90 Day Fiance: The Most Brutal Feuds of All Time!

90 Day Fiance is a show about people finding each other across continents and oceans, giving up everything for love.

Naturally, it is filled with some of the most toxic couples and the most vitriolic feuds that you can imagine.

Not all of that bile plays out on camera, either.

Behind the scenes and on social media, 90 Day Fiance stars will wage verbal wars on each other.

Sometimes, it’s a rival from their season or a person who was almost family.

Other times, it’s people who have only met once or twice, but experience loathing at first sight.

Take a look below and see the most intense feuds that have ever played out among the stars.

1. 90 Day Fiance has a wealth of feuds

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Fans may start watching for the controversial couples and the cute couples, but the feuds will keep you hooked for years — because that’s how long they can last.

2. First, let’s address something obvious

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A lot of these feuds involve Larissa Lima. Though she only entered the scene in Season 6, her relationship was the most talked about since Danielle and Mohamed. Her situation has changed, but for a long time, she was feuding with anyone who looked at her crossways.

3. First of all …

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We’re not going to count every pair of exes on this list. Sometimes, they parted on good terms. Other times, they loathe each other but it’s not quite feuding. But Colt resolved to try to get Larissa deported to Brazil, and Debbie is badmouthing her left and right. So we’d say that Larissa is feuding with them both, even though she is trying to move on.

4. Fernanda vs Larissa

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Viewers who didn’t keep up with the stars on social media at all were introduced to this feud at the Tell All special. Larissa saw Fernanda as her rival for the title of best-looking 90 Day Fiance star. It was so bad that Larissa and Colt were late getting on set.

5. Jonathan Rivera got involved

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Though he and Fernanda would split several weeks after the Tell All was filmed, he had his wife’s back and feuded with both Larissa and Colt. On the tell all, this culminated in the hilarious moment when Larissa yelled “shut upee!” It broke the tension — a little.

6. That didn’t last

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When Jonathan and Fernanda’s marriage fizzled out in December, they didn’t really share joint custody of their feuds, either.

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Ashley Martson to Amber Portwood: Shut Up About 90 Day Fiance, You Knife-Wielding Maniac!

Last week, Amber Portwood had a meltdown at a comparison to 90 Day Fiance scumbag Geoffrey Paschel.

Amber was outraged to see her relationship with Dimitri Garcia compared to any couple on the other reality series.

She completely missed the point of the comparison.

And her extremely visible freakout only grew worse when she finally understood what the comparison was all about.

Now, 90 Day Fiance star Ashley Martson is firing back at Amber for her outburst.

Teen Moms who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones. Or shoes. … Or machetes.

1. Ashley is taking aim at Amber AND Dimitri

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Seeing the two of them rant about 90 Day Fiance (sort of; you’ll see in a moment), Ashley writes: “These two need to calm down. 90 Day Fiance relationships are not 90 days, the marriage time on the visa is.”

2. That is true

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The K-1 visa gives couples 90 days in the US together before they need to either get married or not — in the latter case, the fiance(e) must return home to their own country. If they do marry, they must apply to extend the person’s legal residency as a spouse and, eventually, to secure their US citizenship.

3. It doesn’t work like Amber is imagining

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“Many couples spend years before marrying,” Ashley notes, referring to spending years in long-term relationships or seeing each other for only short periods of time during international visits.

4. People in glass houses …

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“And quite frankly,” Ashley accuses, “acting offended by the show and the relationships kinda is dumb considering … well … her and her relationships are more messy than most 90 Day couples.”

5. “Just saying”

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Ashley is making some very solid points, here. And we all know Ashley’s bumpy relationship history — when she’s calling people out, you know that they’ve screwed up.

6. So what got Amber so riled up in the first place?

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This post, by Teen Mom Mama Drama on Instagram, was one of several that compared 90 Day Fiance couples to Teen Mom couples. It was mostly harmless fun, prodding reality stars. In this case, pointing out that Amber and Geoffrey both have histories of arrests and domestic violence.

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Ashley Martson and Jay Smith: Here’s How We Fixed Our Marriage!

Back in March, Ashley Martson and Jay Smith got back together and even spoke about the idea of having a baby together.

90 Day Fiance fans continue to watch the couple’s story unfold with fascination ever since TLC first introduced us to them.

Now, Ashley says, after all the ups and downs, she and Jay are taking steps to cement their newfound commitment.

Originally, they married in 2018, but so much has happened between them (and others) since then.

