This week, Jill Duggar shared surprising details about her sex life, telling fans about her bedroom games with husband Derick Dillard.

Fans got on her case about “oversharing,” but Jill is clapping back.

“Derick and I are always looking for ways to keep marriage exciting and fun,” Jill recently told her fans and followers.

“We came across the Intimately Us app – it was something I was excited about just for us to use,” she noted.

“It’s a fun and sexy app,” Jill raved. “It has tons of bedroom games just to help keep your marriage alive and romantic, and we have just loved it.”

One user appeared to chastize Jill for discussing what “she does in her private time” with her husband.

“I’m glad you’re excited about your marriage. We that are, are blessed,” the follower wrote.

But they continued: “I would just warn against putting what you may or may not do in your private time as a husband and wife out in the public eye.”

“Per your recommendation I googled marriage dance and chose not to actually click on it,” the follower continued.

They added: “I didn’t want to accidentally see something I didn’t want to see and have it on my computer to possible be an open door for temptation later.”

The comment added: “Or for my daughter to accidentally come across when she borrows my computer.”

“Hey! It is a clean site (so no nudity or models),” Jill assured the worried and extremely prudish commenter.

“But,” she continued, “I totally get wanting to be careful about what your kids are exposed to at young ages!”

“Ours are still little so this isn’t as big of a deal yet for us,” Jill noted. Samuel is two and Israel is five.

Another follower debated the idea of whether there can be such a thing as a “Christian vibrator” or Christian sex toys in general.

Jill did not give much of a reply beyond emojis, but another commenter had a thoughtful remark.

They suggested that what makes a vibrator Christian is not its manufacturer or marketing, but who is using it and how.

That is certainly food for thought for anyone who happens to be a Christian but had previously internalized the idea that sex toys were “other.”

Some within certain denominations might consider any pursuit of an orgasm that is not required to conceive a child within wedlock to be forbidden.

Others are of the religious opinion that marriage is a sacrement that includes passionate and joyful sex, not simply sealing the deal and then breeding.

Sex has been a particularly hot topic in the Dillard world lately.

When a follower asked why the Duggars marry off their kids — like the newly engaged Justin Duggar — at such shockingly young ages, Derick responded.

He told the fan that, well, fundamentalist teens want to have sex.

See, sexuality isn’t only a source of shame, control, and punishment for children unfortunate enough to grow up under toxic purity culture.

It is also the carrot dangled before them — the light at the end of the tunnel — that ensures that they will want to get married before they’re read or even know who they are.

This is what the parents want. That way, the control doesn’t end when their child marries, because now they’re married to someone their parents have selected, all because they wanted to have an orgasm.

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Jill Duggar may be taking this rebellious thing a tad too far.

Over the past few weeks, the former reality star has been telling anyone who will listen — via YouTube and via a revealing interview with People Magazine — that her parents suck.

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Jill has already split from her family and the orthodoxy of her parents in many ways.

It is no secret that she uses birth control. Now, she is explaining how she came to see that there’s nothing wrong with it.

“Growing up, it was ingrained in me …,” Jill Duggar begins in her interview with People.

She continues: “… that if you don’t have as many kids as you’re able to, that there’s something wrong with that.”

Despite the messages of reproduction at all costs that were hammered into her by her parents and their cult, Jill has grown to see things differently.

“But there was a shift in me,” Jill explains.

She says that she came to a place “where I felt like it wasn’t wrong if you decide as a couple that it’s best for you to wait.” 

Jill and Derick are the parents of two children: Israel David, who is 5, and Samuel Scott, who is 3.

Jill gave birth to Israel via C-section. At that time, the doctor advised that she wait at least 18 months before becoming pregnant again.

“Children are a blessing,” Jill affirms.

“But,” she acknowledges, “that doesn’t mean that at all costs you should have as many kids as possible.”

“I think you need to do what’s healthiest,” Jill states.

“And,” she continues, she realized that one needs to do what is “best for your family.”

In her case, that means birth control.

Birth control can take multiple forms, some more sophisticated than others.

Jill says that she and Derick use “non-hormonal birth control,” such as barrier methods.

That means tools like condoms and diaphrams. These tools are not foolproof, of course.

“I don’t expect everyone to understand why we’re making the decisions that we are,” Jill states.

“So,” she reasons, “it’s alright if they don’t agree with me.”

She is mostly referring to her extended family and to fellow members of their cult.

In the world of the Duggars, you don’t kiss, hug, or hold hands with a member of another gender before marriage.

Women are also forbidden from wearing “revealing” clothes — in their twisted world, this means simply showing shoulders or knees.

In fact, Jill and her sisters were tasked with “warning” their brothers to look down at their feet if any woman wearing non-dumpy clothes came by.

Additionally, the Duggars are not supposed to consume non-religious media, they are not allowed to dance, and they are forbidden from drinking alcohol.

Jill no longer lives by many of these strict rules.

Similarly, she is also breaking the rules by using birth control.

Now, by any measure of the rest of America, Jill is still a very traditional, conservative woman.

She is a devout Christian who takes a conservative approach to social issues, including gender roles and the role that Christianity should have in the world.

After all, her husband is known for his abhorrent transphobic Twitter attacks against Jazz Jennings. 

But by the standards of her family, her choosing to live a life more in keeping with that of a normal, free person is a deviation.

That she has enrolled her children in public school, where they can be exposed to peers from different backgrounds, means that these changes can be passed on.

It is heartbreaking that our society allows children to be raised by people like Jim Bob and Michelle. Jill and her many siblings deserved better than what we allowed to happen to them.

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