Patrick Mendes Admits to Cheating on Thais Ramone: It’s in the Past!

On last weekend’s episode of 90 Day Fiance, Patrick Mendes left that nice house in Austin for his new home in Dallas.

Thais Ramone was less than happy with the move, mostly because John would still be living with them.

From the start, fans have been concerned about Thais, especially over her intrusive tracking of Patrick’s phone.

Now, however, we know why she went to such extremes to keep track of Patrick: he cheated on her.

In this sneak peek clip of Season 9, Episode 9 of 90 Day Fiance, Patrick Mendes gives Thais Ramone a gift.

It’s not a Christmas present, he says, but a welcome-to-America present: a new phone.

The phone does come with one caveat: he will not be giving her access to his location at every moment anymore.

Thais is very clearly less than pleased.

Though she is still going to accept the phone (he tells her that he could always refuse the gift), it feels almost like a trick.

Meanwhile, Patrick explains that the time of her tracking his location should now be over.

Patrick — along with some seemingly random bar patrons during his first episode — understood the desire to track him when she was in Brazil.

Now, though, she doesn’t have to guess when he’s asleep in his bed, because she’s in the same bed.

“This gives me a lot of anxiety, love,” Patrick explains to her.

“It feels bad when I’m with somebody and they’re the love of my life,” Patrick explains.

“And they don’t trust me,” he continues. “It doesn’t feel good.”

This is when Thais reminds Patrick that her concern about his faithfulness was not conjured out of thin air.

Thais notes that Patrick once gave her a reason to not trust him.

Patrick dismisses this as “in the past,” but she presses him to admit on camera why she is so concerned.

This is when he says that he simply “spoke to a girl” early in his relationship with Thais. But is that the truth of it?

But if all that he did was speak to another woman, then the only thing that he would have done with his mouth is, you know, form and vocalize words.

That is not the case, Thais says, since he hooked up with her.

Patrick objects, revising his story to say that all that they did was “kiss,” but a kiss is not talking, Patrick.

Patrick tries to do some mental gymnastics: “I think it’s different, like when you kiss a girl between have sex with a girl.”

One, hooking up is a deliberately vague (and downright inclusive) term that can mean everything from four-person shower sex to making out.

So, yes, they hooked up.

Two, you don’t generally get to decide that what you did physically with another person was not cheating.

You and your partner(s) set those boundaries together.

So, yes, it was cheating, even if some relationships wouldn’t consider a kiss to be cheating — that has nothing to do with Thais and Patrick.

Patrick is not taking this seriously, it seems, but Thais is clearly hurt.

On the one hand, she can’t and should not hold this over his head forever — either let him earn back your trust, or leave him.

At the same time, he needs to take her feelings seriously, even if that does not include her tracking his location anymore.

Patrick is a handsome guy who makes good money, so his behavior would have to be wildly out-of-line for the majority of 90 Day Fiance fans to dislike him.

(Case in point: Bilal and the Lifetime movie plot that he’s putting Shaeeda through)

But that doesn’t mean that Thais (who, as an attractive young woman with an accent, is baiting the fandom’s worst elements) is a bad guy, or even unreasonable.

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Deavan Clegg Explains GoFundMe for 3-Year-Old Taeyang’s Cancer Battle

Late last month, 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way alum Deavan Clegg revealed her son’s leukemia diagnosis.

Taeyang’s condition was only identified after Deavan repeatedly brought him to doctors until they could diagnose him.

Now, he is undergoing treatment (and not a moment too soon) and is said to have a good prognosis for recovery.

Deavan is raising money to go to her son’s care. She is also explaining to fans what the funds are for.

Deavan Clegg header (9 May 2022)

Less than a week after a GoFundMe for Taeyang’s healthcare was established, Deavan Clegg posted an update on Instagram.

“We are almost to $20,000 raised on gofundme in just 4 days,” she shared.

“The support for Taeyang has really touched us,” Deavan expressed. “Cancer doesn’t stand a chance.”

Deavan Clegg IG gofundme update, insurance explain

The GoFundMe, which has now crossed the $20,000 mark, was not created by Deavan.

Her mother, Elicia, created it to support her grandson’s care.

The goal is $50,000, meaning that they are less than halfway to the mark.

Taeyang GoFundMe 8 June 2022

As encouraging as Deavan’s update was, some had questions.

“Insurance pays for everything,” claimed one commenter, who asked: “So what is the Go Fund Me for?”

Deavan gently corrected the commenter: “Insurance does not cover everything.”