It’s time for a fresh start.

That means a lot of things, but first among them – it’s time for renewed vows … and brand new rings.

1. They want a fresh start

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Ashley and Jay have revealed that they’re giving themselves a clean slate when it comes to their marriage.

2. It started off so happily

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Ashley was in Jamaica when she met Jay. He was tall, hot, and in the club with her.

3. They were 13 years apart

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But Ashley didn’t know that at first. She met this tall man in a club and had no idea that he was a teenager until she had to get his documents from his mother as they made plans for their wedding and his K-1 visa.

4. They married anyway!

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First, they had a ceremony in Jamaica so that Jay’s family could be in attendance. Then, on 90 Day Fiance, they got married in the United States.

5. Then, Jay cheated

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Jay downloaded Tinder almost immediately after their wedding. It was just a few days later that Ashley caught him video chatting with a high school girl. Yes, they were both adults (and just a few years apart), but … Ashley was furious.

6. Ashley decided to let it go

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Despite some understandable anger on her part, Ashley declared at the Tell All that she was giving Jay another chance — since he’d been caught before he could meet up with the girl, he hadn’t physically cheated.

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Ashley Martson: Jay and I Are Opening Our Own Lingerie Store!

90 Day Fiance fans already know that Ashley Martson and Jay Smith are actually back together. They resolved to make their marriage work.

But Ashley hasn’t just been working on her relationship. She’s coming out with a lingerie line.

“Getting bored of my isolation sweats and jammies,” Ashley Martson begins an Instagram post.

“And,” she adds, “pretty sure the husband is too.”

“I’m over here working on bringing my sexy back …” Ashley teases beside a photo of her tossing black lingerie into the air.

She reveals that her “lingerie collection to be launched soon!!! Stay tuned…”

A troll beneath the post accused Ashley of concocting this lingerie line and possibly her reunion with Jay just to return to 90 Day Fiance.

“If I wanted [to be] on TLC I would be,” she clapped back. “We are [definitely] not trying to get back on anything.”

“You’re correct, it is for money. It’s work. It’s a business,” Ashley added, referring to the lingerie line.

She told the follower: “I assume that’s how you pay your bills as well.”

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Ashley shared more in a statement to In Touch Weekly about her business plans.

“Once quarantine is over, we are opening a store and expanding the collection,” Ashley announces.

She expresses: “We can’t wait to get things moving when life begins to get back to normal.”

Many people and small businesses will be picking up the pieces, after the pandemic shuttered stores and decimated some communities.

Ashley absolutely stunned fans, critics, and castmates alike with her TikTok challenge reveal that she and Jay were back together.

Most folks — us included — imagined that it absolutely had to be a prank, making new use of old footage.

After their lengthy history of cheating, breakups, and multiple attempts at getting a divorce, it seemed unbelievable that they would try it again.

But though Ashley’s reveal was humorous in format, it was no prank.

Taking to YouTube, Ashley and Jay explained that they were launching a channel to share their story directly with fans.

Simply put, they were doing more than just sheltering in place together during the pandemic.

They were actually giving their marriage another shot.

After the Tinder cheating, the barber shop bathroom cheating, the lengthy early 2019 affair, the false alarm pregnancy scare, Ashley still took Jay back.

Last December, Ashley was celebrating finally being free of Jay after he actually signed divorce papers after nearly a full year of Ashley’s pleas.

(Admittedly, there were two reconciliations during that year)

However, he “accidentally” signed the date incorrectly — Ashley accused him of doing this deliberately to sabotage the divorce.

It looks like invalidating the papers to keep them legally linked worked, because she eventually gave him another chance.

Ashley and Jay have also teased fans with discussions about having a child together.

Ashley has had to undergo brutal medical treatments for her ongoing Lupus battle.

As such, her eggs are frozen and available if she and Jay should want or need them. Ashley already has two children.

Jay has teased the idea of having kids in 2025. Ashley has been less committal, to say the least.

We don’t know what Ashley’s lingerie line is really going to look like, but our interest is definitely piqued.

We’ll take a look at her products when the time comes, and countless other 90 Day Fiance fans will too.

But most of us are weeks or even months away from even thinking about things being “back to normal.”

So Ashley’s grand opening probably isn’t just around the corner.

Ashley Martson and Jay Smith: Having a Baby Will Change Everything!

Last month, Ashley Martson and Jay Smith confirmed that they are really back together, despite several breakups, each following a cheating incident.

