Jill Duggar Encourages U.S. Wives to Rail Their Husbands Many, Many Times Per Week [UPDATED]

Jill Duggar is apparently full of surprises.

The 28-year old is part of what many consider to be the most famously conservative family around…

… and yet she has taken to her blog in order to offer a number of tips for women on how to maintain a healthy and happy marriage.

The piece of advice garnering the most attention right now? For a very understandable reason?

Duggar encouraging women to sleep with their husband often. Like, very often. Like, a majority of nights in a seven-day week.

Is she saying this because she has a strong sex drive? Or because she thinks this is what men want and it’s the role of women to be subservient at all times?

Scroll down to read a lot from Jill and then arrive at a decision on your own…

1. More Than Sex: How To Love Your Husband

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This is the title of the blog entry penned by Jill that has taken the Internet by surprising storm.

2. So in Love!

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“Five years ago this month, I married the man of my dreams, Derick Michael Dillard,” explained Jill early in this entry. “Some of you may have watched our love story unfold on TV…if you want to read our love story you can click here. Anyways, like most couples when they get married, we were head over heels for each other…and now, nearly five years later, I can happily say that we are still very much in love. ”

3. Newlywed Phase, Schmewlywed Phase

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Jill bristles at the notion that couples should ever be in a “newlywed phase.” She thinks there are ways to ensure husbands and wives are ALWAYS happy and content in their marriage, which is why she has written this piece.

4. Words of Warning

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“I don’t claim to know everything about marriage, or to be presenting some solve-all advice, and I’m only really speaking to wives here, but I hope you find some of these tips to be encouraging!” Jill wrote before delving into all her tips. Are you ready? Let’s go!

5. Have Sex Often!

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“You both need this time together regularly (3-4 times a week is a good start. lol). And when you may not be able to actually have intercourse for a period of time or for health issues, find other ways to have fun and be intimate. Let your spouse know that you’re aways available. Guard against fulfilling sexual desires alone. Be open with your spouse about your desires and change things up to keep it exciting! (Philippians 2:3-4; 1 Corinthians 7:5) If you’re struggling with sex with your spouse, GET HELP! See a doctor and/or licensed counselor and don’t be afraid to get second opinions!”

6. Be Open About Everything

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“Past, present and future! You need to be able to trust each other with the easy and the hard! Secrets are seeds for destruction! (1 Corinthians 10:13) Sometimes there may be seasons of difficulty or you may have to rebuild broken trust. Ask God to help you and get outside help if needed. We aren’t meant to live life in isolation! We need support and community! (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12; Galatians 6:2)”

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The Definitive Duggar Family Tree: A Complete Guide to Courtships and Babies!

Large sections of the Old Testament are devoted to genealogies — lengthy lists of couplings and the biblically-significant offspring that they begat.

Given the Duggars’ love for the Good Book, we’re sure someone in the family has compiled a similar compendium of the courtships and marriages that led to the creation of Jim Bob and Michelle’s many granchildren.

It might seem like it would take a monastic scholar to keep track of the rapid expansion of the Counting On clan, but we managed to create a complete list of the #LittleDuggars without locking ourselves in an abbey with a quill and parchment.

But that’s not to say it was a simple task.

After all, Jim Bob and Michelle have a lot of kids, and those kids are very dedicated to the task of populating Northwest Arkansas with Duggars.

So sit back, grab a Duggar-friendly snack (might we suggest a jar of pickles?) and explore the family tree of the most beloved Baptist brood on reality TV:

1. Meet the Duggars

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The Duggar family seems to get bigger by the day. In fact, the Counting On clan has welcomed so bundles of joy in the past decade that some fans might find it difficult to keep up.

2. Humble Beginnings

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Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar had their first child, Josh, in 1988. Needless to say, they didn’t stop there.

3. Fame Comes Calling

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The family first rose to national prominence with a series of Discovery Health and TLC documentaries that mostly focused on Michelle’s last five deliveries.

4. A Bunch of Stars Are Born

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Viewers couldn’t get enough of the wholesome Arkansas clan, and it wasn’t long before the Duggars had their own show.