As many Americans traveling abroad have learned firsthand, most developed countries would charge someone little to nothing for a cancer diagnosis and treatment.

In the United States, even someone lucky enough to have a good insurance plan would still find themselves facing steep bills.

While there are charities entirely devoted to helping cover costs for children’s cancer treatments, the staggering and often artificially inflated numbers on hospital bills are daunting.

In late May, Deavan revealed that Taeyang had been diagnosed with “B-cell acute lymphoblastic leukemia just a few days ago.”

Deavan specified. “He has already undergone multiple procedures.”

“And,” she continued, Taeyang had “started chemotherapy treatment just two days ago.”

“This is every parents absolute worst nightmare,” Deavan acknowledged in her heartbreaking post.

“And I’m trying hard to stay strong for Taeyang, Drascilla, and my baby in my tummy,” she noted.

As we previously reported, Deavan is pregnant with her third child, by partner Topher Park.

B-cell acute lymphoblastic leukemia can be fatal if left untreated for months or even for weeks.

Deavan’s trips to the hospital, being sent home with things like iron supplements, continued until she found an answer for her son’s sudden illness.

3-year-old Taeyang’s treatments are not, and will not be, easy, but his road to beating this is laid out before him.

Deavan Clegg was awarded full custody of Taeyang after a two-year, albeit one-sided, custody battle with Jihoon Lee.

Though Jihoon was demonstrably irresponsible and also under investigation for child-abuse, apparently the main reason that Deavan got custody was even simpler:

She was taking care of Taeyang and wished to continue to do so. Jihoon reportedly lost all interest in even communicating with his son, let alone seeking custody.

Fortunately, Taeyang has a strong support system with Deavan’s family, and with Topher.

Deavan even shares that her son “cries for” her boyfriend more than he does for her.

They have been together for nearly two years, which is the majority of Taeyang’s young life. We wish this family the best as they grapple with Taeyang’s health crisis.

Kalani Faagata and Asuelu Pulaa Are Still Married: Is She Stuck With Him for Life?

Last month, one of 90 Day Fiance‘s most visibly unhappy couples hinted at a looming divorce announcement.

Kalani Faagata and Asuelu Pulaa have been struggling for years.

In recent months, things have been even worse, with Asuelu blocking his wife on social media.

But no divorce announcement has come. And some fans fear that Kalani is simply stuck with Asuelu.

Earlier this year, 90 Day Diaries caught up with Kalani and Asuelu.

Their shared misery was etched into their faces, palpable in their voices.

Their hostility even apparent on social media, how in the world could they last as a couple?

That episode aired months ago. It was filmed months before that.

It has been even longer since either of them have shown any sign of the other on their social media pages.

If we hadn’t seen that they are living together, these would be clear signs of a separation — nothing concrete, but strong hints.

This is not the first rough patch in their marriage, which some would characterize as one long string of rough patches.

Kalani has repeatedly expressed her frustration with Asuelu’s childishness and lack of responsibility.

Asuelu does not like that Kalani has her own opinions, and tries to use his culture to convince her to adopt a submissive mentality.

Over the years, Asuelu has insulted and cussed at Kalani and some of her family.

Though eager to stay the right things to her dad, Low Faagata, Asuelu seems to struggle to respect women who are not his own mother.

He has insulted (and blocked) Kalani’s sister, Kolini, and even at times been insulting towards Kalani’s mom.

One of the couple’s disputes is about having more children — Asuelu wants more, Kalani does not.

Asuelu has at times expressed dismay that Kalani gets a say in this.

He also wants to be more distant from her family … though, as with having more kids, it’s unclear how he imagines that the finances for this would work out.

Kalani Faagata feels like the devil is at her doorstep

In May, Kalani said that she would make things about her relationship clear by the end of the month.

The end of May came and went. We are on the second week of June with no divorce announcement.

Maybe an NDA came into play, or maybe she expected a trailer to drop that won’t drop until later this month. We don’t know.

Kalani Faagata affirms that doing things while watching kids is difficult

But a growing number of fans fear that Kalani will remain glued at the hip to her manchild husband for the rest of her days.

Or, at least, for years to come.

(Don’t get us wrong, as always when a 90 Day Fiance star is a woman, there’s a segment of the fandom that despises her, but she’s generally well-received)

Kalani Faagata tears up thinking about losing Asuelu

Despite Asuelu’s conflict with Kalani’s family, that same family may be a huge part of the reason that they are still together.

Though her father has many good qualities, Low has also made it clear that he does not “believe” in divorce, as he sees it as “giving up.”

