ANOTHER Duggar Sister Distancing Herself From Jim Bob — Because He Doesn’t Like That She Wears PANTS?!

There’s more drama for the Duggars! Jim Bob Duggar is struggling to connect with another one of his daughters. Earlier this month, court documents were unsealed from a 2015 case involving several of the Duggar women. As Perezcious readers will recall, many of the sisters sued the city of Springdale and the police department for […]

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Jeremy Vuolo Admits Jim Bob and Michelle Confronted Jinger Duggar Over "Immodesty"

Time after time, Jinger Duggar has defied Jim Bob and the cult’s twisted rules by wearing normal human clothing.

Technically, it’s permitted, in the sense that her “lord husband” Jeremy Vuolo gives her “permission” to participate in society in certain ways.

But fans and wary critics alike have long wondered if there’s any truth to the rumors that Jim Bob and Michelle take issue with Jinger’s attire.

The answer is yes. Jeremy testified to that effect in court, describing a confrontation between his in-laws and his wife.

Let’s first make it clear that we’re not talking about Jinger starting an OnlyFans, posting non-facial orifices on Twitter, or trying to #FreeTheNipple on Instagram.

Those are all perfectly fine things to do for anyone who wishes to.

But Jinger’s “violations” are a little harder to explain to those unfamiliar with the Duggar family’s twisted worldview.

Jinger wears pants, she has styled and dyed her hair, and she and her husband have even shared photos of themselves drinking moderately.

Only in the cultural extremes of a fundamentalist cult are these kinds of activities seen as scandalous.

But that is Jinger’s background. Time after time, things like baring her shoulders has taken longtime fans aback, purely because they know the sexist rules by which Jinger was raised.

As for the confrontation, The Sun got their hands on unsealed court documents from the now-dismissed case in Arkansas.

Jinger’s husband, Jeremy, offered a deposition during the case last year, and was asked about Jim Bob and Michelle.

When asked if his in-laws had expressed “opinions about any different convictions” that he and Jinger have, he answered “yes.”

Jeremy provided an example as part of his deposition: “They’ve spoken to us about – what was it – I guess modesty is one.”

He admitted: “We’ve had a couple of conversations.”

Jeremy then answered “yes” when the attorney asked about Jinger choosing to “wear pants on occasion.”

Jeremy confirmed what the entire world already knows — that Michelle does not wear pants.

“Is that the question of modesty that they talk to you about; pants versus skirts?” the attorney asked.

“In a way, yes. I mean, not that exact word,” Jeremy answered.

“They just shared their – their thoughts on women wearing dresses, I guess,” Jeremy summarized.

He cited: “I remember Mrs. Duggar just sharing her own personal journey of modesty.”

Jeremy then disagreed with the idea that Jinger in any way “dresses in an immodest way.”

Jeremy’s deposition also touched on other topics, and so did Jinger.

They acknowledged that they are not intent upon breeding enough children to populate a small nation in the way that Jim Bob and Michelle are.

He and Jinger are very conservative Christians by normal societal standards, but less extreme than the cult in which Jinger grew up.

Jeremy was also asked about emotional distance from his in-laws, particularly in light of the move to California.

“There – perhaps. I think, though, diagnosing that would be difficult,” he admitted.

““I think as you grow and have your own family, kids, and life,” Jeremy said. “You know, you go from, like, seeing everyone every day to talking to everyone every day to, you know.”

Jinger Duggar Reassures Worried Fans: I’m Healthy! I’m Fine!

No matter what the world thinks of the Duggar family, fans were genuinely concerned about Jinger Duggar.

Recent photos showed Jinger looking frighteningly thin, sparking worries about disordered eating.

In an apparent move to reassure fans, Jeremy has posted new photos in which his wife looks happy and presumably healthy.

Some fans are relieved. Others wonder if this is a deliberate PR move to quash concerns.

Jeremy Vuolo shared these two photos on his Instagram page.

“Sundays,” he wrote as a simple caption on the pics.

Between the bare arms and the caption not being immediately relevant to church, it does stand out when compared to the Duggar brand.

As for the photos themselves, Jinger looks happy and healthy in the pics, whether they are candid or staged.