The 90 Day Fiance stars are sheltering in place together, but they’re also trying to make their marriage work … agian.

What’s more is that they teased talk about having a baby together.

Now, Ashley has given further talk to the timetable for making a baby with Jay.

Below, you can read her statement on the subject …. along with a reminder of how Ashley and Jay got to this place in their relationship.

Ashley does acknowledge that having a baby changes everything.

1. Ashley and Jay are talking about babymaking

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Perhaps the midst of a pandemic isn’t the best time to be growing one’s family, but Ashley has babies on the brain in a new statement that she has made to her fans.

2. It was thirst at first sight

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When Ashley Martson attended a friend’s wedding in Jamaica, she never imagined that she would soon be making plans for her own. That was before she locked eyes on Jay on the dance floor.

3. Jay is over a decade younger than Ashley

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At the time of their meeting, she believed that he was in his mid-twenties. He turned out to be much younger, but by the time that she learned that, she was already head-over-heels. And besides, they were both adults.

4. They had a ceremony in Jamaica

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This was a thoughtful gesture, made so that Jay’s family could attend, even though the binding ceremony would take place in the United States.

5. They did 90 Day Fiance

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And yes, they got married, even though Ashley’s friend warned her that Jay had probably cheated on her before coming back to the US.

6. Welp, Jay cheated again

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Almost immediately after their wedding, he downloaded Tinder, and started chatting up a high school girl (though she was an adult). Ashley found them video chatting and was furious.

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90 Day Fiance: Which Couples Are Still Together in 2020?

90 Day Fiance is one of those franchises that sounds like it could be full of amazing love stories or just a total trainwreck.

Amazingly, the show manages to be both … which is why people can’t stop watching the TLC show and its 678 spinoffs.

Sometimes, you see couples like Kirlyam and Alan Cox, who met despite being from different continents but found love and happiness, got married, and are growing their families.

Then you have more … infamous couples.

Couples like Danielle Mullins and Mohamed Jbali, who seemed to be trying to out-scam each other until those schemes devolved into mutual loathing.

A lot of the couples fall into the middle somewhere.

Some are a little weird, some seem like soulmates.

Any marriage can go right or wrong, and becoming reality stars during your engagement adds an extra special twist to that.

Honestly, you might be shocked at how many of these couples are still together. And which ones aren’t.

1. Fernanda Flores and Jonathan Rivera

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Fernanda and Jonathan met while Jon was clubbing on vacation. He ended up extending that vacation. Despite an age gap, some homesickness, and a lot of doubts, the two tied the knot. Unfortunately, the couple split around New Year’s Eve after getting into an argument. Initially, Jon said that Fernanda had been hurtful towards him. Months later, Fernanda shared a lengthy video with witness statements, accusing Jon of being controlling, abusive, and a fraud.

2. Jenny and Sumit

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This The Other Way couple had one of the most dramatic storylines in all of 2020, and Sumit’s secret marriage (and children!) shocked even the head honchos over at TLC. But the two returned for 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way’s second season, and are determined to make it work … if Sumit can actually go through with his plans to divorce.

3. Molly Hopkins and Luis Mendez

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Molly and Luis broke up after a lot of arguments, an attempted reconciliation, and even the implication that Molly was abusive. Luis remarried to a mystery woman just four months after his divorce was finalized. Molly and Luis both claim that the other was using them.

4. Corey and Evelin

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Corey was stricken with emotional distress and temporarily blocked Evelin after the Tell All was filmed in 2019, but the two reconnected and he eventually returned to Engabao, Ecuador to be with Evelin again. As of spring 2020, they are still together — and rumor has it that they are actually married already.

5. Anfisa Arkhipchenko and Jorge Nava

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Anfisa Arkhipchenko and Jorge Nava ran into trouble when Anfisa learned that Jorge was in debt and less able to spoil her. Despite arguments and even a breakup, they decided to stay married — even after Jorge was sentenced to 2 years in prison. Jorge is scheduled for release from prison in May 2020, but not soon enough to save his marriage. Anfisa has a new boyfriend, and Jorge has announced his intention to file for divorce. He says that Anfisa was jealous of the attention that he received for his weight loss behind bars.

6. Robert and Anny

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Despite having known each other in person for a very short time and a lot of unwelcome surprises, Robert and Anny married in a low-budget ceremony in Florida on Season 7 of 90 Day Fiance. In the spring of 2020, Anny revealed that she was pregnant with her first child — and Robert’s sixth child.

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