5. On the Grow

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Initially titled 17 Kids and Counting, the series documented the adventures and unorthodox customs of the still-expanding Duggar clan.

6. Overlapping Generations

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That expansion occurred in more ways than one, as Jim Bob and Michelle welcomed their youngest child (Josie Duggar, now 9) AFTER welcoming their first grandchild.

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Jill Duggar DEFIES Jim Bob, Celebrates "Demonic" Halloween!

We know that the OG Duggars think that Halloween is for hell-bound sinners and not for members of their fundamentalist cult.

But not all of the married Duggar girls do.

Rebellion is a strong word, but not all abide by Jim Bob’s rules. Case in point: Jill and Derick Dillard made the rounds on Halloween.

Some fans blasted them as hypocrites. Others just noted that they seemed to be cheapskates snagging every holiday freebie that they could get.

“We had a blast. We enjoyed dressing up this evening,” Jill Duggar Dillard announced on Instagram.

She continued: “And going out for some family fall fun and Halloween freebies & deals!”

She shared photos of her with Derick and their boys, on costume, on their adventures.

Jill also provided fans and followers with an itenerary.

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Jill began: “1st stop was @sonicdrivein for some 50 cent corn dogs.”

“2nd stop was to @chipotle for some $4 #booritos,” she continued, adding: “(And no extra charge for the guac tonight!!)”

Jill added: “3rd stop was to @krispykreme for some free donuts.”

She detailed: “(+the hot light was on so they asked us if we wanted the free glazed ones in addition to the free donut of our choice!!)”

It’s a bit of a surprise that Jill and Derick would participate in a holiday so often derided by people who share his belief system.

Halloween has religious, pre-Christian roots, but is largely secular in how it is celebrated by the general public.

The Duggars believe that even fictional portrayals of things like magic and sorcery are part of a “demonic realm.”

So some fans were astonished that Jill would “risk” her children’s spiritual well being by participating in Halloween.

“How is them going to Krispy [Kreme] in costumes celebrating the devil?” one fan asked after a few more diehard Duggar fans commented.

“They dressed up to get freebies and deals,” points out another.

That same comment continues: “It’s no different than dressing up as a cow for the free chicken sandwich at Chic-fil-a each year!”

“Stop judging everything these people do and let them live their lives,” the comment concludes.

Others took aim at precisely that, however — at Jill and Derick using their kids to get free stuff.

One follower admonished them: “Take the poor kids out trick or treating for some real fun, not just so you can get ‘freebies,'”

“So why is it ok to dress up for Halloween to get freebies but not ok to trick or treat??” another asked.

Another follower demanded: “Just buy the donuts geeez!”

“Your boys look adorable!” praises another fan. “This can actually be a very fun holiday. Happy halloween Dillards!”

“Don’t shame a family for trying something new,” a very thought-provoking comment begins.

The comment continues: “You have to remember that she grew up without Halloween, she might be slowly dipping her toes in these new experiences.”

“People go at their own pace if you don’t like how she does things and how she is Learning things then why are you even following her?” the fan writes.

“To get angry at another family? To judge and think you know what her children need?” the fan continues.

“You cannot get mad at two adults enjoying a night out with their children,” the commenter insists.

The comment continues: “And if freebies come with it then so be it. I bet alot of other family’s were doing the same thing here was.”

“But why are you not judging them?” the fan concludes.

Other fans weren’t angry or defensive … just deeply curious.

“How does celebrating Halloween align with your religious views?” one fan asks.

The fan clarifies: “Not meaning such in a way to generate conflict… genuinely interested in hearing the rationales.”

(As a bit of a religion nerd, I’m curious to hear what they would say for myself.)

Jill Duggar Injured While Shopping With Kids, Video Reveals

Clearly, Jill Duggar Dillard has had better weeks.

First, she shared a photo of a baby casket, totally out of the blue, and got some pretty intense backlash from some upset fans.

Now, she was just trying to run some simple errands when she got injured. And yes, there’s video. Take a look below:

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“So, this happened today,” Jill Duggar’s video, shared to her Instagram Stories, begins.