Her arms do not appear to be “gaunt” as some had worried.

While that’s not a sure sign that her eating habits are fine, it’s reassuring to some — and so is her bright and happy expression.

When we say that some followers were reassured, you don’t have to take our word for it.

Commenters were quick to point out how happy and peaceful Jinger looked in the photos.

Whether that was the intent of the pics or Jeremy was just sharing pics of his beautiful wife, that’s what followers saw.

“Jinger looks so refreshed and beautiful,” one fan noted. “And also happy.”

“Such a lovely young woman. Such peace in her eyes,” another follower praised.

Another commenter expressed a desire for the rest of Jinger’s family to be so well-styled, writing: “I wish this glow for all of them.”

Jinger has been open about her past struggles with disordered eating, having admitted to extreme diets.

On the one hand, this sort of behavior can be related to the strict expectations imposed upon women within the Duggar family, church, and cult.

Since she was supposed to be beautiful and cater to her husband’s every wish, she was expected to look presentable and desirable under her clothes — even before she met Jeremy.

But what we need to remember about disordered eating is that it is not a cults-only phenomenon.

The roots of disordered eating, whether brought on by parental cruelty or social pressure or childhood food scarcity, lie in control.

In many ways, disordered eating is a form of self-harm, not only in its effect but in terms of its causes.

Jinger has, frankly, never been able to control her life.

Yes, she experiences relative freedom now, as Jeremy’s wife, but that path was chosen for her.

Jim Bob saw and treated her as her property before approving her marriage to Jeremy.

There are many responses to a bad situation, some healthier than others.

Disordered eating, though thankfully not a universal response to stress or trauma, is one that is sometimes rewarded with praise by society.

It is a relief that Jinger has acknowledged, publicly, that some of her past eating behaviors were unhealthy and extreme.

As for the photos, it’s hard to say whether Jeremy was trying to quash worries about Jinger or just sharing pics of his gorgeous wife.

She is a beautiful woman and they are, after all, a particular type of online influencers — taking and sharing pics go with the territory.

It’s easy to read complicated motives into simple actions, but not everything is a PR move. Of course … sometimes, it is. We just don’t know.

Jinger Duggar and Jeremy Vuolo: Buy Our Children’s Book! Don’t Think About Josh!

There are few rules for publishing. Focus on quality, be patient, listen to your editors, and think about timing.

For example, publishing a children’s book the month that your infamous brother’s trial begins is not ideal.

Jill Duggar and Jeremy Vuolo have done that very thing.

The illustrated children’s book could not be happening at a more awkward time, and fans are a little nauseated.

“So, we wrote a children’s book!” Jill Duggar announced on Instagram alongside a photo of the cover.

“Every night as we put our girls to bed,” she detailed.

Jill shared that at night “we open a book and read a story.”

Jinger Duggar IG book announcement

“It’s become one of our favorite moments of the day!” Jill wrote.

“Felicity loves hearing about all the different characters,” she added.

“And,” Jill described of her youngest, “Evy Jo loves the pictures.”

Jinger Duggar Jeremy Vuolo book "You Can Shine So Bright"

“Having the opportunity to write this book for our girls,” Jill wrote.

“And,” she emphasized, “for children all over the world.”

Jill concluded by saying that all of this “has been so fun and a dream come true.”

Elsewhere on social media, those who nervously watch the Duggar comings and goings were wincing.

“In light of recent events, this book just screams ‘desperate attempt at fixing our image now that my brother(-in-law) will soon be convicted for downloading and possessing CSA,” one wrote.

The redditor continued: “I’m well aware of the fact that Jinger should not be dragged into her brother’s mess but it just seems very ill timed.”

Another commenter observed: “It’s just really tone deaf.”

Right now, the subject of children is just uncomfortable when it comes to the Duggars.

It’s not just Josh — which is why so many of his relatives fled Instagram following his arrest.

“Well, that was….. underwhelming,” one wrote in response to Jinger’s announcement.

“I just did the biggest eye roll I hurt myself,” another Reddit denizen wrote.

Another commented: “This is disturbing.”

Obviously, some are speculating about what the book might be like.

Some may be curious enough to pre-order.

