers.

For those less interested in gawking at her body, she is also on Cameo, which is an extremely common income source for reality stars.

Jasmine’s fee is nearly $50 for a video, which is probably mid-range as the rates for these go.

Jasmine Pineda wears I Am The Crazy Panamanian Girlfriend

Viewers have an understandably complicated view of Jasmine — and of Gino, for that matter.

It appears that they are still together, though social media clues can sometimes be (deliberately) misleading.

No matter what we think of her on-screen antics from earlier this season, no one should be shamed for taking nudes, for sex work like OnlyFans, or for being themselves.

Mike Berk Spotted Filming After Breakup with Ximena Cuellar

Even before viewers watched Ximena complain about “piggish” Mike Berk on screen, we knew that they had split.

Ximena is many things. Subtle on social media is not one of them.

However, there have now been multiple reports of Mike filming again.

The latest, on the heels of Mike’s racist posts being exposed, say that Mike was spotted filming in New York.

Mike Berk explains the "distance" he's felt lately

An inside source tells In Touch Weekly that Mike Berk has “started filming” a new season of one show or the other of the 90 Day Fiance franchise.

“Mike was spotted shooting a scene in New York with his friend Nelcy,” the insider detailed.

This could be anything from wrapping up another season of Before The 90 Days to filming for 90 Day: The Single Life.

Mike Berk and Ximena Cuellar hug goodbye at airport

Mike Berk and Ximena Cuellar, also known as Ximena Morales, were in a long-distance relationship.

On Season 5 of 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days, we watched the two of them meet for the very first time.

Despite the language barrier and some awkward moments, it was a very sweet story … at first.

Mike Berk and Ximena Cuellar view coffee-growing land

Like any couple who is meeting for the first time, there were some rough moments.

Ximena should have been more honest. Mike had issues that he needed to work on.

But before he left Colombia that first time, Mike proposed to Ximena. They became engaged.

Mike Berk cake - Ximena do you want to marry me?

Mike returned to New York as a fiance.

He set about getting ready to take the next step with Ximena, including seeing an attorney about paperwork so that they could be together.

But something changed while he was away.

Ximena Cuellar - the truth is I'm not happy with Mike right now

Mike returned to Colombia to prepare for their wedding, but Ximena was like a new person.

She was sullen and petulant — which would be understandable from a teenager, but bizarre from a 24-year-old mother of two.

She didn’t meet him at the airport. She didn’t want to sleep with him. She clearly resented his presence.

Ximena Cuellar - the dress is not getting bought

All of that is already a weird way to “welcome” your fiance.

Ximena took things a step further after the couple shopped for wedding dresses.

She asked him why he was willing to buy her a wedding dress — but hadn’t given her the money to pay for a breast augmentation.

Ximena Cuellar - I want a breast augmentation

Ximena gave Mike an ultimatum: she wouldn’t “let” him buy her a wedding dress until she got her boob job.

Mike suggested that he was open to it as a result.

But things did not stop there, as Ximena explained that she had no desire to sleep with Mike because he is “weird.”

Ximena Cuellar - you are weird

Mike was understandably heartbroken by this, and admitted to producers that he felt like going home.

Speaking to the camera, not even Ximena could explain her change of heart.

She was so happy to see Mike last time. Now she wasn’t.

Ximena Cuellar - I don't know what happened

We genuinely believe her when she says that she loved Mike before.

Why? Because, clearly, when she doesn’t like someone, she can’t hide it even a little.

The issue, mainly, was that she felt this way but didn’t break up with Mike. That’s weird to do.

Ximena Cuellar - I don't see how this is going to help

Mike suggested that he and Ximena sit down with his friend, Nelcy, over video chat.

Nelcy is his friend John’s fiancee, and she is fluent in Spanish.

Though Ximena initially claimed that she might not have anything to say, she had a lot to say.

Ximena Cuellar - and he's just there staring at me like a weird bug

She doesn’t like when Mike looks at her. She doesn’t like that her burps sometimes.