(In real life, giving up on something that is making you miserable is often a good idea — especially when it’s hard to say what prize awaits Kalani if she toughs this out)

Between family pressure and possible financial incentives, Kalani may feel that a divorce would be even worse.

Divorcing Asuelu could also lead to a custody battle, even if Asuelu’s mother, Lesina, very famously does not “care about the kids.”

Without the unwavering support of her family, Kalani may never work up to break free from Asuelu. Will Asuelu magically become a better husband one day? Well … maybe?

Danielle Mullins Jbali and Mohamed Jbali Reunite: We’re Closer than Ever!

Last year, Danielle Mullins Jbali and Mohamed Jbali established a degree of closure.

The two have years of ugly history behind them, but 90 Day: The Single Life followed them as they reconnected.

That was then, however, with some fans (and critics) speculating that the reconciliation was faked for TV.

Clearly, that is not the case, because look who was hanging out recently …

“Look who came to Ohio today,” Danielle Mullins Jbali captioned this week, alongside a photo with her ex-husband.

“Thank you for the visit @mohamedjbaliusa,” she wrote.

“We have been through so much and are friends after everything,” Danielle affirmed. “Just shows anything is possible.”

It doesn’t sound like this was necessarily a deliberate visit.

Instead, it’s possible that Mohamed was simply passing through the area and stopped by to see his ex-wife-turned-friend.

Alternatively, it’s always possible that something is going on — like filming again. If so, neither of them would be allowed to say so just yet.

Danielle and Mohamed have been credited by their own castmates for “putting 90 Day Fiance on the map.”

Anecdotally, their drama was the first thing that I ever heard about the show, and I’m clearly not alone.

The erstwhile couple debuted on Season 2 of the flagship series.

Danielle and Mohamed met in an online chat room.

Their 15-year age difference may seem insignificant compared to some other couples on the franchise, but that was only part of their story.

The two spent a fortnight of time together in person. Mohamed proposed to her via video call.

After he left Tunisia to be with Danielle on a K-1 visa, however, things immediately began to fall apart.

Danielle’s friends and family were leery of him, not trusting his intentions.

They were right.

Mohamed refused to kiss Danielle — even on their wedding day.

This truly set the tone for their relationship, one in which Danielle would beg, even on camera, for him to sleep with her.

Later, the couple admitted that they only had sex once during their 16 months of marriage, consummating the union and never repeating it.

“Of course, I’m not going to have sex with someone like Danielle,” Mohamed hurtfully announced on the show.

He accused Danielle of having a foul genital odor for which she needed medical treatment.

This was a horror to her and to viewers.

Fourteen months into their marriage, Mohamed received his legal residency documentation — his green card.

Now able to work and function like an American citizen in most ways, he took only two more months before splitting from Danielle.

It’s not that the two didn’t have ample reason to break up, however.

Danielle accused Mohamed of denying her sex and of cheating on her.

Mohamed accused her, in turn, of stealing from him and committing identity fraud using his name.

It was truly a marriage that did not need to last.

The divorce was every bit as ugly as the marriage itself.

Mohamed would go “missing,” turning up in new cities, puzzling fans and frustrating his ex.

Meanwhile, Danielle was consumed with a need for revenge, vowing at one point to ruin his life … but ultimately learning that she could not get the marriage annulled.

That is all behind them, now.

Against all odds, they seem to have forged a friendship, even when they aren’t filming.

Some people really are better off as friends than they were as spouses.

Loren and Alexei Brovarnik Take Home MTV Award for Best Reality Romance!

Last month, 90 Day Fiance fan-favorites Loren and Alexei Brovarnik revealed that they are expecting Baby #3!

Fans were surprised that Loren was pregnant again so quickly, but are very excited to watch the two welcome their third child.

Despite the ratings and renewals of Loren & Alexei: After The 90 Days, they may have wondered how long their popularity could last.

Long enough to win them an award for “Best Reality Romance” seven years after they married, it turns out.

Alexei Brovarnik and Loren Brovarnik at MTV Awards 2022

The 2022 MTV Movie & TV Awards: Unscripted aired on Sunday.

Loren and Alexei received an award for “Best Reality Romance.”

Despite their longtime popularity in the extremely large 90 Day Fiance fandom, the Brovarniks were taken aback by the recognition.

Winning means beating out couples from the The Bachelor franchise, from Vanderpump Rules, and from Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta.

That is no easy feat.

Loren and Alexei spoke while there to share their astonishment.