Others might be leery of financially supporting anything that Jinger and Jeremy might do, and will just read up on it online.

In Jinger and Jeremy’s corner of society, most of what they do has some sort of agenda.

That’s not inherently bad — many people are very purposeful in the stories that they tell and the art that they produce.

But when you’re a bad person with bad beliefs, that tends to bleed over into all that you create … even if your audience is children.

Just last week, Jeremy said that Christians would soon be treated as criminals for believing as they do.

That is ludicrous hogwash, but it’s also dangerous — because that kind of rhetoric can endanger actual religious minorities.

(70% of Americans are Christians, and their religion is mentioned on money, in courthouses, and by every single President)

Speaking of minority religions, Jeremy also recently asserted that there are “only two religions.”

That’s right — to his twisted way of thinking, there’s Christianity and “everything else.”

While it’s fine to have your own beliefs and very natural to prefer them, grossly mischaracterizing other faiths, especially minority faiths, is so direspectful.

In general, Jeremy and Jinger have a habit of hiding their worst beliefs to stay marketable.

Did you know that Jeremy was a speaker at a recent anti-abortion rally that would force millions of Americans to give birth against their will?

Strange that he didn’t promote the gig, isn’t it? But courting controversy could make it harder for them to market stuff like this children’s book to followers.

And that is why so many are, even without thinking of Josh, so leery of any story that Jinger and Jeremy might want to tell.

Meanwhile, the added bad timing of Josh’s trial, which has a hearing on November 18 and begins November 30, magnifies their issues.

It’s not a good time to be a Duggar … but has there ever really been such a time?

Jinger Duggar and Jeremy Vuolo Flaut Jim Bob’s Rules: Happy Halloween!

It’s pretty apparent that Jinger Duggar and Jeremy Vuolo hide their worst thoughts from the public.

Even so, they make no secret of their strict religious beliefs. Jinger’s family, however, was much stricter.

In the Duggar household, many things are forbidden — from dressing normally to freedom of thought.

Meanwhile, Jinger and Jeremy went out to celebrate Halloween, for real, flauting Duggar rules in fun, full costumes.

Jinger, Jeremy, Felicity, and Evangeline Jo enjoyed themselves this Halloween.

Before we get into how profoundly unusual that is for the Duggar clan, let’s talk about the photo.

Why? Because it’s impossibly adorable.

Jinger Duggar and Jeremy Vuolo for Halloween 2021

Jeremy is dressed as Winnie the Pooh, a beloved children’s character.

Jinger is dressed as Tigger, the bouncing tiger from the same story.

Felicity is dressed as Piglet, with Evangeline dressed as little jar of “hunny.”

“Hunny,” of course, is the Winnie the Pooh spelling of honey.

To clarify, their children’s faces were at least partially visible in real life while in costume.

Instead, they used simple digital “stickers” to hide their kids’ faces while out and about.

What caught the attention of fans and followers is that this is unusual for the Duggars.

And by “unusual” we mean “essentially forbidden” for many of Jinger’s siblings.

This is simply not done in the Duggar household.

A full decade ago, in a now-deleted blog post for TLC, Michelle Duggar explained her family’s habits.

“While we do go to pumpkin patches and corn mazes, we don’t do the Halloween thing,” she wrote at the time.

“From the beginning of our marriage, we just kind of felt like we didn’t want to celebrate that holiday,” Michelle stated.

“But we enjoy the harvest celebration,” Michelle said, before sharing how their church and cult were involved.

“Our church fellowship has had different celebrations through the years that we’ve been a part of,” she revealed.

Michelle said that these were “ones where the children can play games and receive candy and toys and do all kinds of fun things, like a cake walk.”

Michelle explained that they spend time in their church to avoid “things that go on during Halloween.”

It’s not just that they dislike pranks or scares. They also don’t look kindly upon trick-or-treating.

The closest that they have ever come to trick-or-treating was campaigning door-to-door for Jim Bob’s political aspirations.

A huge part of the Duggar family’s brand is putting a smiling, sanitized face on their extreme lifestyle and fringe beliefs.

Given their ideology, it seems likely that Michelle and Jim Bob view Halloween as not merely distasteful, but somehow sinister.