Ximena has previously complained about Mike showering her with affection.

Overall, it sounds less like a list of complaints and more like a situation when you dislike someone, so everything that they do bothers you.

Ximena Cuellar to Nelcy - he has thousands of things that are degenerate

Nelcy even gave Ximena a chance to change her tone, asking her what she liked about Mike.

Instead, Ximena doubled down on listing what she resented about him, calling him “degenerate” and “piggish.”

It’s okay to feel that way about someone … but extremely weird to feel that way about your fiance, let alone to say it.

Nelcy - she's literally disgusted by you

Nelcy told Mike what he needed to hear — the truth.

Ximena was clearly disgusted by him.

Nelcy advised him that no one deserves to be treated that way, and told him that she hopes that he comes home and stops funding Ximena’s life.

Ximena Cuellar TikTok Mike Berk proposal 01 of 03

It appears that Mike and Ximena broke off their engagement after that was filmed, but later became re-engaged.

Ximena’s social media activity is not exactly subtle, and she shared what looked like a long-distance proposal to TikTok last year.

It also looks like she got the breast augmentation and tummy tuck that she wanted around June of 2021, though it’s unclear who paid for it.

Ximena Cuellar TikTok Mike Berk proposal 02 of 03

Then, in early February, there were reports (even some with video to match) of Mike filming in Colombia again.

That seemed a pretty clear indication that they were still together and would appear on a new season.

While that may have been true at the time, everything changed just a couple of weeks later.

Mike Berk not following Ximena Cuellar IG

After Ximena leaked a photo slideshow of a different man, everything fell apart.

She and Mike are no longer following each other on social media.

It’s clearly over between them, which may be what Mike and Nelcy were filmed discussing in New York: the aftermath of it all.

Mike Berk IG "bad joke" racist slur

It’s also very much worth noting that Mike’s old social media posts — some of which involve horrifying racial and homophobic slurs — have come to light.

Yes, the posts are very old, dating back to a time when “edgy” humor was much more common on social media (and in mainstream comedy).

But the use of slurs, coupled with more explicit racist talking points, make it hard to find enough of a punchline to even consider these to be “jokes.”

Ben Rathbun: Mahogany Isn’t a Deceiver and I’m Not a Predator!

In the aftermath of seeing her very fake-looking home, Ben Rathbun was friendzoned by Mahogany Roca.

In a new interview, Ben is trying to do damage control for himself and for the recently-turned-23-year-old.

His apparent purpose was to defend Mahogany and himself from the criticisms of viewers.

Honestly? In this interview, Ben comes across looking worse than anything that we’ve seen on the show.

Entertainment Tonight‘s Melicia Johnson speaks to all sorts of famous lunatics while managing a polite smile.

Recently, she spoke to Ben Rathbun, and managed to keep her composure even when he said extremely creepy things.

But before he delved into all of the ways in which the cult has not left him even though he left it, he defended Mahogany.

Mahogany’s photos were laughably fake … but, in Ben’s mind, this wasn’t as dishonest as viewers seem to think.

“In my opinion, there’s two different kinds of people that do social media,” Ben opined.

“One is someone that wants to show what’s going on in their lives every single day,” he began.

“And,” Ben described, “they want to be real and authentic and show everyone who they are.”

He admitted: “When I see Mahogany’s page, it’s not like that at all.”

“She posts maybe once every two or three months and it’s just for fun, it’s more for art,” Ben claimed.

“Like, if you look at her page, it’s just a bunch of pictures of selfies that look really well done,” Ben argued.

“And,” he continued. “some are like from two or three years ago. She doesn’t, you know, update.”

Ben explained: “So, in my opinion, she’s not really trying to deceive anyone, she’s having a fun time.”

“We’ve all kind of done Snapchat filters and had a good time with it — she just posted it,” Ben rationalized.