“I don’t think it’s hit us how many people watch us still, this to this day,” Loren admitted to Entertainment Tonight.

“We didn’t think we would’ve been married when we met,” she added.

Loren remarked: “like, we’re married seven years now, we never would’ve thought this.”

“It’s special,” Alexei acknowledged.

“It’s no joke, right, and like, we didn’t think about any of this, but it’s big, right?” he added.

Alexei recognized: “So many people voted for us.”

The award is shaped like popcorn, but of course much heavier, and Alexei was happy to hold it for both of them.

“I married him because he’s a selfie stick and he’s got the height and I’m very short, so, you know?” Loren joked.

She stood beside him, one hand resting on her baby bump at times.

Loren also opened up about her pregnancy, confirming that she is feeling great.

We al recall the emotional journey that she and Alexei experienced late last summer, when Asher was born prematurely and had to spend days in the NICU.

“I feel very different this time around,” Loren described, “so thank you.”

Some fans have of course wondered if After The 90 Days cameras will follow them all the way into the delivery room on the pcoming season.

While she doesn’t know for sure, it sounds like people shouldn’t get their hopes up.

“Well, I’m having a C-section I know, so maybe not, ” Loren explained. “We’ll see what they say at the hospital this time.”

Loren and Alexei are already parents to 2-year-old Shai and to Shai, who was born in August of last year and is still a baby.

They do not know anything about Baby #3 just yet, hoping that it will be a surprise for them and for the world.

Many fans have their fingers crossed for a daughter, but we wouldn’t recommend that anyone take bets.

Viewers have followed this couple since very early in the franchise’s history, before the series gained real recognition.

For the better part of a decade, these two have represented an authentic love story without ulterior motives or toxicity or larger-than-life personalities.

Now, they are seven years into a happy marriage. Alexei is a US citizen. And together, they are eager to welcome their third child.

Emily Bieberly SLAMMED After Kobe Confrontation: Is She a 90 Day Fiance Villain?

From the start of Season 9, Emily Bieberly and Kobe Blaise’s storyline has been a hot topic among 90 Day Fiance fans.

Viewers aren’t one-sided, at times clashing on social media as if they’re watching different shows — or coming from different planets.

Events in the latest episode left fans wondering if Emily and Kobe are even still together after a nasty confrontation.

Is Emily the bad guy that critics say that she is? It’s complicated.

Emily Bieberly is aware of how much she's changed

Before we delve into what’s been going on with Emily Bieberly and Kobe Blaise, here’s what people are saying.

Emily’s antics on Episode 8 were certainly her worst — except perhaps in the eyes of mom-shamers who are terrified of boobs.

The social media backlash was intense, so much so that there was comparatively little said about Kobe’s behavior in the same episode.

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“Trying to see where Emily was helping Kobe during that scene,” one Twitter user commented.

As we will recap shortly, Emily thought that she was “helping” Kobe by attempting to micromanage him during a chore.

She was not. Had they communicated as a healthy couple should, she would have known this.

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“The only reason why Emily and Kobe are fighting, is because Emily is starting every disagreement,” claimed another.

Actually, that’s not quite the truth, though she certainly caused a major disagreement in the stables on Episode 8.

Previously, Kobe started an argument, both wanting Emily to breastfeed in private for some reason and wanting her to stop altogether.

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“No Emily, YOU were being rude. YOU ARE ALWAYS RUDE DEMANDING & CONTROLLING!” another exclaimed on Twitter.

“You were not talking talking to him, you were nagging, berating, & disrespectful to kobe,” the person continued.

“You have no thought about how your actions affect him. Its you,” the tweeter wrote. “You are the issue.” That’s at least partially true.

Kobe Blaise - I have to suck her breasts

Turning back the clock a little, Emily — though instantly on many viewers’ hit lists — started off in a good place this season.

Kobe was the one who picked a fight with her over breastfeeding, in part admitting that he wanted her breasts to herself instead of having to “share” with his son.

He also tried to discourage her from nursing her son or pumping milk in her own home, asking that she go hide in the basement.

Emily Bieberly - where am I supposed to go? downstairs?

There are, unfortunately, other people who think like this in the world, though culturally this mom-shaming weirdness is going out of style in the US.

This is why so many celebrities share breastfeeding photos on social media, pushing to normalize something that is very normal.

If someone has sexualized breasts to the point where they cannot conceive of a child being fed in public, or even in the living room, then that’s on them.

Kobe Bliase chats while Emily Bieberly feeds Koban

Some viewers seemed to agree with Kobe that Koban was “too old” to be nursing, but that is one of those things that’s just factually incorrect.