In their belief systems, festivities outside of their specific religious traditions are viewed with suspicion or even hostility.

Maybe Michelle and Jim Bob are leery of Halloween’s origins.

At its core, Halloween stems from a harvest festival called Samhain, which is celebrated even now by practitioners of various pre-Christian religious traditions.

More extreme Christian views see Halloween, not as just a holiday by a rival religion, but as a celebration of their religion’s devil.

But part of Jim Bob and Michelle’s core dishonesty is that they try to make themselves as palatable as possible in public.

So Michelle offers watered-down, seemingly inoffensive presentations of their family’s beliefs … but the subtext is apparent.

Halloween is other to them and likely seen as intrinsically evil.

For Jinger and Jeremy to participate is a big step away from Jinger’s upbringing.

But these two are known for taking superficial steps to seem more normal and mainstream while still harboring bigoted beliefs.

From unhinged conspiracy theories to anti-abortion rallies to disparaging all other faiths, they’re not that different. They just dress better.

Meanwhile, some fans are concerned about Jinger’s well-being, noting that she seems thin and tired.

It could be anything from disordered eating to the natural side effects of having two young children.

Whatever we think of Jinger and Jeremy’s beliefs, we hope that they are well and that their kids had a lovely Halloween.

Jinger Duggar & Jeremy Vuolo: Hiding Controversial Beliefs to Stay Popular?

Jinger Duggar and Jeremy Vuolo have made great strides to distance themselves — in every sense — from Jim Bob.

They don’t abide by many of Jim Bob’s extreme rules. They live in Los Angeles. Jeremy has directly addressed their differences.

But people, especially public figures, don’t always share their true feelings, not when the truth could cost them money and fans.

When you want to know how the Vuolos really feel, look no further than their weekend plans.

The Duggars have a long history of covering their true natures under a thin, sanitized veneer.

The most obvious example is the active cover up of Josh Duggar’s sex crimes to help him evade justice.

Josh’s history revealed in 2015 — and this year, the full ramifications of that saw Counting On finally, finally canceled by TLC.

But even beyond that, the entire purpose of the Duggar family’s reality career was to offer up an almost palatable promotion of their lifestyle.

They were fundamentalists living on the fringes of society and isolating their children from the real world, yet open to cameras.

The goal was simple: to mask their extreme beliefs on sexuality, on gender roles, on parenting by seeming accessible and almost normal.

But the Duggars were never normal. They’re an abusive family that attends an extreme church and is part of a toxic cult.

Jim Bob and Michelle promote bad people and bad causes, and it’s not a mistake — it’s because they are bad people who support bad causes.

Given how isolated their children were from other people and ideas, it’s no real surprise when the apples don’t fall far from the tree.

Jinger is one such apple, and the geography and superficial freedoms of her life with Jeremy in Los Angeles are just another mask.

She and Jeremy can drink alcohol at brunch. Jinger can bare her arms and her calves and dye her hair blonde.

But that doesn’t mean that she and Jeremy are any better. They’re just more marketable.

This weekend, Jeremy Vuolo will be a speaker at an anti-abortion rally.

He is listed as part of the schedule for the Gospel Life Rally on Saturday.

That on its own is controversial — it’s an entire event organized around opposing some pretty critical fundamental human rights.

Jeremy Vuolo speaker at gospel life rally

But what makes this not just malicious but downright insidious is that Jeremy isn’t exactly promoting it.

He and Jinger love promos — he shares clips from his sermons. They promote their podcast and their brand all of the time.

Yet, with this speaking gig coming up on Saturday, Jeremy’s latest posts are about a podcast, a new pen, and about sports.

The event is no secret, so there’s only one explanation for why Jeremy isn’t hyping it up on social media.

He knows that it would hurt his image with, well, a lot of normal people who don’t share his extreme views.

Most Americans support abortion rights — and Jeremy and Jinger don’t want to alienate three-quarters of the country.

“No mention because they’re actively trying to portray this young, hip, and laid back LA aesthetic,” commented one redditor.

“Meanwhile,” the Reddit denizen continued, “they’re the same bigots they’ve always strived to be.”

And it’s not just about fans, either — it’s about money.