“She never thought the entire world would be looking at that and judging her for it,” he continued.

Ben characterized: “You know, she was just having fun. So I don’t have any problem with it … it’s fine, it doesn’t really matter.”

Ben insisted that Mahogany “wasn’t being deceptive at all” when she altered her photos, even if Ben seemed clueless about how doctored they were.

“To me it was much more of a spiritual connection,” he added.

As for Mahogany’s age, he justified that because she “didn’t keep reiterating the lie.”

“It was a one-time lie,” Ben stated.

“Something that I would tell my kids, if you meet a strange, older man online,” he suggested.

Ben would advise them: “Don’t tell him your social security number, don’t tell him your address, don’t tell him your age.”

“If you do tell them your age, change it up because you don’t know if they’re going to be a stalker or a crazy person,” Ben sagely advised.

“So, not a problem with me at all,” he claimed.

“So the age thing to me is us not pursuing the truth together and me like, not following up well,” Ben said. “I just did a lot of assuming.”

As for Mahogany being 22 and not 24, Ben said that “that’s not that big a deal to me as for the age of my kids because I don’t look at it that way.”

He added: “She’s a completely separate adult and it doesn’t matter to me if my kids are that age.”

“It’s just something that caught me off guard,” Ben said. “I had to think about it for a minute.”

“But this has become so much more than age, so much more than, you know, our differences,” Ben said, like so many other men in their fifties before him.

“The things we’ve been really focusing on are our commonalities,” he characterized. “And so far those outweigh our differences.”

Ben praised: “And she is so mature and wise and intelligent, that I haven’t really felt that difference.”

Ben went even further, insisting that he’d be okay “letting” his own 22-year-old daughter date a 50-year-old man.

Unfortunately, he went about this in the creepiest way possible.

Ben’s explanation had huge “you can leave the cult but the cult won’t leave you” energy that viewers found off-putting at best.

“There’s no one in this world that loves Mahogany more than her dad,” Ben announced.

“And so all of the viewers out there that are so concerned for her and think that I’m a predator coming after a young girl,” he acknowledged.

Ben asked these viewers to “trust me when I say the dad cares more about the situation than anyone from the outside.”

“So, if he sees that I am very, very healthy — which is, I find myself the exception and I’m sure that’s probably rationalizing what I’m doing so I’ll give you that,” Ben said.

“But I am incredibly healthy,” he insisted. “I take care of my body and it’s a huge priority and I want to live for a very long time and I want to live in the best health that I can.”

Is Ben suggesting that a massive age gap is okay because he has abs, but would not be okay if he weren’t a fitness model? That’s … weird.

It got weirder, however, as Ben described fathers as the “first protector” of their daughters.

In his mind, his relationship with Mahogany hinged entirely upon the approval of her dad, even though she’s an adult woman and not her dad’s property.

Ben suggested that it would be the same for a man wanting to date his daughter, which critics quickly noted sounded like something out of the Duggar cult.

Ben also claimed that Mahogany’s obviously fake house was a place that she had stayed for a few months.

It’s unclear if Ben thinks that he is covering for Mahogany or if these are things that he has come to believe since last season filmed.

Melicia clearly wasn’t buying it and neither is anyone else, but we suppose that it hardly matters if Ben is fooled. And Ben seems to always be fooled.

Ben rathbun mahogany isnt a deceiver and im not a predator

Are Ella Johnson and Johnny Still Together After 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days?

It’s been a few weeks since 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days viewers saw Ella and Johnny.

Their most recent episode was in February, when Ella warned him that she wasn’t going to wait for him forever.

Sure enough, the preview for next week’s episode included a confession: she had slept with a visiting friend.

Despite ample warning, Johnny seemed devastated. Do they have any hope for a future together?

Ella Johnson is grappling with the latest setback

Ella Johnson has not always been lucky in love.

In the past, she had a long-distance boyfriend from India.

When the two met up in Thailand, however, things fell apart.