There are of course instances of child-led weaning that take place at younger ages, but Koban is 17 months old.

Almost every health organization on the planet, including the government of Kobe’s native Cameroon, urges breastfeeding until age 2 if not longer.

Emily Bieberly walks Kobe Blaise through changing Koban's diaper

Fans have accused Emily of being “bossy” before, though some of these incidents were sort of necessary.

When someone is learning to change a diaper for the first time, instructions are often necessary to help them do it right.

I changed my first diaper when I was six or seven years old, but I’d want guidance on changing a specific brand on a specific child, for the child’s comfort.

Emily Bieberly guides Kobe Blaise through Koban's car seat

Emily also closely supervised Kobe as he put Koban into the car seat.

Slight errors in putting a baby or a toddler into a car seat can result in discomfort.

Other mistakes can be fatal. You can’t leave stuff like that up to chance for politeness’ sake.

Kobe Blaise to Emily Bieberly - ground nuts (peanuts)

When it comes to child’s safety, things like good intentions (or even culture) have to take a back seat.

So when Emily came in just in time to see Kobe about to give their 17-month-old whole peanuts, it was not a moment too soon.

Whole or parts of peanuts are not advised for children under age four, because they are a choking hazard.

info card - no whole peanuts or parts before age 4

Emily was strongly condemned over every one of those incidents, and more.

The harsh truth is that some of the condemnation was purely misogyny, part of it was production and editing baiting vocal misogynists among viewers.

90 Day Fiance knows its audience all too well, and extreme backlash against (mostly women) cast members has helped the show’s ratings and brand.

Kobe Blaise walks with Emily Bieberly and Lisa

On Episode 8, out of a desire to help out so vague that it feels like production just wanted them to do something interesting, Kobe went out to the stables.

Accompanied by Emily and Emily’s mother, Lisa, his goal was to help with a chore in the stables.

Emily was already eager to spend time with her fiance after this … unfortunately, too eager.

Emily Bieberly gets bossy about how to do things

In her excitement, Emily got downright pushy with Kobe.

She tried to micromanage how he did the chore, right down to advising him on how much horse manure to put on his shovel.

Some folks would love to be told exactly how to do something, but many of us would not. Kobe would not.

Kobe Blaise bristles after being given instructions

It is clear that, in Emily’s mind, she was “helping” her fiance to get the job done faster.

But she came across as bossy, and only grew bossier when Kobe did not immediately take her advice.

The two sort of spiraled, each growing more annoyed with the other without ever communicating why.

Kobe Blaise - can you just shut the f--k up?

Tempers flared, which is when Kobe said something that, for many (hopefully most) relationships, would be a deal-breaker.

“Can you just shut the f–k up?” Kobe asked Emily.

Emily had been rude, but this was an escalation. It’s not an acceptable way to speak to a friend, let alone your fiancee and the mother of your child.

Emily Bieberly has never seen this toxic side of him before

It was not lost on a visibly stunned Emily that Kobe had also said this in front of her mother.

Before going inside, she told the cameras that she had never seen this side of him.

Emily worried that this could happen again. Unfortunately, she did not seem to recognize her escalating rudeness before Kobe.

Kobe Blaise - I feel like maybe it's an American thing

Kobe very clearly did not, in turn, understand how far over the line he had crossed by telling his fiancee to STFU.

In the stables, he speculated — to Emily’s mom — that perhaps cultural gender roles were to blame, that this was an “American thing.”

Lisa gently countered that this was more of a “person” thing, noting that her own husband would never, under any circumstances, speak to her that way.

Emily Bieberly confronts Kobe Blaise, the two semi-apologize

Inside, Kobe and Emily clashed again, offering each other halfhearted apologies.

Emily simply said that she was sorry for “talking” to Kobe, which was not sincere and frankly showed that she had no idea how hostile she had been.

And Kobe still didn’t seem to fully grasp how hurtful his words had been.

Neither Emily nor Kobe have shown themselves to be real competition for this season’s biggest villain.

Bilal and Mohamed seem to be the strongest contenders for that so far.

But Emily is certainly among the most hated, which is pretty par for the course in terms of what the 90 Day Fiance audience’s most vocal members do and do not like.

Emily clearly has the potential to emerge as a season villain, but “she’s bossy while he’s doing chores” isn’t really enough for that.

If she keeps this up, or escalates, she could end up being a bad guy — albeit not the Lifetime movie plotline that Bilal is putting Shaeeda through.