“They want sponsors to see their page and think young hip Christian family, not hateful bigot family,” another wrote.

“People have contacted sponsors before to let them know they’re working with hateful, prejudiced bigots,” the commenter noted.

The redditor added: “Jeremy is trying to avoid that.”

“If they feel so strongly about something they should be loud and proud about it,” another commenter suggested.

“Not that I agree with their beliefs of anti abortion,” the Reddit user clarified.

“But,” the redditor explained, “I really dislike how disingenuous they are about everything and anything.”

Jeremy and Jinger aren’t all that different from Jinger’s parents.

They don’t have the awful perm or the weird clothes or the brood of kids, but they harbor many of the same unsavory beliefs.

Jeremy and Jinger know that if they’re outspoken about them, however, they can’t subtly market themselves as effectively. That’s twisted.

Jeremy Vuolo Blasts Jim Bob Duggar: You Should Have Exposed Josh’s Evil!

Disgraced former reality star Josh Duggar is once again under fire from his own family.

This is not actually the first time that Jeremy Vuolo has thrown shade at Josh.

But Jeremy is also clearly taking aim at Jim Bob with his latest post.

Jim Bob’s focus on “forgiveness” might have made his family more marketable, but it concealed Josh’s evil deeds for way too long.

Taking to Twitter, Jeremy shared a Christian theological quote with obvious implications when it comes to the Duggar family.

“Sometimes our witness to Christ must expose and denounce evil as well as proclaim good news,” the quote began.

The quote concluded: “To be truth, truth must reveal error, and to be good, good must expose evil.”

Jeremy Vuolo tweet - good must expose evil

When it comes to the extended Duggar family, “evil” can mean several things.

But the most obvious thought at the moment is that this is a reference to Josh Duggar.

There is no better word but evil to describe any stage of the sexual abuse of children, from the act to circulating photos and video of it.

Some may argue that Jeremy was simply sharing a random theological quote.

He’s a pastor. He’s a hardcore evangelical. That fits the brand.

But Jeremy hasn’t exactly been silent about his disgraced brother-in-law.

Jeremy and Jinger said that they supported the cancelation of Counting On after TLC finally, finally ended the series.

The spinoff was ostensibly created to keep Josh’s sisters (and victims) on television, but somehow Jim Bob, Michelle, and Anna krept back onto the show.

Like the original show, it was just another means to promote Jim Bob’s twisted worldview while funneling money into his pockets.

We also have to note how specifically this quote addresses Jim Bob and Josh.

The IBLP cult uses its particular interpretation of Christianity to oppress its members, particularly women and girls.

But at the same time, the cult to which the Duggars belong will bend over backwards to make excuses for sexual predators.

Over the years, there have been numerous interviews, discussions, and reports about how Josh’s scandals were treated.

From the beginning, when he was first caught molesting five young girls (including four of his sisters), there was a focus upon one thing:

Forgiveness.

His victims, already placed at his mercy with no education about consent, were forced to forgive him.

The family’s sincere religious beliefs in spiritual redemption were used to force them to accept a predator in their midst.

Years later, when Josh cheated on his wife, that same theology was used to give him yet another blank slate.

Whether someone’s soul is wiped clean of some sort of spiritual debt, real or imagined, is their own business within their own belief system.

But whether someone is a dangerous sexual predator with a taste for and access to extremely young girls is another matter.

Religious beliefs can be very personally important. Child safety must always, always come first.

Whether he was in denial, trying to keep his family “marketable,” or something else, Jim Bob failed catastrophically when it comes to Josh.

He deliberately muddied the waters between a divine forgiveness in his religious and personal forgiveness.

In other words, he focused upon the “good news” to which Jeremy’s quote referred over revealing error or exposing evil.

Jim Bob went to great lengths to not only not expose, but to conceal the evil in their midst.

When Josh’s sex crimes were exposed in 2015, Jim Bob took his daughters on a PR blitz to try to minimize the molestation.

Jeremy’s quote’s meaning goes right to the heart of why Josh’s scandal is not Josh’s alone.

Of course, Jinger’s husband is himself a flawed man and not a genuine moral authority.

“When you boil it down, there are actually only two religions,” he said recently.