Ella Johnson and her ex from India

The unnamed boyfriend rejected her, telling her that he did not want a physical relationship.

This was emotionally devastating, as it would be to anyone, and was a major setback for Ella.

She has been hoping that Johnny, whom she loves, will be very different.

Ella Johnson books a flight to apply more pressure to her man

But Ella and Johnny have had a number of setbacks, largely due to the COVID-19 pandemic.

Johnny’s fears are not irrational — this virus has killed millions, is airbourne, and could easily prevent him from seeing his family for months.

But whether they are reasonable or not, cold feet are cold feet. Ella knew that he needed a push.

Ella Johnson buys $1,124 tickets to Dubai

When we last saw them, Ella spent a considerable amount of money to book tickets to Dubai.

Though Dubai’s laws in the areas of human rights would cause many to choose another location, Ella and Johnny could conceivably meet up there.

Ella’s hope was that buying the tickets herself, knowing that Johnny already had his, would be enough to motivate him to take the risk in the name of love.

Johnny to Ella Johnson - that's what we call "American thinking"

Johnny — and not unfairly — characterized this as “American thinking,” saying that the risk was simply too great.

In some ways, the two are a microcosm for our two nations and their diametrically opposed responses to the pandemic.

As much as Ella loves Johnny and wants to see him, however, she knows that she cannot wait for ever, and she told him as much.

Ella Johnson hears - I want to meet you, but

Simply put, Ella told Johnny that if he doesn’t meet her in Dubai, something will have to change.

It doesn’t mean that their relationship has to end, but it will have to change to an open relationship if it is to continue.

Why? Because she’s a human being with wants and needs, and has already invested years of extraordinary patience into this romance.

Ella Johnson gives an open relationship ultimatum, just wants happiness

Setting this boundary may have been the best thing for Ella’s well-being, but it was not easy.

She doesn’t want an open long-distance relationship with Johnny, she wants to be with him.

It’s hard to yearn for this long. Honestly? Many people might have given up a long time ago.

Johnny - she will meet somebody else

Johnny met up with a friend of his, Wang, to share his fears that Ella will meet someone else and fall in love.

He is afraid of catching COVID, afraid of being separated from his family for many weeks, and afraid of losing Ella.

Wang advised him to go for it. All things considered, he has to face at least one of those fears no matter what.

Ella Johnson shares her new plan for meeting Johnny in Dubai

The preview for next week’s episode showed Johnny’s fears spike.

On Season 5, Episode 13, Ella will tell him that a friend came over, and that the two ended up having sex.

While this sort of thing happens all of the time, especially in open relationships (which may be their status), it is hard for him to hear.

Ella Johnson cries over the mention of Johnny's son

So what does this mean for their future?

Not everyone can handle an open relationship (just like not everyone can handle monogamy, or any kind of relationship), and Johnny seemed hurt in the preview.

For that matter, it’s been many months since all of this filmed in the back half of 2021. Have they split since then?

Ella Johnson IG man crush monday of Johnny

While the two cannot spoil things, Ella did post a “man crush Monday” post in February.

The crush in question was Johnny, and she did not shy away from her thirst.

While this could be a misleading throwback intended to string along followers (no doubt encouraged by production), that’s really not how people talk about their exes.

Johnny - and I want to propose to Ella on the trip

A safe bet is likely that Ella and Johnny are still together relationship-wise, but not physically together yet.

That could change. Honestly? So far, we’d be interested in seeing them return for another season.

We’ve found ourselves rooting for them, especially since Johnny is Ella’s perfect man — at least, her perfect man outside of anime.

Ella Johnson IG confirms to me that Kurama is her ideal husbando

During Ella’s first episode, she described her ideal man but could not name him or the show that he was from.

I reached out on Instagram hours after the episode aired to confirm that she was describing Kurama from Yu Yu Hakusho

We hope that things work out for Ella and Johnny, but if they don’t, does anyone have Kurama’s number?