But if we’re being honest, so far, Emily’s been in the right in most of her conflicts with Kobe. He seems like a decent guy, but that doesn’t mean that he’s right.

Are Emily Bieberly and Kobe Blaise Still Together?

This season, toxic aspects of Emily Bieberly and Kobe Blaise’s storyline have played upon the worst instincts of 90 Day Fiance viewers.

But it’s not only aboud editing and misogyny. This couple has real issues that production barely has to exaggerate.

This week’s episode saw Kobe snap, telling Emily to “shut the f–k up” in front of her mom after she got bossy.

Some people will never work out and are just better off apart. Are they still together?

In previous episodes, Emily Bieberly telling Kobe Blaise what to do made sense.

It wasn’t just that she was teaching him things — she was teaching him important things that should never be messed up.

How to change a diaper, how to put Koban in his car seat, how to please never feed whole peanuts to a 17-month-old … you need to get these right the first time.

Emily Bieberly is excited for Kobe Blaise to be done so that they can hang out

On Episode 8, however, Kobe was learning how to help out on her parents’ land.

(The reasons were so vague that we sort of get the feeling that production begged them to do something interesting, but hey, maybe Lisa really did need the help)

While Kobe shoveled some foul-smelling equine offerings in the stable, Emily was eager to be able to spend time with him.

Emily Bieberly gets bossy about how to do things

Unfortunately, she channeled this excitement into basically badgering Kobe into doing the job differently.

She was being bossy and micromanaging him on a task that is not urgent or consequential.

There are some people who prefer to be told exactly what to do and how to do it. Kobe is not one of them.

Kobe Blaise bristles after being given instructions

Emily felt that she was being “helpful” by telling Kobe how to do things faster so that they could move on to something else.

Kobe felt that she was being patronizing and annoying.

Neither of them communicated their feelings very well to each other. They became abrasive, hurt each other’s feelings, and then things got worse:

Kobe Blaise - can you just shut the f--k up?

There are simply no circumstances, outside of perhaps some specific bedroom role play, when you should tell your partner to “shut the f–k up.”

Kobe wasn’t responding to a joke or a funny story — he was demanding that Emily stop speaking to him, as rudely as possible.

This kind of line would very reasonably end friendships. It’s an outrageous way to speak to one’s fiancee … especially in front of her mom, but also in private.

Emily Bieberly has never seen this toxic side of him before

Emily was shocked, and she told the camera as much before going inside.

She had never before witnessed this side of Kobe, not in their two months in China and not in their long-distance relationship.

Is this how he is going to react during future disagreements?

Kobe Blaise - I feel like maybe it's an American thing

In the stable, Kobe very awkwardly spoke to Lisa, Emily’s mom.

Kobe seemed to miss the nuance of how rude and hostile what he had said to his fiancee had been.

He wondered if this conflict had to do with them coming from different cultures with different gender roles.

Lisa Bieberly delicately says that it's a "person" thing, her husband would never

Lisa was able to gently steer Kobe in another direction, helping him to understand her daughter’s reaction a bit better.

This wasn’t about how men and women speak in the US so much as about how one person speaks to another.

She noted that her husband would never, ever speak to her the way that Kobe had just spoken to Emily.

Emily Bieberly confronts Kobe Blaise, the two semi-apologize

When Kobe went in, the two offered each other half-apologies.

Emily didn’t seem to grasp how bossy she had been.

Kobe was more apologetic, but still didn’t give the impression that he understood the line that he had crossed.

Kobe Blaise walks with Emily Bieberly and Lisa

Before these recent disagreements, most of the conflict that we saw had more to do with the viewing audience.

Baited by the production crew and editors, misogynistic trolls have been frothing at the mouths with hatred for Emily.

From (gasp!) being honest about her sexual history with Kobe to (no!) breastfeeding her son, she made an easy target for a certain portion of viewers.

But are Emily and Kobe still together? We know that this was all filmed many months ago — likely late last year.

Many, but not all, of us would consider “shut the f–k up” an absolute relationship dealbreaker no matter what, though clearly this is not the case for Emily.

Could they still be together after multiple disputes and an exchange of such harsh words?

Kobe Blaise IG mother's day tribute 2022

Last month, Kobe and Emily hinted that they are still together.

Kobe gave a shoutout on Mother’s Day, praising all moms but singling out Emily by saying “I still got this wonderful woman.”

Emily reinforced the hint by telling him that she loves him in a comment, as you can see above. It certainly appears that they were still together very recently.

Kobe Blaise IG know your worth video still

To complicate matters, however, Kobe made a vague post to Instagram after Episode 8 aired.