“One is the religion of man’s achievements and the other is the religion of Jesus’ achievements,” Jeremy bizarrely claimed.

“The one says you can earn salvation, nirvana, or freedom by what you do,” Jeremy continued.

“The Bible tells us that no one can be saved by keeping works of the law,” he continued.

Jeremy continued: “But only through faith in Jesus Christ, through faith in what Jesus Christ has done in his life – life, death, and resurrection.”

That last part is wholly inoffensive because he’s just explaining how his personal religion and religious beliefs work.

That part is fine.

His claim that there are “only two religions” wasn’t just absurdly incendiary, but also revealed how little he has bothered to understand other faiths.

Not every religion even has “salvation” as a goal or looks to their theology for guidelines on how to live their lives.

But if you view the world through a fundamentalist lens, then perhaps all that you can see is “us vs them” without learning anything about “them.”

So no, Jeremy’s not anyone’s favorite person. But he’s a much better person than Josh — or than Jim Bob.

Jinger Duggar: When I Married Jeremy, I Stopped Believing the Lies

It is no secret that Jinger Duggar has endured some difficult circumstances during her life.

Being raised in an abusive cult, surviving Josh’s teenage sex crimes … that is traumatic and awful.

Jinger didn’t leave her family home and experience a taste of the real world until she was married.

That changed everything — and made her seriously reconsider many of her previously unshakable beliefs.

Jinger Duggar and her husband, Jeremy Vuolo, were married in 2016.

They have recently authored a book together, titled The Hope We Hold.

After many months of building up hype, fans can now learn what they had to say in the book.

The 27-year-old reality star and mother reflected upon what a difference marriage made.

“I’d never lived outside of Arkansas, never moved out of my parents’ house,” Jinger wrote in the book.

She added that she had “never woken up or gone to sleep without the sound of muffled voices around me.”

Privacy, of course, is antithetical to Duggar beliefs, alongside autonomy or a real education.

Their children always shared rooms with each other, acting as constant spies for their parents to report on each other.

It was a huge adjustment for Jinger.

But there was more than appreciating spending time alone — or with her husband — that her new life brought.

And no, it wasn’t just that things were different in Texas (and then California) than in Arkansas.

Jinger began to genuinely question some of her beliefs.

Jinger was only permitted to even reconsider some of what she was taught because she was married.

Jim Bob considers his children to be his property until he trades them away to their husbands.

He does not do this lightly. He makes certain that they pass a litmus test of theological questions.

In the book, Jinger and Jeremy both explain how they come from different religious traditions.

Oh, they both come from conservative Christian backgrounds, but not the exact same strata of fundamentalism.

This could have tanked their relationship chances before they ewere ever allowed to front-hug.

In the book, Jeremy recalled how he had sought Jim Bob’s approval before he could begin a courtship.

At first, he revealed, their different stances on religious matters were “a deal-breaker.”

He did, however, win over Jim Bob — and the rest is history.

Jinger shared in the book how she had previously taken some ideas for granted.

Only after marrying Jeremy did she begin to reconsider her beliefs.

In studying the bible with Jeremy, Jinger “wanted to see if the convictions I’d always held were true.”

Jinger’s reading and studying of her religion’s holy book led her to rethink the “standards that I took as givens.”

One major issue was her family’s insistence upon dressing modestly.

“I realized I wanted to revisit some secondary issues, like not wearing pants,” Jinger wrote.

“I never really questioned it” before that, Jinger admitted in the book.

“Modesty was a huge topic in our house,” she acknowledged.

“And,” Jinger explained, “we believed that skirts instead of pants was a central part of being modest.”

But eventually, some of that programming from her cult upbringing broke down as she was exposed to new ideas.

Jinger came to realize that “modesty is deeper and more profound than wearing skirts instead of pants.”

“[A]s I searched the Scriptures for answers,” she said, “I never found a passage specifically forbidding women from wearing pants.”

Of course, knowing intellectually that she was not theologically barred from wearing pants was not the be-all and end-all.

Actually donning the devil’s leggings — pants — was a daunting step in parting ways with her upbringing.

“I struggled with believing something that was different from my family,” Jinger confessed.