“Love Sam’s food, but … ” she writes in the captions.

“Ouch, ya’ll,” Jill declares, explaining: “I rammed my shin into that bar on the cart.”

If you’re not familiar with what she means, don’t worry, both a snap below and the video itself illustrate what she means.

“WHY does it stick out so far?” she laments.

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The captions on screen continue along with the video.

“Was so trying to act like I wasn’t limping while I wanted to cry,” Jill confesses.

“I think it hurts worse the older you get,” she assesses.

Jill continues: “I think my mom used to say that, lol.”

We trust that she’ll understand if we’re not amused by anything that Michelle Duggar might say about children experiencing pain.

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“And,” she adds in a fainter note. “I need to shave lol.”

“This video doesn’t do it justice,” Jill admits.

“Hurts so bad,” she expresses.

Jill describes her injury: “And has a raised bump and turned blue/green right away.”

Just because it’s not visible on camera doesn’t mean that it doesn’t hurt.

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Speaking to the camera during the video, Jill admits that she hasn’t been to Sam’s in a while.

She finds the carts “super tall,” which is pretty standard for a short person to say. But the bar underneath is what hit her shins.

Gotta be honest, I’ve had this happen to me before, if not recently, and it is every bit as agonizing as Jill suggests.

When a metal bar strikes your shin, it is almost directly hitting your bone.

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So what is the solution to this? Most shoppers simply have to adapt and learn that it is there as a hazard.

But it sounds like Jill is hoping that maybe Sam’s will change their carts.

One solution would be to raise the bar just a few inches, which would vastly lower the odds of shin-strikes like the one that she experienced.

By raising that bar, the person’s legs would have to be that much closer to the cart in order to hit it. Injuries would go way down.

It would also decrease the potential volume of the cart in terms of carrying groceries. A few inches can go a long way.

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Jill may of course face criticism for shopping at a chain notorious for union-busting and for allegedly being anti-worker.

(Confession: though I’ve never been in a Sam’s Club, I do order their toilet paper in bulk because it’s the best! I apologize for my own weakness)

But hopefully critics will considering Jill’s injury to be, like, karma or at least a mitigating factor.

Remember that not all communities have shopping options, and some entire towns rely upon Wal-Mart and Sam’s for most of their shopping.

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Duggar Daughters’ Raciest Outfits: What Dress Code, Jim Bob?!

The ladies of the Duggar family are known for subservience and commitment to their parents’ strict set of moral guidelines.

But they’re also young, famous women.

Women branching out on their own in a world where female independence is valued much more than it was in the day.

And the daughters of Jim Bob and Michelle seem to take pleasure in expressing their newfound freedom through fashion.

The acts of sartorial rebellion began when Jinger Duggar started wearing pants, and it’s been escalating from there.

Granted, we have a long ways to go.

Rebellion is modest in Duggars’ world. Still, progress is progress. See some of J-squad’s most defiant outfits below:

1. The Pants Dance

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Think Duggar fans were upset to see Jinger carrying a gun? Ha! It was her PANTS that caught them off-guard, as Duggar women typically favor floor-length skirts no matter what sort of activity they’re engaged in.

2. The Swimsuit Issue

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Of course, Jinger’s not the only one who’s capable of flouting her family’s rules in extremely mild fashion. Here, Jessa Duggar rocks the fundamentalist version of swimwear.

3. Workout Skirt

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And there was a time when Jessa stuck to her family’s “modest” dress code even while working out. It’s worth noting, however, that she’s actually baring some calf here, which makes this quite a racy get-up by Duggar standards.

4. Liberated Jill

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These days, the Duggar gals are allowed a bit more leeway, as evidenced by Jill’s decision to rock pants in public — while addressing a group of young women, no less!

5. Short Stuff

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Much of that freedom is due to the 2017 Jinger Rebellion, which culminated in the new mom publicly sporting shorts.

6. Jinger in Tights, Jill in Jeans

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Recently, Jill and Jinger posed for a pic together, and fans were quick to notice that the sisters were defying their parents by wearing jeans and tights, respectively.

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