“Know your worth and never feel bad to break a relationship or leave a place where you’re not appreciated,” he wrote.

“Some people are in your life for a reason,” he offered, “while others are there for a season.”

Kobe Blaise IG know your worth caption

“And,” Kobe continued, “most of the times those seasonal people in your life will make you feel like you can’t survive without them.”

He advised: “Remember God does not only bless people financially, taking someone out of your can also be a blessing. We move”

It sounds like a generic piece of advice … but is it a hint that he and Emily are over? Only time will tell.

Jibri Bell BRAWLS with Daveed Over Miona Insults on 90 Day Fiance (Recap)

90 Day Fiance Season 9, Episode 8 showed multiple couples going from bad to worse.

Jibri spends a lot of time defending his buddy Daveed to Miona, because the two do not get along.

Once there, however, Jibri and Daveed are the ones clashing … leading to a physical fight.

Ariela is trying to be supportive of Biniyam’s pie-in-the-sky UFC dreams, but she is in for a rude awakening.

Bilal and Shaeeda grapple with religious differences and very conflicting ideas about how to live and operate in their home.

Emily and Kobe are not getting along, leading to a very toxic moment that happens right in front of her family.

Kara and Guillermo’s short but sweet walk downtown highlights how common international love stories can be.

Patrick is moving to Dallas, which means that so is Thais … and, to her chagrin, John.

Finally, Mohamed is starting to make it clear that his previously stated rules for Yve were just the start — and he expects her to convert.

1. Jibri Bell and Miona Bell

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The two start off at home in Rapid City, packing up for their trip to Chicago. Jibri laments that Miona is taking up so much space in the suitcases, but he also packs what looks like a dozen different sets of sunglasses. That is extremely Jibri of him, but it’s a pretty cute moment for them.

2. They drive to Chicago

Jibri bell defends his friend during the drive
It’s more than 900 miles (nearly 13 hours of driving), so what we saw of the drive was very abbreviated, but Jibri knows that Miona and Daveed don’t get along or like each other, but defends his buddy to Miona, asking her to give him a chance. He also details to the camera that Daveed kicked his head into a coma when they were teens (he was out for three days) after Jibri made fun of his accent. Jibri dated a girl for months only to learn that she is Daveed’s twin sister, and he and Daveed forged a lasting friendship. Totally bonkers.

3. They arrive

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Daveed promotes his truck-related business to the cameras as he and Jibri touch base. He and Miona force smiles and hug.

4. But Daveed has some advice for Jibri

Jibri bell is unhappy with pragmatic advice
He suggests that Jibri do some “real” business like he is, which Jibri does not want to hear. He accuses Daveed of sounding just like his (Jibri’s) parents. Jibri’s focus will be music, but Daveed feels that Jibri has only made a little in recent years and has seemed distracted.

5. The distraction objects to that

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Miona speaks up for Jibri following his dreams. It’s a good reminder that these two do work very well together, even if they have been clashing over wedding plans.

6. Speaking of which …

Miona bell calls to inquire about a destination wedding
Miona is taken aback by how expensive this beach wedding that she wants for some reason will be. It’s three times as expensive as it would have been in Serbia. This does not deter her, however, even driving her to take the drastic step of calling to ask questions as she hopes to have a destination wedding during the K-1 visa timeframe.

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Kobe Blaise Loses Patience with Emily Bieberly: STFU!!

While many 90 Day Fiance viewers have been appalled by the sexist backlash against Emily Bieberly, but she and Kobe Blaise are still finding their way.

That means that, as they try to adapt to being together again as parents after two years apart, they’ll have their ups and downs.

In this clip, Emily is overly eager to help Kobe with what he’s doing, and the two clash.

When Kobe tells Emily to “shut the f–k up,” things have clearly taken an ugly turn.

Without context, it’s hard to say why Kobe Blaise is doing some shoveling in this horse stable.

But as this sneak peek for Season 9, Episode 8 of 90 Day Fiance begins, that’s what he’s doing.

He and Emily Bieberly are all bundled up, while Emily’s mom keeps a respectful distance so that she doesn’t get in the middle of the couple.

Emily is seemingly eager for the two to be able to spend time together.

But, in her eagerness, she is offering too much “advice” that sounds like instructions.

Unlike basic safety stuff with Koban, this is hardly life-or-death, so Kobe is bristling under Emily’s suggestions.

“Let me do it my own way, alright?” Kobe tells Emily after a little too much micromanagement.

“Are you serious?” he asks. “It’s like you want us to fight about almost everything.”

Emily is clearly hurt by this, snapping back with “Stop talking and just do it.”

What started as a simple communication issue devolves,w ith Kobe telling the camera that it feels like Emily wants to “control everything.”

To him, it feels like she is hounding him. To her, it feels like he’s ignoring helpful advice.

“I wish you would just listen to me,” she expresses during the clip.

Kobe explains that he gets the impression that Emily is deliberately putting on a show of bossing him around.

He feels that she is “just trying to make her family know that she is in control of me.”

Kobe continues: “But I’m losing my patience.”

From her perspective, he’s just ignoring her advice, which she finds confusing and hurtful.

So Emily tells him that she’s not going to “help” him with this anymore.

She thinks that he’s being rude (to be clear, they are both being rude because neither of them are communicating well).

Kobe wasn’t kidding when he said that he was losing his patience.

“Can you just shut the f–k up?” he asks Emily.

Emily is stunned. Her mother, who is close enough nearby to hear, is also shocked. That’s just not something that someone in a healthy relationship says to another.

“I cannot believe you just said that to me,” Emily replies.

Kobe continues, saying that he straight-up does not need her around while he is working.

Emily is upset, storming off. Kobe says “F–k off” while she departs. That is … not good.

Some people work extremely well with specific instructions. Other people resent being told how to do things. Often, there’s a mix of both.

What happened here was two conflicting communication styles resulting in both of them finding the other rude and hurtful.

Unfortunately, instead of talking things out, the two just allowed their anger to build until Kobe lashed out. This was entirely preventable.

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Molly Hopkins: Is She Still With Kelly?

Recently, 90 Day Fiance fans saw Molly Hopkins weigh in on the Emily Bieberly storyline in social media comments.

Molly, who is a mother herself, noted that Emily breastfeeding her son is both “natural” and “really not that serious.”

But many fans are more interested in Molly’s life, and where things stand so long after her last season of The Single Life filmed.

Is she still with Kelly?

90 Day The Single Life Molly Hopkins gets a kiss

Early on 90 Day: The Single Life, Molly Hopkins introduced viewers to her new boyfriend, Kelly.

After her troubled relationship and divorce from Luis Mendes, Kelly slid into Molly’s DMs.

It wasn’t long before Molly traveled to New York to meet him. On the show, we watched Kelly visit Molly not once, but twice, in Woodstock Georgia.

Their immediate mutual interest did not mean that everything was easy.

First and foremost, Kelly knew that he needed to do right by Molly’s girls.

That meant that he needed to form a bond with her daughter, Kensley, and get the approval of her eldest, Olivia.

Then, of course, came running the gauntlet of impressing Molly’s friends.

Parts of this are things that everyone in a relationship goes through in some form or another.

Others had more to do with winning over fans by very visibly convincing them that this relationship is a good thing.

Molly Hopkins boyfriend Kelly on The Single Life

On Kelly’s return trip, however, he and Molly had conflict — because her casual online snooping had led her to find his ex-girlfriend, who has a young child.

Kelly had told her that he does not have children.

He did convince her that the child was not his, but this led to an important talk about Molly’s understandable trust issues.

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Kelly emphasized that he is not like Molly’s ex, Luis Mendez, who remarried an extremely short time after he and Molly split.

He doesn’t want to pay the price for her ex-husband’s behavior.

Additionally, Kelly told Molly that he wanted children — something that the 45-year-old balked at.

Molly Hopkins promo shot The Single Life

The decision about whether or not to have children together can make or break many relationships.

Somehow, Kelly and Molly were able to work through their differing views.

Some fans accused them of faking this discussion for drama, but it’s also possible that they just prioritized their relationship.

Molly Hopkins speaks of her daughter to the camera

The Tell All special led to Molly reporting some good news about her personal growth.

“I trust Kelly. 100 percent. I do trust Kelly 100 percent. I do,” she announced.

Just after the Tell All aired, she and Kelly went Instagram official, showing that they were still together.

Molly Hopkins and Kelly at breakfast

Of course, that was then, and we all know that sometimes couples who are broken up will make misleading posts.

They’re not supposed to spoil their seasons, present or future, which often means keeping their lives under wraps for a year or more after filming.

So … are Molly and Kelly still together?

Molly Hopkins - you was the patrol in control

Yes.

It is now June of 2022, and Kelly recently gushed about Molly in an interview.

Combined with zero indications of a breakup — not even rumors — and we’re talking about a still-solid couple. You know what? Good for them.